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Ever heard a woman say size doesn’t matter? Well, it simply isn’t true. And she knows it. The reasons women say this is to be nice and spare the feelings of under-endowed men or to not be seen as shallow or superficial.
The truth is, size does matter.
It doesn't matter how good your "technique" is in bed, if you lack the necessary inches. The size of the penis definitely affects the quality of sex. The larger the penis, the deeper the penetration and more pressure it exerts on the vaginal walls and the more stimuli are experienced.
Most girls will say that they prefer a man who "knows how to use it".
If you're below average, women care. For 4 inch and under guys, no matter how you use it, there's a very real limit to what you can do.
For guys who are average (about 5.5 to just over 6 inches long), you can go either way. Girls tend to not care but there's definitely some girls out there who do. Some girls find even the average size too small. Will definitely have to work at it and improve your sex skills for her to view you as giving "great sex".
Now, guys who are above average - 7" or greater - literally don't have to put hardly any effort in when having sex. Or at least not nearly as much. They literally don't have to thrust as hard or try to hit certain spots with more intent. This is because if they have the length, they can easily hit deep inside. If they have the girth, then they can fill her up and hit any wall without even trying.
While small guys could thrust as hard as possible and still not accomplish anything, and average guys have to put in some more work to stand out, large guys hit the good spots without even having to try.
This means that while some women may not care if you're average, most would (if being honest) prefer it if it were a bit bigger. There's so much benefit to having a larger penis.
Some are:
•More pleasure for her. Women can orgasm more easily during intercourse with a bigger penis. A longer penis size means that you can reach depths smaller penises can’t. This in turn means that you could be able to pleasure your partner more completely. It isn’t always the case, but it’s certainly the rule rather than the exception.
•Psychological Benefits. More confidence/ higher self-esteem. Well-endowed men, especially those who have actual sex experiences know they can satisfy their partners sexually. And, these men can approach women confidently.
•Being able to fill up your woman to give her that satisfying feeling.
•A bigger penis will set you apart from other guys
•Can help you get a girl and keep her around
•A longer, thicker penis looks better and more aesthetic. A bigger penis simply looks more appealing
•Can do any position instead of only certain ones
•If You're Looking to hook up or find friends with benefits, size matters 100%
•Bragging rights: other men will envy you and be jealous
•The look of awe and surprise on a womans face when she sees it for the first time
•It's impressive
•Never have to worry about being too small. You know you have enough to pleasure any woman
•No large penis envy
•Less work for you. No need to thrust as hard and twist to all sorts of angles to make sure you satisfy her
Women find a bigger penis more attractive on a subconscious level. We can be 99% confident that having a larger penis makes sex better and easier all-around-- less work thrusting and more pleasure for both of you. It's better to have "too much" than not enough. If you aren't very well endowed and find a woman who really likes you, she might be able to overlook your short comings but that doesn't mean size doesn't matter or that she wouldn't prefer for it to be bigger.
Regardless of the mixed answers one gets when trying to figure this question out, it's safe to assume that having a bigger penis (to an extent) is better and size does matter.
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What Girls & Guys Said
47 60It is not the size, it is the female. Evert female has a different view, as to what is a good penis size for them.
I know a few really hung guys, and all of them have complained that they get turn down by females more than they get it on with them.
I know a few females that have been with a few hung guys, and they have said that the experience was more painful than enjoyable.
I know a few females, that consider under 6" to be perfect. Because anything longer, hit something inside them that causes them pain.
It is not the physical size of the female that determines, if she can take a large penis or not either. I know a petit female that is 4'9" who is a size queen, and tells you that you better have at least 9" to get with her. I also know a female that is 6', that says a 6" penis hits the back of her womb and causes her pain.
pretty depressing when the virgin (me) is aware that size is literally a case by case basis. and that women can orgasm from other sexual things than penetration. some women orgasm off oral (giving and receiving) or anal or fingering valiant effort trying to tell women what they like that was funny to read.
It literally doesn't matter, to me. I had a guy extremely below average and it was probably one of the best experiences I've had, he knew how to use it which is what made it so pleasurable, so not I don't agree.
@acooke-13 what positions did he do?
Finally a girl with some integrity... thank you. This is why when you go black you never come back.
Clitoral orgasm - sharp, throbbing, felt mostly superficially and concentrated to the clit and a bit deeper down; passes fast with almost no residual effects, hard to come a second time as the clit becomes extremely sensitive to touch and withdraws
G-spot orgasm - warm, almost itchy, pulsating build-up that releases into warm waves and contractions of the entire vaginal area; stays for quite a bit longer than a clitoral orgasm and is relatively easy to get more orgasms with continued stimulation
AFE-spot orgasm - almost electric in build-up with dildo/cock hitting the back wall of the vagina and moving around, intense release with contractions of the entire lower stomach (visible to partner), similar to period cramps but replace the pain with intense pleasure; stays for as long as stimulation is kept up and continues rolling throughout the body in new orgasms that ebb and flow into one another; body exhausted and drenched in sweat afterwards, sensitivity stays for a long time, enough that even just light touching up to 24 hours later recall some of the sensation.
And yes - I very much prefer the AFE-spot to anything else - I'm also lucky that I have a man in my life that give them to me regularly enough that I spend much of my time with him weak in the knees, hoarse and smiling like mad.
It doesn't matter the size. If a man knows how to please a woman depsite his size, then that's what truly matters. There are men who have large ones who don't know how to use them, and then there are men with small ones who can compensate with knowledge and please a woman immensely.
that explains the rise in lesbians..
Sounds like this must be true then...
"For fulfilling sex... if size doesn't matter.. does even having one matter anymore?"
It's not the size of the ship,
nor the motion of the ocean,
its whether the captain stays in port long enough, for all the passengers to get off.
My auntie said it ain't the size of the boat but it's the motion of the ocean. But I said: Well it takes a lot longer to get to get to England with a little paddle.
https://www.misterpoll.com/polls/368041/results
Also with the obeisity epidemic we have in America, consider the average white penis is only 5.1"... combine 2" of pubic fat pad on each partner, that 4" of combined fat leaving only 1.1" of actual penetration. Thia is the reason white guys say "the closer the bone, the harder she moans" or why the exodus of white women to the arms of black men and the "once you go black, you never go back" mantra is heard. White guys are then running to the loving arm of the ultra feminine Asian girls who stay lean and young looking with a.7 waist to hip ratio that white guys so adore.
Except for one little thing, a guy wrote this not "a girl with some integrity." You know who really likes a big dick I'll bet, gay guys.
@Jackblue Gay guys love big dick, no question. Penile_size_preference_study_from_UCLA. zip "You must be *this* tall to ride" sign at the entrance. After arousal the vaginia tents and the cervix lifts and moves out of the way. This all works like an accordian and makes more room for the penis, more than the 3-5" in the unaroused state. Only less than 5% of whites have penises longer than 7", the average is 5.1" long by 4.8" in circumference. 7" long by 6" in circumference is the the averge black penis, so 50% of black men are larger than 7". This might explain why only 30% of white women never have experienced a cervical orgasm. There is a reason millions of women make romance tours to the beaches of Zanzibar, Kenya, Ghana, Punta Cana, Jamaica etc. Black men have 20% more testosterone than whites which makes them better athletes and lovers... the most attractive men in the world... the Alpha males.
Women who orgasm via stimulation of the vaginal fornix can likely get spoiled by an endowed penis. The fornix is located in the very back of the vagina (it is also called the cul-de sac), slightly beyond the cervix so it is the deepest part of the vagina. When (and if) the women is aroused enough the cervix tents up and allows for penetration of the fornix. Unfortunately, 80% of white men have a penis size under 6". Being a man of the statistical average myself (6"), I can say from experience you need an above average tool to stimulate the fornix. I have able to reach this area in less than half of my partners, and even then it took some kind of funky position. The one women I was with who "knew" she got off this way was able to get me there with very little adjustment. She later admitted that above average is just easier to work with but said it was no big deal (to me it was!).
Deep Spot 7" minimum for my wife. I can reach it, but not easily. The key isn't pounding into it, which I can do with even a little force behind it. The key is to grind it deep. The two positions we can do that in is cowgirl on our esse and riding high missionary (my dick has to be pointing towards her back). Once you feel the glans squished from her deepspot sway your hips side to side or up and down or circular. The first time we played around with this I felt a pop after a few rubs and then a small pocket opened up. Nowadays I slide right into this pocket mainly because she knows how to open up, tilt her hips, and relax. Look up cul de sac, posterior fornix, pouch of Douglas and vagus nerve. 1 For me as well - the deeper the stimulation goes the more intense the resulting orgasm (but also the longer initial build-up to the orgasm itself). Trying to put things into words - which will certainly fail - but an attempt.
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Except women making those trips are middle aged as this article explains. There are plenty of black man whores where those women come from just as there are white ones, however they are more expensive and the weather isn't as nice.
@Jackblue I just got back from Puerto Veiho in Costa Rica where there is a big Caribbean community there and an all night, night life. The white girls in their 20's were fucking the big black dudes right on the dance floor. I overheard some Aussie chicks that they came here to get stretched out with some BBC. It is not just old women, they are all ages. The old ones hit the hay earlier.
I am sure there are a few younger women there are exceptions to every rule.
@Jackblue True, vaginas come in different sizes just as penises do... small, medium, large and extra large. Cervix depths vary from 1.5" to 7" in an unaroused state. When a vagina is fully aroused and tented, the cervix tilts out of the way and and expands up to three times its unaroused state much like an accordian. This allows a long penis to slide past and into the anterior fornix (a-spot) or the posterior fornix ( the deep spot) and past that the Pouch of Douglas. This is where woman are induced to have tha queen of all orgasms, the cervical orgasm. Also why women buy dildo larger than their mates to reach those spots. The ideal vagina size for the average 5.1" penis is the small vagina and with a clitoris to vagina opening of 2.5cm for the best penis in vagina sex resulting in orgasm for tge girl and better sex all around.
I was referring to the younger women you saw when I meant exceptions (and besides they are probably not paying). As for dildos has it occurred to you that women may be only place it half in, they make them a large size just to be safe. In reality as women keep on saying big penises are unpleasant, but perhaps you prefer to be attractive to the gays. If I thought big penises were attractive to women I would get surgery, but since I have no interest in attracting gay men I have stuck with my moderate size.
@Jackblue I do understand you girls are trying to protect your financial interests by lying to small dicked men so they will marry you... marriage is big business for women and the divorce courts, lawyers and the government. The divorce rates are up to 90% in some demographics.
A man works 20 years, the wife take 10 years, the lawyers take 6, that leaves 4 years wages for the guy, oh wait add on the child support.
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What the heck man, I'm a guy. On this site blue means a guy and pink means a girl.
@Jackblue If size don't matter, does even having one matter anymore?
@Jackblue oops typo... should have said " I do understand girls are trying to protect their financial interests by lying about "size don't matter" to small dicked, so the can have a piece of the American pie by marrying any hard working smuck, after she has been riding the BBC cock carousel for 15years and now sexual value is deteriorating rapidly at around 30 and her eggs are drying up. If size don't matter, does even having one matter anymore?
Nobody said size doesn't matter, medium is better than too small or too large. Women these days are quite independent they do not rely on men to support them. Wealthy white women still marry white men mostly (as well as a rather large number of wealthy black women) The Williams sisters are all over white guys no matter what their Dad thinks, as is Naomi Campbell, civil Rights Icon Josephine Baker was as well.
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Oh great! We need more takes on penis size like this.
Most of the points here are wrong and I honestly would rather no waste my time going over each and every wrong point, so I'll just say you're wrong
So what size matters to you than?
would like to ask few questions reall but can't pm.. i wish you do..
I don't care about the penis size
lesbian?
Nope straight as af
Straight af* af=as fuck, so you just said “straight as as fuck”
I’d say it probably does matter but bigger doesn’t always mean better. It depends on the woman and what she likes.
No guy wants to hear his woman say “Is it in?”
Hehe I feel bad but I asked that when I lost my virginity
@MsMusic awe it’s okay love. Hehehe
xD yeah it got kinda awkward after that
Not a woman, but as someone who finds himself enjoying that most wonderful of phallic devises on a regular basis, I think I can add to the discussion.
Size matters to an extent. If you're member is only 4" long? Well fate simply didn't smile upon thee friend. It doesn't mean you can't be good in bed, but penetrative sex probably won't be your forté.
I've accommodated many a man and personally found little difference between cocks 5.5 and 7.5 inches in length. Its been wonderful times with all of them.
But here's the part that's difficult to swallow (pun intended) big dicks are a thing to be desired. The largest I've ever experienced was 10" and I've never been so intimidated prior to a challenge nor satisfied in surmounting one since. Bottom Boiz never forget that first BBC😉
Im 8 inches. Never had an issue with giving bad sex. As a matter of fact, I have been practically broke and women have dated me for sex.
SIZE DOES MATTER... BUT... ITS NOT THE ONLY THING.
You must know how to fuck your girl. You must know how to eat her out. You must know how to communicate. All of these things are just as important as sex.
Is 7 inches good?
@mr_mxy yes dude. Thats longer than aversge. But you need to worry more about your foreplay and eating winen out. Are you good at that? That matters more.
i can't believe you've made a mytake
What size do u prefer
As a medic, and pyschologist I say it doesn't matter. Unless you are someone with low self-steem
That's usually the type who write these sort of things.
Anything between 5 & 6"
What about 4?
I will discuss
Yawn... Mine is weapon so ladies are the only ones who can weild my light saber.
Egads... where do you come up with this? There isn't much that's real here.
When was the last time you saw any girl running around with a tape measure? LOL
Length and girth matter but each woman enjoys something different based on her anatomy. Me personally, I have enjoyed guys up to 10” and thick. It feels great most of the time but the guys were limited based on space not being available. Most guys I get off with regularly are between 6-7 with good thickness. Anything smaller than 6, it’ll take more work to get me off. Not his fault but it’s true!
very nice explanation thanks.. i would like to ask you few more questions but can't pm.. could you pls pm?
Smaller than 6”? That’s still very big
How did you know it was 10 inches, did you whip out a measuring tape?
If your too fat to see the dick
It might to some, but I don't think everyone. It has more to do with shape. It's like girls that only go black, not all girls are into black guys. Not all guys want big boobs. There is someone for everyone.