Pay attention to your children

Pay attention to your children

⚠ Pay attention to your children 👇

1. Never let your baby sit on anyone's lap, no matter what happens, no matter who is a relative.

2. Never change clothes in front of children when they are in a diaper.

3. Never allow an adult to use the words ``my wife'' or ``husband'' to your child.

4. Whenever your kids play alone you should know what they play. Children are often abused by adults.

5. Never send a child to a man or woman with whom he does not like to go, and also be careful where he starts to go a little too much.

6. If the child suddenly starts to be silent, listen to him carefully, talk to him and understand why he is doing this.

7. After a certain age, it is important to give children the right information about sex, otherwise society and porn will fill their minds with garbage about sex, especially boys' minds towards girls.

8. Pay special attention to what children are seeing.

9. Monitor cable, Internet access to adult information and bad people.

10. Openly tell your children after the age of three about the cleanliness of the body parts and also that no other person should ever touch them.

11. Keep away from children such movies, books, songs, friends, family which will disturb the children mentally.

12. Get used to understanding natural thinking in a scientific way in children, don't influence their thinking by talking about God, devotion, father, devil, soul, ghost, ghost, witchcraft, etc., often some people do these things.

13. If the child complains about a particular person, never send it back to him and always think why he is doing this.

14. Never tell, or let anyone else tell, sexual acts, talk, or double meaning jokes in front of children.

Children understand quickly. If they don't understand these things will annoy them when they grow up. Especially when such a thing has been done by a close relative.

16. Extramarital relationships have the worst effect on children. People who have these relationships often meet with children in front of them or pretending to be asleep. What do they think he knows about it? But these relationships leave a bad impact on both boys and girls. Not only on their confidence but on their mental health and about sex, I don't know what is bound in their mind.

Keep these things in mind as much as possible.

Always remember any "suffering from one incident will last a lifetime..."

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well it could be all good that u just preached about it so to sum it all one is that our kids are our shadow and most to be right behind our foot step and they act 3 x acting to be an adult that got developing minds that don’t forget most Krazy and how want the return when get old old and there only person take care of u did do right with them or not some will find out

  • Good take !!! I agree. Be careful if you are raising kids. Don't be careless. I wish I had a better childhood. I was bullied all the time when I was a school kid.

    • Thanks for😊MHO.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Good take honey

    I agree to most of the things u said n do the same except a few

    • Thank you 😊

    • 😊😊

  • I don’t understand 1-3 really but most of this makes sense

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  • Regarding #1: What is the appropriate way for Grandma to hold your baby? Does she need to hold the child at arms-length?

    Re #3: Is it only marriage we need to conceal from children? -or do we need to avoid other adult titles like “Pastor,” “Doctor,” “Mayor,” etc? If I must refer to my wife when speaking to your child, how should I refer to her? If your child accidentally discovers that my wife is a person who lives with me and is an integral part of my family, what do I say? Do I pretend she is not my wife?

    I won’t comment on #12, for obvious reasons.

  • Never change clothes in front of children when they are in a diaper?
    Clearly you don't have children! Should a single parent leave the baby unattended to change their cloths?

  • Most of these points are certainly worth to be taken into consideration and meditated upon. In case of doubt, a good reference.

  • Very well-written and comprehensive MyTake.

  • All the points are correct we should follow these step whome have kids.

    • Leaving a baby unattended just so you can go and change your cloths is bad parenting, would you leave your baby unattended every time you take a bath too?

  • Do you have kids?

    • Clearly she don't have kids

    • Yeah, I assume that and you assume that… but I want to know if she does.. because theory means nothing til you actually have kids lol

  • I love your take

    • Thank you ❤️

    • You're most welcome

    • ❤️💜❤️❤️

  • I disagree with 1-3, 12, and 14 especially.

  • Very well put together. It's a good lesson/guide for every parent and everyone else

  • really helpful

  • Well said!

  • Excellent.

  • Very nice! It's great to see a mother who actually takes mothering her children seriously.

  • Nice information ℹ️🙂