Orgasm & Peeing? What the HECK?

So every time I masturbate (clitoral stimulation), I usually end up peeing. That's so embarassing, so if I let my boyfriend give me oral, that's going to HAPPEN>? I've tried achieving orgasm by penetration (masturbation toy) and clitorial stimulation and it worked, I was clenching down there and totally felt like an orgasm, and no pee. But tonight I did pee. I was rubbing my clit, had a little penetration, then just did clit stimulation and my body was SHAKING, my legs were curled and I was moaning then poof out comes pee trinkling down and onto my sheets ! I smelled it. It's urine. -__- But it felt like an orgasm.. So am I WEIRD for peeing, because I feel weird. Help! TIPS please! I'm in dire need. It makes me self concious and I want my boyfriend to go down on me but not if I'm going to pee!
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Not sure if its actually pee but it smells light and odd. I assume its pee* I haven't seen a color yet. Because lights usually dark when I'm masturbating. Doesnt smell as strong as pee tho like when I pee in the bathroom.
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  • I read your concerns about peeing during orgasm and I wanted to help put your mind at ease. I have done the same thing ever since I started masturbating at the very young age of 9. I always thought I was a freak or at the least broken in some way. My first husband knew nothing about this because I never let him know. My current husband and I share everything. This is one of his favorite things. He always wants me to straddle his face and cum, or pee, all over him. This is a very common thing for men to like. I know this now in all my years of researching this subject. Talk to your man. If he isn't into it, try to control it or find a man who is. Chances are he is going to love it and want it every day. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Celebrate the amazing woman you are and let yourself be seen for who you are. Good luck sweetheart.

  • A couple of questions:

    Are you new to orgasms?

    If so - it could just be that your body needs time to adjust to all the pressure it's being put under during orgasm. For the first few months after I started masturbating, I had issues with this too, but your body gradually adjusts and it won't happen any more.

    Are you stimulating your urethra rather than your clitoris...or perhaps both?

    Your urethra (where pee comes out) is really sensitive, and for some people rubbing on them can stimulate a flow of urine.

    Hope that helped - it's not anything to bee too concerned about, so ignore those saying you're abnormal.

    • Yes, I'm new to them. I've only had sex once for a few minutes (he took my virginity) and we stopped due to it being uncomfortable but we've done other things, I haven't let him perform oral because of this problem.. I stimulate above the clit (at least that's what I think It is. Lol.) Its not my uretha. I looked at a diagram before and it pointed out the clit, and everything and that's what I'm rubbing. It's all the way at the top, and I rub above it. I know my uretha is below it.

    • I dare say if you're new to orgasms, then it's seriously just your body adjusting - especially if you're having great orgasms. If you're really concerned, I guess see a doctor - but it's really nothing to be worried about like everyone's making it out to be. I know a few girls who've had this issue (myself included) and it right's itself over time. :)

    • Thanks. I need to go gt checked anyways I haven't been to the doctor in 2 years. I don't have any insurance, I need to get osme then go. Thanks a lot hun!

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  • Hmmm that isn't peeing just ejaculation. When you rub your clit or finger your vaginal opening, colorless and neat liquid appears in your vaginal hole. This is explicitly normal and each woman has this orgasm type and finally a water is seen in the vaginal region.

    There's no difference between rubbing or penetrating, vaginal ejaculation (due to the orgasm) occurs in result of both masturbation types.

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  • This is a fairly common problem, called Coital Incontinence or sometimes Sexual Urinary Incontinence. More or less, they just advise women to reduce liquid intake before sex and to urinate before sex. Kegel exercises may also help.

  • Well, you could find a guy that likes golden showers! ;)

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  • You need to go see a doctor about that...

    Cuz that's not normal. Obviously.

    • Female ejaculate can actually develop a smell depending on diet... If it's not a golden color, it's probably female ejaculate.

    • Thank you

  • It could be squirting -- female ejaculation which might be partly urine. But your boyfriend should feel good that he gave you so much pleasure, you weren't able to contain it. If it doesn't bother him, it shouldn't bother you.

  • If it really is pee (as opposed to female ejaculate) you need to see a doctor about it.

    • why? I mean is that a sign of a disease or std or something?

    • Not being able to control when you pee is called incontinence. I don't know if it is related to any diseases, but it is usually considered to be a problem in itself. I can't tell you for sure whether this is your problem, but if you are worried about it you definitely should get checked out. What makes you so sure it is pee? Is it yellow? If it is not yellow, it is probably ejaculate, not pee. But you need to ask a doctor, because I am not one.

    • Honestly I don't know what color it is. I got some on my white sheet and my blanket and it was just like a water stain I guess but it smelled different. Maybe like light pee or something not as strong as pee when I actually urinate in the bathroom.

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  • Um maybe try again this time making sure to go to the bathroom beforehand? :|

  • Hmm that's a weird one. If you are sure it is not female ejaculation then I would go to the doctor :/

  • It's not pee. You are squirting. It comes from the skenes gland behind the g-spot.
    The reason it may have smelled a little like pee is because there may have been trace amounts of pee left in the urethra and when you squirted it pushed that out with it. They both come from the same hole.

  • There's a difference between "mung" (the clear liquid that comes out when a girl squirts) and urine. If you're experiencing the later, then I would say it's time to see your gynecologist.

  • I've heard you can do kegels to control that

  • that happens to me too!

    I always go to the toilet beforehand - and last I looked it up, it should be ejaculation and not pee.

    like it comes out like pee, but its apparently a different colour..

  • you jizzed all over the place!

    its not pee

  • So every time I masturbate (clitoral stimulation), I usually end up peeing. That's so embarrassing, so if I let my boyfriend give me oral, that's going to HAPPEN>?
    Yes, it will. Plan ahead a little and pee if you think you will be receiving oral. You won't pee if you don't have any on hand. If there's a little, he won't notice it.

  • I think people need to talk to their lovers more...Why don't you ask him? Don't you want to know whether he finds it disgusting or is dying to have you pee in his face?

  • There are a lot of us that REALLY like female pee and others that like squirt. Males that don't like pee or squirt frequently won't do down on their females. It really all depends on the male. I certainly don't see anything disgusting about pee or squirt.

  • Well... i think it is all normal...
    How is your bladder? Have you got a strong one?
    You seem to be young, you should not have any problem in holding the pee in...
    Do you drink alot?
    How often do you feel the need to pee...
    Are you able to hold it in for a long time?
    ... If you are able to do so. .. Don't worry... you are just cumming

  • u need to go to the Doctor..

  • Just pee in his mouth and see what he does

  • Don't be so conscious about it I personally find it very sexy

    • You find peeing sexy, really? I would think it's disgusting to men.

    • Depends but what you're describing sounds sexy

    • A woman who feels comfortable enough to let herself go and holds nothing back while getting busy is sexy as hell! A little pee isn't a problem.

  • i wish I could find a girl that would pee while I was going down on her

    • Have you asked any? Granted that I have been selective who I asked and only asked girls that I was dating steady, but I have never been refused. I am sure that there are some females that there's no talking to but my experience gives me a very positive view of the opposite gender . btw..the girls that tried it with me said they thought it was hot.

  • If you look it up, you'll find that not only is that normal, but odds are that it ISN'T pee, but ejaculate. They come out of the same opening, just like in men, but is less well-known about, so girls tend to freak when it happens. However, your body is technically INCAPABLE of urinating when you're arroused, because it causes the opening to be constricted from whence the urine comes out, allowing only sexual fluids to be released. (Kind of like how you can breathe or swallow water, but not both at the same time.)

  • Ask your boyfriend. If its sweet tasting it ain't pee.

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