Option on Batchelor/Bachelorette partys?

[dinojames22]

[Lliam]

It depends on what the party is like. If it's just you and your close friends having fun and celebrating your upcoming wedding, it's great.
But if there is sexuality involved, then it's not cool unless they are just giving you honeymoon gifts, making jokes and laughing about what sexual fun you are going to have when you get married.

Why would a guy go to a strip club or something like that with his friends when he's about to marry the love of his life? It's like regretting your last day of freedom. It's cheating on your fiance. Why would you be getting married if you wanted that kind of "freedom"?
And the same goes for women who do all kinds of horny, sexual shit before they get married.
People who do that are immature dumb asses, and so are their friends.

[PositiveFlight]

I think it shows a complete and total lack of maturity which is critical for taking marriage serious and protecting the sacred nature of the union between man and woman!

Such parties also show a complete lack of respect toward a spouse to be. It’s quite evident that the person is not willing to give up childish and disrespectful traits, and must somehow get it out of their system “one last time.“ If you haven’t grown up and wised up by now, you are not going to! You are going to cause your spouse great pain.

[_Maya_]

I have no issue with them. I have only had one friend get married so far and I did go to hers. It was fun. I met some of her other friends I hadn't know before. It was just a girl's night out. We went to a bigger city than the one we live in for a Saturday/Saturday night. I mean there isn't really too much different than if we went out just as a group of friends any other time. This was just to celebrate her getting married and there was more of us in the group.

[usernamelessness]

Being judgmental again but to me they seem profoundly stupid and confusing. I can’t speak for bachelorette parties but bachelor parties I’ve never understood.

You’re about to marry the love of your life, and you celebrate it by… seeing some other woman/women sexually.

If I still wanted to do that, I wouldn’t get in a relationship. But that’s just me. Some people see things very different and I just don’t understand them.

[Alexz0]

They're amazing fun.