Pedophiles, perverts, or genuine peple?

Pedophiles, perverts, or genuine peple?

Pedophiles, perverts, or genuine peple?

I haven't been on GAG for long but I have already experienced and witnessed inappropriate behavior from some of the users here. I will not name names but one guy requested that I tell him my bra size and I told him that I wasn't going to because it was personal information that I wasn't interested in sharing as I am a 15 year old girl and he was a 22 year old man. After giving him a clear answer he proceeded to ask me 17 more times! 17! Do you really think that wasting my time and being intrusive will really get me to give in and answer? Im aware I could've blocked him from the beginning but i felt i needed to give a detailed answer of why i felt it was inappropriate to ask me that especially since we had no prior conversation and he was a complete stranger. Two other guys privately messaged me asking me for "female advice" and so I offered to answer if I felt the question was appropriate. They both immediately began asking me about my body, my vagina, and if I was a virgin. I've heard from many girls and women that feel uncomfortable recieving these kinds of questions. Many other adult men and teenage boys have sent me private messages in an attempt to be "friends" and after I politely ask them their motive for starting a conversation they either block me or try to compliment my body. I appreciate politeness, I value chivalry and kindness and most of all respect. I am not an object, im not a toy, and I will not allow you to call me "hun" or "babe" when we have never even had a conversation. Also, just because I'm chinese and you have an "asian fetish" does not mean I find you endearing or attraction. Please stop treating me like im an idiot because I am not. I would gladly engage in a friendly conversation if I felt the age gap was sensible and the person was genuine. I respect myself and I will not be pressured into things. Please teach your sons and daughters to be respectful and focus on intellegence. Catcalling and sweet talking will get you no where.

You might feel like this is not a problem because i could easily just allow only my followers to privately message me but that would also limit any chance I have at giving individual advice, having a healthy debate, or being friendly. Please just remember, if you're interested in a girl coming off as a dick or a creep will not work.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • My girlfriend has a GaG account too, and she honestly gets those same messages constantly. I don't get it. How does being a perverted creep on the internet seem appropriate to anyone? I honestly wish these kind of people would just go away; crawl in some hole somewhere far away from mankind.

    • Thank you, i wish that too

Most Helpful Girl

  • Exactly! Preach! I have this too you don't want to know how many guys I have blocked in here.
    Also that guy that asks for bra size does his user name start with "NA" because he asked me that also a lot of times.

    • Yes thats him

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Rarely do you find honest nice people on gag... my inbox pisses me off. Sometimes I want to just block it all off like @asexy.

    • Yeah, block it off and follow people you want to get messages from. If people are nice and they like you, they wouldn't mind commenting on your opinions instead.

    • @ASEXY true... maybe I will.

  • I just suggest blocking from the beginning. Really, if he's gonna go and do that, then no talking to him is gonna set him straight

  • I wonder if these guys think it'll ever work... I'm sorry about these guys...
    https://i.imgur.com/B2JNb8d.gif