Overheard my Dad's friends talk dirty about me. Should I be appalled and disgusted or feel validated and complimented?

Overheard my Dads friends talk dirty about me. Should I be appalled and disgusted or feel validated and complimented?

One remarked that he'd "smash my backdoor in". Another said he'd "plow me until next Thursday". The husband of the couple I babysit for said "I wouldn't mind her sitting on my face". "Tight" was a word they kept using repeatedly.

Truthfully I can of liked that they were talking about me like this.

Appalled and disgusted
Vote A
Validated and complimented
Vote B
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Honestly take it how ever you want, certain type of guys talk like that all the time even if no one was overhearing.

    It's good that you took it lightly and you liked it but I wouldn't suggest acting on it with them if that is what you are thinking.

    I mean it's good to feel desired and attractive but they just want to bang your bones because you are fresh young meat so to speak, sorry to put it bluntly.

    And if you are up for just casual sex then best to find someone round your own age who will treat you with a little bit more dignity.

  • So you overheard them but they didn't say anything like that to you?

    It would be HIGHLY inappropriate to say something like that to you. But if they were just making lewd, joking comments to each other, it's more of a compliment. Boys will be boys at any age. They were just voicing admiration. As long as they are respectful to you, you're good.

    The choice of how to react to what you heard is up to you. So wouldn't you rather feel validated, complimented and proud of your appearance?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Men having an opinion is not an odd thing. People's conversations or thoughts don't need to be controlled, just because YOU don't like it. If they told you that they would tongue your ass, THEN you can be offended, but if they were privately talking amongst themselves, then you have no right. Since you liked their thoughts, it's totally cool anyway. It's not up to your dad either.

  • Liking disgusting crap like that is totally a guy thing to do! I’d love to know how he knew that you were “tight” if you had clothes on? Strike that, I actually do NOT want to know. Every word you typed was so disrespectful, and yet you liked it? It’s no wonder that men treat you with disrespect given how little you respect yourself if you actually did like that?

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  • I voted A. You are a beautiful woman yet you deserve respect. Saying things such as this is disgusting and degrading. The world has lost all respect for womanhood.

  • Feel however you feel, but they sound kinda like low class guys that would do something nasty like video you changing without your consent or something.

    Saying that your buddy's daughter is hot is one thing, but saying you want to "Smash her back door in etc." is a bit overboard and they need to calm the fuck down in my opinion.

    • He means he likes my ass right?

    • If he would've just said "I like her ass" to me that sound's reasonable. He said that he wants to "Punch your back door in" which is basically fucking you in the ass hard. Again, you're his buddy's daughter and it sounds a bit disrespectful and aggressive to me. Just my opinion.

  • If that picture is you, you look awfully young. But I gotta tell you, you’re a very pretty girl!

  • You should feel uncomfortable and appalled. I think you should also tell your dad what you heard.


    People shouldn’t be saying perverted stuff behind your back. That’s disgusting and uncalled for.


    I know a bunch of horny guys are on here defending it. But I’m telling you straight up. It’s not normal

  • The way YOU feel about it is all that matters. Personally, I cannot imagine, me saying anything like that, regarding the daughter of a friend of mine, and I would bite my tongue off, before I would ever say anything like that. Personally, I find that kind of talk about you, from an 'alleged friend" of your father, is the most low brow, trailer trash talk I have ever heard. Were I your father, I would have to tear those guys faces off for talking that way about my daughter

  • It's probably quite normal to feel both disgusted and validated. Who doesn't like feeling HOT while, at the same time, wondering why they think I'm a slut.

  • Was your dad with them?

    • God no. That'd be beyond weird

  • For the amount of money he's paying you, you should show a bit more willingness to please. My babysitter used to work extra hours helping me practice my drink mixing and oral sex skills.

  • I would take tht as compliment

  • Hey there Anonymous,

    Take this as a complement. The fact these older men were talking dirty about you means that they find you very attractive and I can see why judging by your full body photo 📸 above.

    Good on you for taking this in your stride and not feeling offended by their comments 😊🙏

    • Full body. Are you saying I'm fat?

    • Full body photo as in we can see your whole body not just your face. You have a beautiful physique.

  • Tell your dad. They're not his friends.

  • Lol work on your trolling skills

  • It's your choice. Some people would find it revolting and some would find it so hot they'd have to run to a room and flick the bean. If you think about it, it's got to do wonders for your confidence and show how attractive you are to others.

  • I can relate…I felt flattered but didn’t let them know it…

    • Oh they knew it

    • @Xtendable how do you know…?

    • Because my colleagues couldn’t stop talking about you

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  • If you like it than go for it.

  • wack, disgusting af
    wack, disgusting af
  • That's disgusting. Most people on this app only talk about sex and fantasis. Don't listen to them

  • Get some self esteem if you think these are compliments, you clearly don't understand us men.

  • Kind of weird that they're old enough to be your father.

  • If I were the dad I honestly would be proud that other men find my daughter attractive.

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