Guys, Oral sex: Give or receive?

[Anonymous]

[nightdrot]

That is a really close call. Oral sex is something that we both enjoy and it actually means something to me.

My girlfriend and I tend to a rather primal sex. Not in the BDSM sense, but in a very natural way. We are like two animals breeding in a field, with licking and even some biting and scratching and oral sex is very much part of that.

The funny part is that it is very raw but also deeply intimate. There we are, just us. Naked and fully sharing and giving to each other and totally accepting each other as we are. No pretenses.

So when my girlfriend sucks me there is just this intense feeling. It is not only raw and animal - and in a sense she is submitting to me - but when I come and she swallows it is like she is accepting the most elemental thing I as a man can give her.

My muscles are tensing and spasming and my whole focus is on my penis and how warm and wet it feels and then I release the most basic thing I can give her. Then my body relaxes and I feel totally wanted and accepted. If she then shares my cum with me in a deep passionate kiss, it is incredibly deep and intimate.

That all said, I actually prefer giving better. When I go down on my girlfriend and she helplessly and instinctively spreads her legs and shows me that warm wet pussy. Then she squirms and moans and gasps and in that I see not only her pleasure but I also feel every ounce the dominant male.

My girlfriend is totally helpless before me and is totally lost in the moment. Frankly, it wildly turns me on to see that and even feeling my tongue and that warm wet skin. Yikes!

Sorry to be so graphic. (You might be able to tell, girlfriend and I had a good night last night after we got the kids to bed.) It really is a close call - but seeing my girlfriend so totally lost in her pleasure ends up feeling better than almost anything other than sex itself.

We are sexual animals - and that is pretty animal.

[cicchis0]

YES, PLEASE!

They each have their merits and they are both great.

[markscott]

Both.

[gusJAY]

Same time... if I have to choose then receive but only if it's daily. Otherwise same time

[Internarchitect]

Give first, then maybe receive, but don’t have to.

[SjE78]

why not both :) I like to give as much as i like to recieve

[Dargil]

Both but I actually enjoy giving more.

[winterfox10]

Why not both?

[runforyourlife]

give

[Prime_Sol]

Receive only.

[TheAceholeSupreme666]

Both...

[Trooper205]

GIVE! GIVE! GIVE!! I would much rather Experience the pleasure of Cunnilingus over the feeling of Fellatio. A wet, dripping lovely pussy in my mouth is MUCH preferred!