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Other than cumming what feels best to you during a blow-job?

I've been dating my boyfriend about two months now and we've been taking things kind of slow other than just kissing or feeling up on each other. Tonight I want to give him our first blowjob together but I'm a little anxious about doing it. I've given blowjobs in the past to ex boyfriends but I've never been any good at it, I could barely get much farther down then just the tip without gagging and I had no technique and have only made a guy finish once from a blow job but I think that's just because I was using my hand a lot. I don't want to sound weird here, but for the last six months I've been single I've been practicing my blowjobs on my dildo and ever since we started dating I've been practicing almost every night trying different moves and rhythms. I feel like I've been doing pretty good at it although my dildo does not show much expression lol but I have gotten to where I can swallow the whole thing without gagging and it's about 7 inches long. Tonight I want to share that experience with my boyfriend so I'm wondering if there are any techniques that feels the best to you?
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  • Cupping the balls and pressing down between the balls and anal in short 1second intervals periodically can help improve his experience. Also, don't suck on the balls; it's actually quite uncomfortable for a guy; sometimes even painful unless don't extra soft. Licking is fine.

    Don't keep on doing the exact same thing over and over; he will desensitize to the same movements if done repeatedly. Switch between sucking, licking, hand job, ball message, and visual stimulation. Visual stimulation meaning eye contact, teasing, smiling, touching/rubbing yourself.

    When he seems to be getting close to finishing, starts pulsing and or muscle spasms, go hard. If he's not large, full on hand job with visual stimulation like smiling with anticipation is best. If he's big enough give him a hand job mixed with sucking only the tip.

    p. s. don't stop until he tells you to stop due to sensitivity.

  • Don't worry too much about getting past head, that is where sensation is. Use your hand on shaft and even head. Use psychology as much as physiology. Surprise him, use teeth gently. Tell him you want him to fuck your mouth instead of give him BJ. If you can successfully adopt a role that's really down and dirty- like you need to suck him (it doesn't hurt if he thinks your obsessed w/ sucking cock-not just his.

    Grab his ass w/ one hand and pull him towards you like you are turned on by doing it. If your comfortable doing this slide a finger along his crack, massage his starfish and when he's close to coming, stick a well lubed finger up his ass.

    Use your thumb to stroke underneath the head, very sensitive and often ignored

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  • Seriously, despite what you may hear about this or that "technique," the hottest thing is just to be really into it. Make eye contact. Act like you really want to be doing it. You don't have to deep throat to give a great bj. Use lots of spit, change up what you're doing from time to time, give yourself breaks, and play with his balls. Don't put pressure on yourself to give the "perfect" bj. You don't have to.

  • a women's lips and toungue feel s great on me

  • Honestly your mouth only needs to work the head and first half of his shaft. butuu use your hands on lower half. as well as plying with his balls is a hit. I love eye contact throught the whole BJ.
    Remember up and down motjons continuely untill he cummmmms. keep the rythem going with your mouth. but if mouth gets tired stroke the head mostly but whole shaft too. g keep your mouth and his penis wet a. d slippery. . these are a few suggestions. also when sucking on the cock and balls. complimate both.
    when he is finished cumming. for added extasy. continue stroking his swollen head gently but with a fairly tight grip. make sure it is wett using a. ombination of his cumm and your saliva.. you will have him rolling and squirming. ..

  • 2 months is slow? wow.

  • Just having her mouth around it, that's all it needs

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