Yes, I said it. Women, if you have an issue with your man's size, then you really don't like or love him as much as you think you do.
You can beat around the bush all you want, but you don't actually like or love a man if you cheat on him, laugh at him, or dump him because of something over which he has zero control.
I've been depressed all my life, thinking that I wasn't big enough to have a normal relationship with a woman (I am below average, but it's not a micro-penis). I honestly wanted to kill myself at times because I was so painfully lonely.
After years of therapy, I reluctantly entered the dating world. A month ago, I met a wonderful woman. We clicked on so many levels, both intellectually and physically. We had undeniable chemistry. I was faced with the inevitable moment of truth when we became intimate. I can't even begin to describe how nervous I was when it came time for me to show her what I had, and you know what? None of those nightmare scenarios I described above happened. She was perfectly happy with it, and we proceeded to spend the next few days making each other feel amazing.
I have found that most people are selfish these days. Perhaps you can blame it on Hollywood, with shows like Sex and the City ("oh he's so wonderful, but his penis is small, so I'm going to dump him and date a jerk instead"), and the media constantly harping on about how "bigger is better."
I would argue that many people today do not know how to love unconditionally. Unconditional love means accepting your partner for all of who they are, "warts and all."
If a partner refuses to learn how to pleasure you by whatever methods necessary, then by all means, find someone else who will. However, to break up with someone over size alone is a very shallow thing to do. It shows that you didn't care about them at all as a human being. You were simply expecting them to be a walking, talking sex toy for your pleasure.
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19 24Penis size doesn't matter to girls as long as the guy is average at least. You don't hear a lot of girls saying positive about small penises.
I'm slightly below average, and she didn't care. My point, however, is that any woman who dumps a man over his size, or says anything negative at all, does not actually love that man, and never did.
GaG edited the title. It was far stronger.
Don't see any women agreeing or even replying to your take. Your girlfriend is not most women.
I challenge anyone to prove me wrong, that it's not selfish to judge a man based on his penis size.
Unconditional love is very rare in our modern society.