Opinions about Shower Sex?

My boyfriend keeps jokingly pushing me for shower sex. I've told him no a million time because I'm insecure about my body. He says "I've seen you naked, what's the big deal?" thing, but that's either when it's mostly dark or I'm in a bra and undies... He's never seen me full on naked in the light. (We've been dating for just over a year.) Is there any reason I should be afraid to do this? Or even just shower with him? I mean he says I'm beautiful and all and I want to shower with him, but I think I'm fat... even though he says I'm not. Guys, is it really that appealing to shower with a girl? Is it really "hot" and stuff like my boyfriend says it would be? Girls, have you ever showered with your man or did you feel insecure about it? Let me know! :)
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I shower with my bf all the time. We've been together 9 months now and have been living together for just over 2 months. At the beginning of our relationship I was extremely self conscience about my body, and I still am a little bit when we shower together, but he keeps telling me he loves me, and my (as I call them) wobbly bits. The more you get naked in front of him in the light, the more comfortable to gradually become and it gets easier.

    I'm still not 100% comfortable being naked in front of my bf, but I still do it.

    Just give it a go.

  • Yes.. Some guys find it hot.. Because what guy wouldn't love seeing his woman in the shower with water pouring down on her.. Your skin glistens when water hits it..
    As much as you are really insecure about yourself your partner has reassured you about it.. If it bothers you remind him it makes you feel to exposed.. But start making changes and try to change that habit..

    • Thanks :) I'll try.

    • Aslong as you try he should be ok with that.. And it's ok hun ☺️

    • Aww thanks for MH sweetpea ☺️

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  • OH MY GOSH I HATE SHOWER SEX.

    Okay, well firstly, I'm super confident, so that isn't the problem. The problem is using water as lubrication is the most unsatisfying and unpleasant sensation for both the guy and the girl. Instead of that lovely minimal friction you get, you get the feeling of rubbing two wet rubber balloons together.

    It sucks.

    • Ouch, is it really that bad? O. e

    • It doesn't hurt, it's just... it doesn't feel pleasurable at all :( it's just this awkward wet rubber on wet rubber feeling -__-

    • I've never heard it described in this way, but yes you are right, it kind of is like that. Its not so bad once he's in though

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'd suggest you do whatever you need to, up to and including some counseling, to get past being so self conscious about your body. Also, move more, eat less, get some exercise and get back that girlish figure. In the meantime, I'd start having sex with the lights on and see if he shies away from you. I seriously doubt he will. He's into you. That's what's important.

  • Hot in concept, complicated in execution. However, you seriously should stop being insecure about your body around him because that is an extreme put off over time. It means you don't trust your own partner, after all.

    • I trust him... I just don't like the way I look... but if he does, should I just not worry about it and go for it you think?

    • Yes.

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  • i think it's SO effing hot.
    a man pushing for it on the other hand, is a complete turn off.
    i think he needs to understand that u will do it only when ur ready. if ur not ready dont do it, because it will simply ruin the moment for u.

    iv never done it but i guess if i felt insecure about it i would make it perfectly clear that it wouldn't happen until i was comfortable, and he'd need to respect that or gtfo.

  • Yeah I have to have sex in the dark. Hahaha

  • I have showered with my boyfriend twice. The only thing I hate is that he always only wants to wash my boobs for me and my butt for me.

  • i'd do it only in summertime basically. during winter i don't wanna stay in shower for long LOL

  • Ill tell you right now he;s seen you naked and probably loves how you look.

  • Lol nope. I'm in the same boat as you. I'm not secure enough with my body to have shower sex. I don't doubt that it would be hot tho.

  • Seems like you need to resolve some insecurity issues first.

    • I know :/ I'm just not sure I'm ever going to get over my insecurity issues even if I looked like a supermodel..

    • Not with that attitude. Perhaps you can look into meditation or other forms of self-help. No sense in going through life with so much anxiety about the suit you're trapped in.

    • Touche... I need a mental makeover lol Thanks.

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  • Intercourse is awkward and her wetness washes away. On the other hand, intimacy can be a lot of fun. My SO will end up with the cleanest boobs and best rinsed (no soap) V in town.

  • Then get some candles in the bathroom turn the lights on and go for it. The flaws your worried about he obviously doesn't feel the same way you do about them cause if he did he wouldn't keep trying to get you in the shower

  • I have both showerd and bathed.

  • this is crazy... how can you have sex with somebody you are ashamed of? how old are you?

    • I'm not ashamed of him... I never said that. I'm 21. I'm insecure about my own looks...

    • Where in the question if description does she say that she's ashamed of him or him of her?

    • Or* description

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  • My opinion. I've had shower sex before and it's awesome! Just the feeling being with the girl, we're both wet makes it sexy and sexual. I'd say try it. You might like it

  • Being in the shower with your SO can be a lot of fun. Yes sex in the shower can be diffcult, so thats where it can start, but it doesn't have to end there. There's something about being in there together, warm water running down your bodies, steam filling the room, soaping each other up as you kiss. But he also needs to understand your issues, not push for it and let it happen when you're ready.

  • its hard to find a good position depending on height dfference because you'll be standing... other than doggy which you can do outvof the shower.