People who enjoy bdsdm, is this a good pumishment for a shy girl?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I are into a bit of bondage and domination. I would say we are a regular couple 70% of the time and have a dom/sub relationship for the other 30%.

I am going to punish her during the week. She is very shy outside of the house.

So I was going to make her put on a very short dress (the shortest she can without getting in trouble) and a little g string and spend the day with me out in public.

The idea being that she has to maintain perfect posture, no bending over and keep her legs closed all day otherwise the dress will raise high enough to show her bum and little gstring. She will also have to watch out for the slightest breeze.

What do people think of this as a punishment?

I would like to add that this is all consensual. She gets off on domination, humiliation and bondage so she likes it when I make her do stuff like this.
I would never break any of her hard limits and I always keep her safe.

[maddie933]

Do it.
If she gets off on being humiliated then this will be perfect.
Be sure to take her places that will be difficult for her to cover up. Like make her get out of the car in a busy carpark, or sit at a cafe in the open street section facing the footpath.

You could even count how many times she tries to pull it down and make each one count towards a spank later that night

[Asker]

Thanks If thats the case i'll make the g-string a bright colour like red so its more likely to be noticed

[Anonymous]

I'm sexually submissive as well. However, I like to keep these things in the bedroom. What you describe would make mme feel rather uncomfortable than aroused. What I like as punishment is orgasm denial, spanking or being forced to keep going when I've clearely had enough and need to beg him to let me go. But everyone is different I guess.

[Asker]

We are into that as well For example while she's tied ill make her cum and then straight after ill start tickling her all over. It does her head in and she has to beg for a few minutes if she wants it to end. Or ill bring her to the edge of orgasm 4-5 times in a session but never let her cum and then make her go to sleep feeling frustrated.

[Anonymous]

I have done this and it was so annoying pulling my dress down to bend over. Or keeping my legs together. And yes the wind was blowing that day and some people passing by got a good show at the gas station and out shopping downtown. But at the end we had great sex so I can't complain.

[Asker]

That sounds perfect. I want her self conscious all day

[Opinion Owner]

It was and now wearing a short dress and a g string is normal now. He just can't keep his hands off me now that I am more confident in it

[Opinion Owner]

And it's fun to tease him in the store by pulling my dress up alittle but so he can see my butt if we are in the aisle alone.

[Asker]

Did you find you got squirmy trying to pull the edge of the dress down a bit lower all day or were you able to walk around normally and just accept that you couldnt pull it down?

[Opinion Owner]

The first few times yes I was squirmy about it. But now I just accept it.

[Anonymous]

Sexy. Ever considered a remote controlled vibrator?

[Weirdlybeauty]

Those are horrible and embarrassing (because of the noise) but awesome.

[Opinion Owner]

Some are rather quiet

[Weirdlybeauty]

The ones I have bought at like spencers isn't and I meant me aswell.

[Asker]

I have. I think the noise isn't an issue on a busy street or a noisy cafe

[Opinion Owner]

If I were you, I would add that to this activity.

[TrustyW]

Its brilliant

[Asker]

Haha thanks

[Anonymous]

That sounds like a good idea to me
She will feel awkward all day and if she slips up then people see her bum.

I wish I had a man to play bondage games like this