Pale, big areola's and pink nipples?

[Anonymous]

So, I am a 36DD and the title basically says it all. I feel very insecure about my breasts. I feel like they are a turn off. My nipples aren't like what I see on the internet. What I see on the internet are plump breasts that have high nipples. Their areola's don't blend in with their skin. I have felt very insecure about my breasts ever since I was a kid. I always had the biggest boobs in school, and I always got asked out because of them. I never said yes of course, but now, if I ever were to have sex at this point, I feel like I would be a one night stand due to my breasts. This probably doesn't even make any sense. I really need some sense of comfort or reassurance right now or something. Am I being dramatic or what?

[raven6933]

No you're not being dramatic, however you are letting society dictate what is normal. If it should turn into a one night stand then it's their loss not yours. Society thinks they know what everyone wants and they are wrong not with just this but a lot of other things as well. When the right person comes along they will not care if they are blue with purple nipples. So long as there is nothing wrong medically. Stop looking at other women that they put up. You are you and that makes you unique so just relax and enjoy life.

[Massageman]

You're not being "dramatic", you are just over-thinking things and worrying about things that you probably do NOT need to worry about.

Guys are guys. We like girls. We like breasts. We like butts. They don't have to look like the pix- they won't- we do not come Photoshopped in real life! As long as the parts are stuck onto a nice gal, no problem: we will adapt!

If a gal is friendly, has a reasonably good sense of humor, can hold up her end of a conversation, isn't just one-dimensional (that is- has hobbies, interests, goals in life and isn't just a brainless lump of flesh), then most guys will be able to deal with her wonderfully individualized parts.

[abc3643]

1. Yours are fine. Pink is actually very common and often desired!

2. Nipples permanently darken once a woman becomes pregnant.
www.verywellfamily.com/breastfeeding-the-areola-431668

[abc3643]

You will NOT be rejected because of those boobs/nipples...

[TadCurious]

Your areolas are simply one of many perfectly normal variations in the way areolas can look. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

[Reaperbot666]

if a guy truly cares for you. he won't care what size/shape/color your breasts/areolas are. so long as they are natural and you enjoy them yourself.

[bowenw]

All nipples are beautiful. All boobs are good. Some guys love huge areolas others prefer small. Some prefer puffy nipples others don't. Most don't care. If it's a deal breaker for a guy he's not worth it.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

I don’t get it pink sounds good

[ColHathi]

I have no idea what to say :/ I'm sure they can't be that bad. Boobs are boobs, and boobs are great always. No matter what.

[Bidensucks2020]

Guys aren't attracted to those

[raven6933]

That would be incorrect

[hellacray]

You're fine

[Pejtu]

U Are dramatic yes

[lukevas]

I don't think this should be an issue you should stress about. Boobs are always different, the ones you see on the internet are like 1% of what they all look like. And many of those nipples are from surgery

[Neverhirny]

I would love To see your boobs they sound perfect and if i were your age and you liked me i wouldn't be you just for your huge perfect boobs

[Wise4myage]

Your problem has more to do with a lack of self confidence than it does about the color or size of your areola's and nipples. Guys love big boobs and don't care about such things as much as girls like to think they do.

[DreamCatchcer]

Sounds like you have nice breasts

[Trooper205]

DO NOT compare yourself to the internet! It's too one-sided on how people see Beauty. I can't look at tiny areolas and call them perfect. No, the big ones are SO much better! It's not just me, I'm certain! There could be countless Men who feel the same!

[TallAnon]

I'm sure you're fine, don't worry about it ^^

[Valnac]

Those tits of yours are what you were born with. Be proud of them. Show them off because you love them.
They are part of you sexuality and femininity.
Wear bras and tops that accentuates them.
I garuntee that when you take your clothes off, all a guy sees is pretty tittys

[NYlatefun]

So, first of all, I think you have very nice breasts, based on your description, any guys would really like them. The color blending is actually not bad, they can look sexy. But I do think it’s a fair concern that guys may just want to have sex with you, but at the end of the day is up to you to decide who you sleep with and who not to. I think you should clearly set your boundaries so guys you go out with know that you’re looking for something serious and that you won’t have sex on the first or second or third date, whatever you decide. You should look at it as an opportunity rather than a challenge. Im sure many guys would love to be with you.

[CubaPirate]

Quite the opposite, I find that a real turn on tbh

[michael1469]

We need pictures... for science of course.

[gandolph3]

If your nipples are a deal breaker you don't want him anyway