People who had sex before marriage, do you think you were better off having sex before marriage, instead of waiting until marriage?

I had sex before marriage, I originally wanted to wait, i think its a way better decision
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I had sex before marriage , i originally wanted to wait, its a better decison
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I had sex before marriage, i originally wanted to wait until marriage, if i could redo it, id want to choose to wait until marriage for it
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I had sex before marriage, if i was a young virgin again, but somehow knew exactly what i was missing, i wouldn't want to wait until i was married
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I had sex before marriage, if i was a young virgin again, but somehow still knew exactly what i was missing, i would choose to wait until i was married
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I waited until i was married and if i could choose again, id have sex before marriage
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I waited until i was married and would do it again, or im a virgin
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  • No point on waiting.
    Celebrate each conquest separately. It will fuel your life.

  • If I was living again I'd definitely try to become sexually active sooner. Not doing so ended up causing long term problems.

  • If you don't have sex with a variety of the opposite sex you don't know what you are missing. That can be a good or a bad thing depending on whether you think it's better not to know.

    It can be like knowing what it's like to be super-rich but having to live in poverty where if you'd never known anything but poverty you'd be less dissatisfied.

  • Yaaaa... I'm really glad I dodged those bullets... My religious upbringing didn't prepare me or teach me what really mattered to look for in a partner at ALL... ... and I'm really really glad I didn't marry any of them... ...20/20 hindsight is perfect, you know?

    • What are you getting at?

    • If I had "waited for marriage" then I would have just been chained to an awful bitch, and it would have been that much harder to end it. And if religious people spent more time teaching their children about safe sex, and preparing them for life in the real world after the umbilical cord, then their children would make better decisions... ... rather than just adhering to archaic and arbitrary standards until they left the house and either went crazy and fucked everything in sight, or tried to stick to the straight and narrow only to find out that it isn't even CLOSE to the way they were told it was supposed to be...

    • "Left the house" as in "moved out of their parents house", that is...

  • Yes I've had sex and am not married and never planned to wait till i was married to have sex...

  • I didn't wait (never even occured to me too, I don't put much stock into virginity though) but I did end up marrying the guy who was my first.

  • Yes I was better off. I don't regret having sex with my former partners and I surely woupdn't have wanted to miss it. Im also very sure I wouldn't have wanted to marry any of said former partners. I also absolutely don't want to marry my current bed partner.

    • What if you waited for a guy you "did" want to marry?

    • I would have missed years of great sex and I would have always wondered what it would be like with other people.