Pegging advice?

Question

My boyfriend has stated he is interested in being pegged. I do not want to hurt him and to my knowledge he has no information on this subject either. Would anyone be willing to give us advice?

Effably · Accepted Answer

Start small. You're not going to go straight to it. So get another small toy or two. Something for practice. Showers are your friends for first journeys and fixes cleanliness concerns and so on.

Depending on what you both like you can go to a sex store and pick it out together. Outside of the expert help of usually fantastic people it will also double as a fun and possibly embarrassing experience (which for all we kmow he might also like?).

That out of the way. Once size is less of an issue, slow and gentle. It'll feel big anyway. As a girl you have a natural advantage here. You know roughly what he's experiencing after all.

And lube. Enough that you think it is too much. Then double that. If it doesn't seem outrageous yet, add some more.

Aaand lastly about anal in general. It is as you might know yourself a rather intense experience and requires the right headspace to enjoy. Which is to say, a very horny mindstate. So figure out what about it you both like and properly get in the (mental) mood for it before.

Dіldорhоbe · Accepted Answer

First and foremost, make sure that you are both comfortable and consenting before engaging in any kind of sexual activity. It’s important to talk openly with your partner about what you both feel comfortable doing and what your boundaries are.

It’s also important to educate yourself on how to safely and properly engage in pegging. There are lots of resources available online and in books that can help you learn more about the practice. Make sure to use a quality strap-on dildo, lubricant, and condoms for safety and comfort.

When you’re ready to begin, start slowly and communicate with your partner throughout the experience. Make sure to go at a pace that both of you are comfortable with and stop if either of you becomes uncomfortable.

Overall, pegging can be a fun and enjoyable experience for both partners if done properly. Take your time and make sure to communicate with your partner throughout the experience.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Start with fingers, always use lube. Slowly work your way up with toys. Start very small and go bigger with the comfort level. Don't be afraid to spend big money on toys. The better the quality the better the experience.

northerngal · Accepted Answer

Lube lube lube! Start slow and work up size wise and thrusting wise. Oh and make sure you position some mirrors so you can watch his reaction!

ShiftingMonke · Answer

@gummy_cluster right up your.. um.. alley.  🤣😂🤣

RobT312 · Answer

My girlfriend didn’t use a strap on but she used a dildo on me , basically the same thing. We started really slow with anal. Fingering, rimming, warmed things up and made me relaxed. Then we used lots of lube and she went slowly. Use a small one first, nothing too big to see if he likes it. I then advise going for his prostate inside, he will know when you hit it…he will end up with a mindblowing orgasm. Have fun