Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I know there are a lot of "is my penis large enough? whats the Ideal size?" question here on GAG...this isn't one of them;-) So bear with me.
I notice that girls many use adjectives to describe what size "they like, don't like" The problem is that (us) guys don't know what you mean when you say thick. Guys can clearly understand what 5", 4", 8" means. The issue is that most girls don't...true the "usually" don't have a measuring tape;-P, BUT they do have their hands for reference. Her is an "Average" Female hand: 6.5<6.75" long
So I decided to make My first My take to clear the air/get us on the same page. So I compiled (with the help of 10,000's of members on a 1/2 dozen forums to get this chart that gives the corresponding inches for "the correct Adjective." This isn't a Scientific study...it is just what the 10,000s of people (that know what "an inch" actually is and have compared penis/dildos) agree on(there experiences). So if you said any of these words..this is what most people would think you are talking about.
Adjective and the corresponding ranges:
(Size description) ------- Length --------- (GIRTH) ----------- Diameters to approx dildos/toys size
Tiny/micro --------------- < 2.8" -------------- 3.5" ------------------- 1.1" ----------------------- 1"
Small ------------------------- < 4.5" ----------- 3.75" < 4 " --------- 1.19" < 1.27" ----------------1-1/4"
Below Avg ------------------4.5" < 5" -------- 4" < 4.5" ----------- 1.27" < 1.43" ----------------1- 3/8"
Average ----------------------5" < 5.7" ------ 4.5" < 4.9" --------- 1.43" < 1.56" -----------------1- 1/2"
Above Avg --------------- 5.7" < 6.5" ----- 4.9" < 5.3" --------- 1.56" < 1.68" -----------------1- 5/8"
Below this line is hung/thick
Big ----------------------------6.5" < 7.5" ----- 5.3" < 5.75" -------- 1.68" < 1.83" ----------------1 - 3/4"
Very Big -------------------7.5" < 8.25" ----- 5.75" < 6.125" ----1.83" < 1.95" ----------------1- 7/8"
Huge -----------------------8.25" < 9.5" ------ 6.125" < 6.6" ----- 1.95" < 2.1" ----------------- 2"
A Monster -------------------9.5"+ ---------------- 6.6"+ ----------------- 2.1"+ ------------------ >2- 1/8"
You don't have to have both to fit that description. So If you Have 7-1/4"L x 5"G you're still BIG over all, same with 6"L with a 6"G.
---------------- (( GIRLS ATTENTION!!! )) -------------------------
Please view the pictures please to make hand an length visualization easier for U )))))
As for the hand girth...same average women's hand showing different girth 3" < 7"
(Link is PG and safe to view) help to see ow the finger tips overlap/space
!!!Women's HAND GRIPPING GIRTH DISPLAY/SIMULATION!!! - https://imgur.com/a/JVIYj
other common items and their size:
#2 pencil - 7.5" long new
USA dollar - 6.14" long
12oz bud lit bottle - 9" long x 7.5" girth
The toilet paper tube (pretty standard in USA, varies over seas) 3.8"L x 5.27" inside/5.35" out girth
Famous for one condom manufacturer suggesting customers to use it to size condoms. They say, "If you can't fit inside you need large, snug regular, fit loosely, you'd need snug fit condoms".
Wii Remote;-) 5.81" Long by 4.9" girth
So girls now you know and can accurately describe...and help out the guys that are unsure or self conscious about themselves without making them feel bad or more confused.
What Girls & Guys Said
9 23... who cares? Really, the amount of heed paid to such a pointless and unchangeable thing is just baffling.
This post wasn't about the size of the man or if it qualified as ideal. It was to let the girls know that adjectives (big, thick, large, small, etc) are pointless unless they mean what everyone else is thinking. This was a guide for girls to use the correct terminology if they aren't able to use numbers.
I don't gey thr big deal. My older brother has a small penis but is still able to satisfy a girl sexually. Guys get hung up on all the wrong things.
This "My take" is to clear the air between what "guys of Gag are asking" and the vague comments GAG girls are giving. There is a communications gap on the subject/issue. The Penis is a Guys main/only serious insecurity... many caused by society/peer pressure. It's basically our version of a girl's (boob size, weight, Ass, thigh size, look of their pussy and am I pretty insecurities rolled up into one). The reason I made this is because of the 10 penis question that are asked, 99% are never answered or are given some stupid "Sarcastic" comments that never answers the asker's concerns.
well if your small like my brother you have nothing to worry about.
Actually I have a problem being too thick.
like a coke can thick?
No.. not that thick. A coke can has a girth of almost 8-1/4" inches. Also I'm concerned with how you knowing your brother's size?
But, my issue is I'm thicker than a normal wooden handrail. near the tip,
www.s3i.co.uk/.../hardwoodl-handrail-page2.jpg
And I'm equal to a 2" diameter dildo at the base.
I've tried finding a dildo my size when I was dating my ex.. for when she missed me and I was away.
Closest ones were:
www.edenfantasys.com/.../mega-silicone-realistic-dildo
I'm slightly longer an slightly thicker
I'm thicker and 1/2" shorter than the ADAM & EVE Adam 10"
www.adameve.com/.../sp-adams-inch-dildo-91665.aspx
I'm equal in girth but 1/2" longer than a Basix 9" suction cup Dong
www.tootimid.com/...-flexible-thicky-dong6387.html
well my brother definitely isn't that thich he's more like the average guy's index finger
LOL, it is so wrong that you know what size your brother has.
How the hell would u know the size of your brother thats creepy and weird as fuck
@vnmc1231231111 you mustn't have a sister lol
I have a sister and She has only ever seen me naked when I was having my diaper changed <2yrs old (and I wasn't packing much back then) , LOL;-)
"My older brother has a small penis but is still able to satisfy a girl sexually." and you know this how?
Not uncommon for siblings to see or know things if they share friends or close in age.
In my experience women prefer a big one. I work as a Mandingo for hire and I am regularly hired by wives of men who aren't satisfied by their husband's smaller equipment (usually white couples).
huge, and huge. it sucks dumping girls you love because you know you're going to be insanely painful.
Lucky I only get big or higher. That's why I always found it hard to believe what people claim is average, because how can I just only meet big guys if there's less of them.
They are average to above average guys exaggerating their size. The average pornstar isn't more than 7" for real
@vnmc1231231111 well by this, a hand is around 6 inches, guys I've been sexual with have been that or higher. I thought 6 was a smaller average before.
Yes 6 is about average. 6.5 would be average that 5" bs is because of them damn Asians lowering it ha ha
@vnmc1231231111 ohh no wonder. That makes much more sense now.
Average varies by the studies you look at but it is safe to consider anything between 5< 6" in length average. Girth doesn't vary much (in general) 4.5< 4.8" in girth I would consider average. 6.5"L is above average.. especially if he had 5"+ girth.
This is so much lol... I feel sorry for guys. All we gotta worry about down there is if we got too loose, and then we can just fix it by doing pelvic floor exercises regularly. Guys must compare themselves to this stuff how girls do with their boobs or something.
You forgot about how we have to worry about getting it up, hitting the right spots, keeping the right rhythm and keeping it up as long as she needs with out cumming.. that's the real challenge.
It's true. Girls have none of that. If we orgasm fast we can continue, and he's flattered instead of pissed off. She's gotta worry about some of it if she's on top though I guess.
Guys can have multiple orgasms if they learn to control their muscles. I usually can last 3 times before losing my erection and needing a little recovery time.
You should teach other guys your ways haha.
That's why they call me...
www.tshirthell.com/.../a457.gif?v11301bss2
I am Tiny/Micro when flaccid ( not Hard)
But when I am hard I am average or above average, weird.
Do girls care about flaccid size?
No we don't. You're a grower not a shower.
@Blonde401 That's good to hear, I really am insecure about my flaccid size :(
Don't worry about it. Most women realise that flaccid and hard are totally different. I've dated guys just like you, I definitely wouldn't care what he's like flaccid. But to be fair I'm not bothered about penis size anyway, everyone's different and it's about what you do in the bedroom, not what you've got.
All guys are smaller when soft... most <4" in length and girth. Flaccid size only matter in a self-esteem context, mainly when you have to get dressed in the locker room. Shallow guys usually bully guys that aren't "showers" about their size.
Girls only care about erect size. Some actaully LOVE growers as the girls are fascinated by how much it can grow and the fun in making it get hard;-) As a Shower... larger flaccid size can make finding comfortable cloths a pain.
That's ergonomics, man :)
It's easier to get more /Hotter girls with a BIG wallet than a BIG dick. Just look at Drew carey..
a2.files.biography.com/.../...MzE2NDkzNDgxNDgz.jpg
he's got millions and looks like the biggest Geek and has one of the hottest girlfriend (IMHO) in the world.
pics8.godsartnudes.com/.../...sing-66754_2_big.jpg
Also Mick Jagger is one of the Ugliest rockstars and he (72 years old) is having a baby with a 29 yr old girl.
i3.mirror.co.uk/.../...amrick-Mick-Jagger-Main.jpg
Only like 5% of the world is a shower wtf lol
Wow... It would be so cool to have a girl a girl fascinated and trying to make it grow 24/7 lol... Maybe one day...
@vnmc1231231111 That's a different discussion, LOL. We've talked about that on my other site.. Like what qualifies a person as a shower or grower. We came up with if you increase < 60% more than flaccid you're a shower and if you increase more you're a Grower. I'm Definitely a Shower I only get 36% longer.
How to get the math on that? I think I grow 300%?
Erect length? flaccid length - 1 then times by 100 = the % of increase. example 5" erect and 3" soft... 5/3=1.666 - 1 = .666 x 100 = 66% increase.
Okay I am 200% Increase then.. from 2 to 6.
I'm pretty much a wii remote then
As a virgin, I have never seen a penis before in real life. And if I were in a relationship, I prefer to not see one. :P
Whaa? homo?
Lolzzz
@YourFutureEx No, I'm not homosexual. I prefer to have sex without ever seeing the penis. Just turn off the lights, and use blankets. You can't see anything if you do both.
Then I have to ask what's the fun in having sex then? If he can't see you and you can't see him, how are you ever going to enjoy sex? Why not just stay a virgin?
@2tall2handle You can feel your way around.
Thanks for the reply... That is why I added the objects/images and their sizes (for girls that aren't experienced) so they can get an ideal of what the sizes are and have something they can relate it to. So when they hear so one say it was 7.5" long it's as "long" as a new pencil and if it's 4.9" in girth it's as thick as a Wii remote.
I think you will probably change your oppinion about seeing stuff in the future.
Take a look at a question I did over here. It's almost about the same topic.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2034658-only-18-girls-how-do-you-determine-the-size-of-a-penis
Your question was asking them... while with Mine I'm telling them what word equals in size. Normally one girl might use big for a average length but thick cock while another girl only uses BIG for massive 9"+ x 6'+ girth. Since girls only uses words and not actual Inches/CM.. I wanted to make this a way for them to know what the most accurate adjective is. I also added the hand pictures so they can gauge sizes since most girls can remember if it was longer/shorter than their hand or if their fingers touched when they grabbed the penis.
The guy I'm currently dating has a huge dick
So you feel lucky?