People who have done anal sex, what made you do it and does it give you same pleasure as vaginal sex?

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I have few questions about it.
Why you wanted to do it?
Doesn't it feel gross?
Girls is it same feeling as vaginal sex?
How painful is it?
Do many guys/girls wants to try it but afraid to ask?
Overall what is your experience of anal sex?

humanearth · Accepted Answer

Why you wanted to do it? Because I really enjoy it. Sometimes its like a craving.

Doesn't it feel gross? No not at all

Girls is it same feeling as vaginal sex? Don't know I'm a guy that likes to be penetrated

How painful is it? My first time hurt like hell, did not warm up, stretch out my butt or nothing. It just happened on impulse, spur of the moment, heat of passion thing and sounded like fun.

Boy I was wrong, when I was pegged the first time. We didn't have the Internet back then or nothing. We didn't have a clue what we were doing. Now we are old pros at it.

Do many guys/girls wants to try it but afraid to ask? My girlfriend at the time and now my wife wanted to see what its like to pegged me. So first time sucked, but gave it another try and it was better, then tried a third time, that was the best. Now I was hooked,

Overall what is your experience of anal sex? I have 30 years experience with anal sex. I learned the hard way. Don't be like me, study up and work your butt hole up to the size slowly days before. Masturbate anal solo, before with partner.

Only you know what your feeling and how much you can take. Remember your partner can't feel your pain.

I recommend to start out with small butt plugs and work your way up to the size you want to achieve.
Once you get your butt hole stretch and comfortable with no pain. Go for the upgrade of glass or stainless steel butt plug and wear it for a few hrs a day.

Doing it this way, saves you the pain I went though and makes your first time anal with a partner pain free

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

"Why you wanted to do it?" The first tme I did it, my girlfriend had a "sick pussy" and we couldn't do PIV, so she offered anal sex as a substitute.

"Doesn't it feel gross?" No. It feels different, but there is nothing gross about it, unless you simply attach a moral stigma to the act.

"Girls is it same feeling as vaginal sex?" No idea; I'm a guy.

"How painful is it?" I've had sex with probably five or six partners. For most of them, it was their first experience with anal sex. They said it was a little uncomfortable until they relaxed and then it felt good. None of them said it was painful. If they had complained of pain, I would have immediately stopped.

"Do many guys/girls wants to try it but afraid to ask?" I am always reluctant to ask a new partner because some people assume that a guy who likes anal sex is a latent homosexual.

"Overall what is your experience of anal sex?" I enjoyed it every time but have not done it nearly as much as I have done PIV or oral sex. It is a different feeling because it is tighter and the taboo nature makes it exciting.

CountessSarah · Accepted Answer

"Why you wanted to do it?"
Well in my case I'm pre-op trans and don't has a pussy, so that's why I do it.

"Doesn't it feel gross?"
It doesn't feel gross if you're properly prepped. I always do the full pornstar prep, that means not eating for at least 6 hours prior, then doing a couple of enema's. I've never had... any sort of unpleasant accident, my butts the cleanest it could conceivably be.
I will say people who just... go right ahead and take a dick in the butt without any sort of prep are indeed gross. But I think they're the minority.

How painful is it?"
It's not painful at all if you're doing it right. And I use some pretty big toys - your asshole is surprisingly accommodating with some practice. Of course you need to use lube, your butt is not naturally self-lubricating enough on it's own. I imagine people who complain anal hurts are just uneducated.

"Overall what is your experience of anal sex?"
I think it's great fun.

jennyjenjen98 · Accepted Answer

Why you wanted to do it?

To avoid pregnancy in high school and "stay a virgin"

Doesn't it feel gross?

Not really.

Girls is it same feeling as vaginal sex?

It's a very different feeling.

How painful is it?

It shouldn't be painful if you've prepared for it.

Do many guys/girls wants to try it but afraid to ask?

They probably are.

Overall what is your experience of anal sex?

It's great. I have very intense orgasms from it.

purplepoppy · Answer

I originally did it out of curiosity after hearing accounts from other girls.
It doesn't feel gross, just odd. Some will like it other's won't.
It feels nothing like vaginal any more than a BJ feels like vaginal.
Pain wise it all depends on how lubed and relaxed your sphincter is. Usually no worse than going to the toilet.
Overall my experiences have been positive.

MTC29 · Answer

I think that I was 33 or 34 before I encountered a woman who requested it. Frankly, I had never even considered anal. After all, what could be better than pussy?

Even so, she knew what to do, so we lubed up like crazy. She got off three or four times, which was great. As for me, anal was different than pussy, but not actually any better.

weysally · Answer

I have only allowed anal sex once, hated it, it bloody well hurt

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

The first time I tried it was mainly as the girls sister had told her about it, so she wanted to try it.
i then asked a friend who was gay about what to do, he told me a lot lol

Lube back then was really just baby oil or Vaseline type things.

since then I’ve done it a lot of times and found a lot of girls do like it.

it’s important to understand it’s not like it is in porn films or like fucking a vagina.

it needs more prep and also needs patience to wait for sphincter to relax.

also fingers, tongue, toys all help, that and a butt plug can help make it better.

Some like it some don’t.

it’s good when you meet a girl that likes anal and understands it.

Good prep in cleaning and hygiene (including diet), patience, taking time, being gentle, lots of lube, taking it slow, lots of lube

RobT312 · Answer

My girlfriend and I had no interest at first.
then we started feeling adventurous and it was a new thing to try.
I enjoy both giving and receiving.
it doesn’t replace vaginal but it’s fun. And In a threesome I enjoy anal as a prostate massage, it’s a pretty mind blowing orgasm for me

SamIam96 · Answer

I've had several anal experiences. One woman just liked it. She liked vaginal, too. For her, it depended on her mood. For me, both were good, but different.

The anus is much tighter than the vagina. That tightness pulls my skin taut from my head. That tension is one thing that makes me orgasm faster. Sometimes faster than I want.

I've also done it with women who don't enjoy it. They wanted to try because they knew I wanted to. For them, it was painful. I think the difference is, for it to be enjoyable, the man needs to be patient and well lubed. The woman needs to be comfortable enough to do what she may feel is taboo. And, she has to be able to relax those strong muscles.

Mandylynn · Answer

First time I didn't want to do it, now a days I enjoy it and encourage my husband to fuck me in the ass
No it doesn't feel gross it feels good
No its not the same feeling as vaginal sex, it's way different but feels amazing
First time was painful as I didn't want it and he didn't use lube, now with my husband some of the time we don't even have to use lube and still enjoy it
My husband had did it 3 times before me and was afraid to ask me for it based off his past experiences
I love it and so does my husband... the orgasms I get during anal sex are intense

Bricealan · Answer

My first and virtually ONLY real anal sex was with a wonderful girl I met at Parents Without Partners. She asked me if I had ever had anal, and of course I had not. I was not experienced, and she told me to take it 'slow' which I did AND without lubrication (how stupid was I?)

Not gross for me, but the experience of me spreading her buttocks open, and seeing that small, crinkled asshole, was the most exciting thing ever. The thought of penetrating that with my rather thick penis, was the most exciting thing ever.
It was great, but she had to have me stop and she had to go to the bathroom.
Overall, I don't know if it is a good long-term practice due to the stretching of the anal sphincter.

josephinelcajon · Answer

As a gay guy I tried it both receive and give. The receiver must clean out by flushing out and then lube up both anus and the penis going in. From there they must be extremely relaxed, or it will be very painful! Due to the contamination a condom is a must! To the guy going in at first is nice and tight and the anus starts to loosen up so much it will become very loose too loose in some. the receiver must bear down like taking a shit to open the anus once inside they can relax. For a guy receiving rubs on the prostate which can cause an orgasm. I could feel his penis swell up before and the pulsing of the ejaculation as well as a warm feeling. As teens we preferred masturbating!

jestergent · Answer

I think the first time was great, then it became less amazing than the front.

Andres77 · Answer

There are nerve bundles.
It's the luck of the draw.
Some women have orgasms much intensely with anal, some with vaginal.
But it takes a willing adventurous woman and a patient guy to find and train these bundles of nerves.
Good luck.

Mr1derful · Answer

*Why you wanted to do it? Because it's taboo and it's there and see it in porn, etc.

*Doesn't it feel gross? No, but overly too tight, i finish too fast because it's hard to get in and takes a lot of prep, lube and work. She has to be clean too and not hairy for me to even consider.
*Overall what is your experience of anal sex? Meh. Fun to try and say you've done it, but for me I'm a vag guy all day, and will take a perfectly beautiful hot, wet vag in front of me rather than an ahole.

Ekiewlen · Answer

Why you wanted to do it?
I find it extremely intense and sexual. It feels and looks amazing. I am very dominant and it also plays into that..

Doesn't it feel gross?
it feels amazing and I have had women tell me it does as well.

Girls is it same feeling as vaginal sex?
How painful is it?
if don’t properly it isn’t painful girls have told me. Also a few have said it only hurts at first then feels amazing. There is also special lubricant for it that will numb everything

Do many guys/girls wants to try it but afraid to ask?
I am never afraid to ask ! Once I am comfortable with someone. Often times I have found girls love it but are too shy to ask so I am happy I asked :))

Overall what is your experience of anal sex?
It can be the most intense passionate sex possible. the girl is at her most vulnerable state during it. This can create serious connection passion and trust if taken seriously and done with love and care.

Anzhus · Answer

I wanted to do it because of pure curiosity and the fact that her ass is so damn hot.
To be honest with you the first time was a bit... well let's just say the smell was a bit strong. I think it's cool if you do it once in a while tho

chulo1992 · Answer

I've only done anal twice in my life.. wow it felt weird to say. But both times, the women wanted it. With the first woman, we used K-Y. With the 2nd woman that asked me for me to do it, I asked if she had K-Y and she said "For what?" She told me that she would rather have sex anally so that was why it was so easy to do... because her hole was so opened and she was used to it.

kellytheman · Answer

I only did it once and it was a bad experience. Me and the girl wanted to try something new and it looked like a lot like it in the porn we watched. First it was hard to put it in either I was to big or her ass hole was to small. I used my mouth and spit as lube but when I was finally in it was hurting her so I stopped so we just went back to vaginal and oral sex. My new girlfriend wants to do it had done it quite a few times but I am not sure I want too.

dudeinohio · Answer

I wanted to try it to see what it's like. It feels good. Dunno if my current girlfriend is into it or not though... haven't approached the topic yet. My ex girlfriend loved it.

DARKCLOUD1945X · Answer

To skip the other question anal sex and vaginal sex are two differed feelings yes both can lead to orgasm but almost the same feeling, but different plus anal sex is still thought of as taboo thus a feeling of danger and being forbidden and in some places against the law aiding thrill of anal sex

Pete671 · Answer

It's nice for the variety, but tbh I prefer being pegged,,,

Twalli · Answer

My girlfriend and I decided to try it because it was something new for us. We both enjoyed it. According to my girlfriend it feels similar to a pool jet hitting your asshole. Having expierenced that in my pool, it feels really good.

Smartman5 · Answer

I haven't had sex yet. but I want to have anal sex for once. I mean I want to fuck a woman in the ass. I probably like the dog position.

bananathunder · Answer

not my thing... too tight and not as soft as a pussy. More like fucking a tight tube in my opinion

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Some really enjoy it, but it needs proper preparation

MrTaboo · Answer

I dont like but she does.

CubaPirate · Answer

Never tried it and don't intend to. Her hands mouth and pussy are easily enough for me

fireforeffect · Answer

MY wife asked me for it. I prefer Vaginal.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't care for it, but my girlfriend loves it. I got her a toy specifically for DP.

Anonymous · Answer

No real interest. I have friends that have tried it and it didn't sound great.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls seem to love it, and it feels good for a guy, it's tight and warm.

Anonymous · Answer

Men prefer it to vaginal sex. Nothing better for a man than a shemale. “She” has everything he could ever want or need.

Anonymous · Answer

I love anal sex. I’ve done it with two different girls and they asked me to try it. I think it feels amazing, and they both had powerful orgasms from it. We never did it very often, maybe once a month if that.
As for it being gross, I’ve never had a dirty experience.
And for pain, the girls I had it with enjoyed it. I’ve also had the pleasure of receiving anal sex and I have had some times it was painful, but it was because I hadn’t relaxed enough. I kinda rushed into it. If you take your time it feels amazing. The key is lube and patience.

Anonymous · Answer

This one girl wanted me to try it but you need to prepare for it, it gives them some pleasure but was feeling too tight to me

Anonymous · Answer

I did not like it very much, but she did, so I was open to it.

Anonymous · Answer

Why you wanted to do it?
Because my girlfriend at the time wanted it and kept asking until I gave in.

Doesn't it feel gross?
I always thought it sounded gross, but after doing it I didn't feel that way. Never had a problem with things getting "messy".

Girls is it same feeling as vaginal sex?
I can't answer from experience but my ex said anal is more intense feeling and results in stronger orgasms.

How painful is it?
The key seems to be training your ass in advance before having anal sex. If you do that it shouldn't be painful.

Do many guys/girls wants to try it but afraid to ask?
I don't know. I've only done it with one girl and I had no interest before that. I've suggested it with a couple of girls I've dated since then but they didn't want to.

Overall what is your experience of anal sex?
I like it. It feels different than vaginal sex because of the tightness, texture and depth, and there is something really hot about seeing a girl orgasm while you're fucking her in the ass.

Anonymous · Answer

I think others have covered most points already.
I also got into anal via a partner who was into it, didn't really have an opinion on it before that.
With prep it's neither gross nor painful, but you definitely have to be into it.

Anal hinges on being comfortable, no amount of lube is going to help if your sphincter isn't on board.
That's why the experience is going to vary wildly from person for person.

If my partner is into anal, I prefer it to vaginal sex.
The fact that the process takes more care, patience, trust and comfort elevates it for me.
It's more tactile and it can definitely be intimate and sexual without it being gross.

Anonymous · Answer

It feels great cause its tighter and more taboo that way, i love fucking my girl up the ass at least once a month

Anonymous · Answer

I didn't want to initially but she suggested and got me in the mood. It felt gross to think about. But it was alright. She was really hot so i was like why not. It was painful af. It has a different kind of a thrill. Vaginal is way better. I did it with a transwoman. We decided its best if she takes the lead because her penis was bigger than mine. It was an interesting experience I'll never forget.

Anonymous · Answer

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People who have done anal sex, what made you do it and does it give you same pleasure as vaginal sex?

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