Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
There aren't many types of people that I would describe as a cancer of society, but today I'm going to talk about some that are Stage 4 Tumors.
Guys who demand their women be virgins.
Now, before we get started let's clear up two things:
(1.) It's okay to have preferences for those that you want to date. You can prefer to date people based on personality and physical factors, and I don't think anyone will hold that against you. This Take is not about preferences but rather demands.
(2.) On topic, if you're a guy who's a virgin, saving yourself for marriage due to personal or religious reasons, THIS MYTAKE IS NOT ABOUT YOU. As I'll explain later, you can meet the same standards that you're looking for in your partner.
Alright, let's get down to business:
Who are the guys demanding that women be virgins in the first place?
The ones that are a waste of precious resources and oxygen.
Basically, there are a small, but vocal minority of guys out there that are what psychologists like to describe as "Shitheads". These guys spend their time bragging about themselves on Internet forums (like this one) and think they are above other men (they aren't). The shithead can't really handle commitment or relationships, since these require maturity and responsibility, so instead he sleeps around with women to fill this void in his inner being. Generally these women are very alike him in personality (apart of the female equivalent "Hoebag") , but occasionally he fools a perfectly decent women into believing he's actually worth a damn. So he'll have sex with her, leave her (destroying her emotionally in the process), and go brag to his other shithead friends about his "conquest".
(If shitheads looked the age of their maturity)
However, the shithead will eventually lose his "game", aka he can't fool women into thinking he's hot shit anymore. So he'll want to "settle down" with a "nice, sweet, virgin girl".
So now that he realizes the gig is up he'll try to assimilate into the normal adult world of monogamous relationships, or else his dick will be dry until the day he dies. However, he can't just date a "hoebag" girl like he used to bang. Oh no, those women are "beneath him". Instead, he wants a virgin girl.
Why do these shitheads want virgin women?
Three reasons:
(1.) They have very fragile egos, and thus the possibility that another guy could have come before and given her positive impressions of a proper man is a NO GO! Can't have any previous expectations that could expose him as the shithead he is!
(2.) Women are objects to them. This is obvious since they already saw women as fleshy sex toys in the first place, and the woman he was with is only good for bragging rights to him. Well now the woman's personality, physicality, achievements, and more are all worthless. The only thing that defines her now to him is her virginity.
(3.) They realize now that sleeping around with strangers like they did while getting their Communication degree in college is actually pretty disgusting. So now they don't want a woman who is as gross as himself, or has been with other men gross like himself, so that's why she needs to be a virgin.
Will these shitheads actually manage to get a virgin girl?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
*gasp*
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
No.
Contrary to the shithead's beliefs, women aren't stupid and don't want to date a guy who still thinks his college frat is relevant. This might also come as a surprise, but women have standards for the types of guys they date too. Especially those virgin girls the shithead so desperately wants. Those girls aren't virgins because they've just been waiting for some narcissistic asshole to "properly" show them sex. They're virgins because they only date legitimately serious men, and aren't going to put up with guys that are shitheads. So the irony of the situation is the shithead wants a virgin girl but no virgin girl is going to date him because chances are she also wants a virgin or at least a guy that isn't some Casanova wannabe.
The shithead's master plan of trying to marry a virgin girl just collapsed in on itself like that. That is why on GaG you'll see questions from these shitheads asking how they can get a virgin girl, but no such stories about how they actually managed to do it.
Here's also another important life lesson: Don't hold others up to standards that you yourself cannot meet.
You see, some guy who's actually a virgin and trying to be involved with serious women only can actually want his girl to be a virgin. Why? Because he's holding himself up to the same standard as he expects from his partner. Someone that is a virgin can expect their partner to be one, but not someone who is a shithead. This can apply to many other areas in dating too. Such as one's education, body, income, etc. At the end of the day, being shallow is mostly about having very stringent requirements for a partner and it becomes hypocritical when you yourself can't meet those requirements.
Final thoughts
I myself am a virgin, and while I do have a preference that the girl I date in the future be a virgin, it's not even a requirement. All I really require is that she's loving and wants something real like myself.
Again, preferences and holding yourself up to the standards you want.
I also know that there are women who exhibit this behavior, but you only see them about as often as you a legitimate good movie in the Walmart $5 DVD bin, so I'll give them a pass.
And finally, just because someone is not a virgin does not mean they're loose and sleep around a lot. Many people only have sex in committed relationships. There is nothing wrong with this and unless you have a religious or moral reason to be against premarital sex, it shouldn't be a problem at all for dating.
Thank you for reading! Please fill free to leave any questions, comments, or insults below.
Have a suggestion on who I should write about for Volume 2? Just let me know!
What Girls & Guys Said
32 67Virgin girls are essential to please the sun gods! They are a precious resource and commodity to feed to the volcano so the sun gods don't smite us 😱😱😱... Forgive him son gods for he has sinned 😔
yeah well fuck you too.
First of all what are those pictures? The first one looks like a group of guys going to the gay bar and the second one looks like a middle school dance. I am a virgin who's waiting until marriage and wants to be with another virgin, so this didn't apply to me, but I don't "demand" virgins. I hate it when people "demand" things like this when dating whether it be a man demanding a virgin or a woman demanding a man over 6'2, like a wise man once said, "you ain't entitle to shit mother fucker.
Also I hate these shitheads with a passion too. I hate them so much that if humanity ever came to the point where we have to kill off some people because of overpopulation, I'd say these guy should go first.
Couldn't have said it better myself but that first pic. I think they are the type of guys who enjoy a sausage fest lmao
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Nice take and i totally agree with ya buddy.
2 much hate
for good written take.
Well done! Keep up the good work!
I give you suggestions for your Volume 2: Guys, who do anything and everything just to get sex. They pay for sex tons of money and do all that only to achieve sex from a girl.
This was hilarious. 😂
I'm a virgin myself and wouldn't expect a girl I'm with to be a virgin. That's kinda unrealistic. Most people my age have already had sex so it would be stupid of me to think like those guys. Only thing I'm concerned about is if she gets with too many guys. 1. Possibility of an STD 2. I will be one of the many guys and there will be many more after me.
Write a volume 2.
I don't know if i will be able to date nice girls lol, sluts are where its at but they are fucking mental.
Those three guys look gay
I'd care more about her being free of diseases.
Where's the thumbs down. Virgins are unconquered castles. If you don't want to be the first to do some thing than I am going to question your manhood.
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@CheerGirl38139 truth hurts baby girl
not really. But it is often quite revealing.
@CheerGirl38139 I don't understand what you mean by that. What is revealing? Is it, you think we're insecure because we ask for something we are ourselves don't have? How many girls ask for tall men when they are only 5ft?
Not interesting in arguing with you man. My statement was in the general sense about the "truth" often being revealing. Have a nice day. :)
@CheerGirl38139 me either I don't argue with women. You too baby girl
Well said about cheer girl, has the baby blocked you yet.
Oh and slut shaming is not rape culture. I was waiting for her to hate on another guy.
@bobbyxx yeah man thanks. She's just trying to rustle my jimmies but no she hasn't blocked me
She did me just for disagreeing with her. She also ranted at my question then blocked replies on the opinion. Just like all feminists she doesn't understand the concept of freedom of speech.
@bobbyxx she's misguided by self interest, can't necessarily blame her. I wouldn't care if she did block me tho.
Its a lot more powerful to be allies with queens than princesses in tall towers. Unlike the first who just had to climb the wall (by accomplishing whatever requirements a princess has) -to get an experienced queen you have to compete with all the other kingdoms. Better than past and present to be worth walking in her fields of pleasure time and time again. Most of all a Queen chooses you as the best she ever had but a princess simply picks a suitor that ticks the boxes in her inexperienced.
@Mayamoon02 not true. A princess will give me a healthy heir. Virgins are usually more sexually active and full of energy which would give me the boost I need to run my kingdom. A old queen is bitter and has very little glow.
Thats why I chose the word 'allies'. This is a Queen who might bear your children but doesn't have too cause she has her own power. A princess will have your heir but you will eventually get a mistress who is more experienced and can leave you smiling and speechless. Whilst the princess grows bored and starts sleeping with the stable boy in secret. Who mentioned age here? Has nothing to do with virginity. I didn't become bitter after I lost it lol The man who took it did after I realised he wasn't the best for me. Now I have my "king" who thinks I am amazing. He dislikes virgins because they are too nervous in bed compared and don't let go. Its sweet if you are both virgins though and sharing a new experience.
@Mayamoon02 as a king my job is to maintain my kingdom and conquer near by lands. If I found a queen like Daenerys from GoT than yes for the sake of my followers I would prefer a queen. Age has everything to do with virginity. Look at the girls who live a life of partying and slooting. They don't look very good. I'm glad you found a king who makes you feel like a queen it doesn't change the fact that a lot of men value virgins because of their youth, high sex drive, and overall energy.
@CheerGirl38139 "not really. But it is often quite revealing." Haha, my thoughts exactly!
LoL just now saw all the bullshit that Bobby boy spewed out. He's the troll that tries to down vote all my opinions. I don't block anyone for simply disagreeing with me, ever. I only block people that are intentionally argumentative for the sheer purpose of being obtuse and antagonistic. I'll never apologize for blocking people that want to do nothing but argue and waste my time. I don't look for people to agree with me... but my time is too valuable to spend on some troll that just wants to go back and forth being dogmatic about something that we will never agree on. So... to you guys that insist on slut shaming... that's your prerogative. Mine is to block you... so that we don't waste each other's time... seeing as we will never do anything but disagree. ✌ I find it pretty humorous that you choose to call me a baby, when you're the one making whiny butt hurt posts like a little boy. 😂😂 You'll learn evetually. There's nothing you can do or say that will effect me whatsoever 🙋
@CheerGirl38139 Good post. I'm a fan CG.
If you happen to see butt hurt Bobby again, do let him know that had he been here long enough to read much of anything I've posted, hed know that I am not, and will never be a feminist. Im a humanist. And I'm a CONTITIUTIONALIST which includes the entire Bill of Rights. I just don't have patience for argumentative fucktardery. 🙋 @fearless_banana @other_tommy_wiseau @olderandwiser @JRICHARDS1996
@CheerGirl38139 Oh man this is too much bullshit in one post lmfao. TLDR.
@Fearless_banana oh it's just a little boy thatdid butt hurt that thinks I blocked him simply because he disagreed with me. I tagged you guys bc you're all dudes that I've disagreed with and never blocked. It takes much more than that for me to block someone. 😉
@CheerGirl38139 Tis true. You are anything but a feminist, the majority of which would equally hate you because apparently they are 'tolerant.' I for one consider it stupid to expect a virgin when you yourself are not even one. The same goes for shorties wanting a tall man, though virginity is a lot more serious than height. The problem with morons like this is that they ruin all of the good virgin girls for the virgin men like myself who truly deserve them. I'm not sure who I hate more, them or Johns who frequent prostitutes yet would never want their daughters to become one, then try to justify it through bad Scholastic mental gymnastics and intellectual hairsplitting.
@CheerGirl38139 That's right. We had a major disagreement but discussed it, resolved the matter, and have become G@G friends. That's how adults do it.
@fearless_banana lol butthurt sluts. Guys, have you ever wondered why sluts attack guys who love virgins? because sluts dislike being undesired.
@Mayamoon02 it is funny that in your "queen example" you encourage guys to prefer sluts over moral girls
@gukikip being a non virgin doesn't make you a slut but saying this kind of things make you look like an idiot -a virgin
@sara_nour having sex with many men makes you a slut.
@sara_nour read her example above.
Well said
Spot on dude! Good job with this.
Someone's mad.
Umm, yeah, funny to read, but what's this fixation with the virgin thing? I suggest volume 2 should be something not about virgins otherwise I'll begin to have my doubts about you.
Being virgin until marriage is very important for marriage success.
There is nothing wrong with putting such a high value to marry a virgin that, in effect, you demand a girl be a virgin before marrying her. But for most; good luck.
20% of men will fuck a virgin sometime in his life time and of those a few will fuck quite a few virgins. 80% of men will never fuck a virgin because when girls give up their virginity they reject 80% of men as not suitable.
Nice take