Girls, please help, I am still confused?

Okay, first off, I want to say sorry if I am bothering you with this... But here's the thing, I thought that I was sure that I am gay. I love wearing panties, I s*cked cock and I slept with a man.. But I found a woman, over the internet, that I like and she also likes me and you could say that we are planning to see each other and I really like her and I feel like I am falling inlove with her.. So I really dont know what to think or do anymore, its so confusing... I know I like d*cks and wearing female panties and clothes from time to time, even now I am wearing a female thong.. But still, when I talk with that girl, all of this dissapiar and I dont know.. Do you think I have a chance with her and do you think I should try and meet her and also, what about telling her about all of this? Or I need to stop fighting and embrace the fact that I like d*cks (which I can't deny it anymore...) :(
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  • Culling your various comments and questions together, I think that sexually you are much more attracted to men, but emotionally you like what you get from female relationships (their more sensitive nature, the communication style, the lifestyle at home with them cooking for you, etc etc.)

    I don't think you've had enough time with men to have that thirst quenched/quelled. But now if you get with a woman again already, she's going to have to deal with your desire for men. Sounds tricky. And maybe quite a lot to ask of a woman. They're out there, but not the majority, that's for sure. (And the more partners you have, the higher the risk of spreading STDs around.)

    I can't advise you to begin a relationship with this woman.
    But if you do, you'd better tell her immediately, about your sexuality questions in your mind. Don't drag it out and have her fall for you. You can't look out just for your feelings and desires here. You have a responsibility to protect hers as well. At the very least, she needs all the information from you, in order to make a fully informed decision about whether she wants to proceed.
    If I was her, I would say no.

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  • Yes, I can tell that you're confused. I would say that you might be bisexual since you're interested in a woman and you also like men. But, you can also be transgender and be attracted to men and women. Have you thought about this possibility?
    If she has no problem with you liking men and wearing female underwear you might have a chance with her. Otherwise, you should forget her and move on.
    As for telling her about your preferences, you should be honest with her from the beginning. Imagine if she finds out through another person or if she sees you wearing a female thong? She might feel deceived and that is not going to end well. Just be open with her and see how it goes. If it doesn't work out then it's because it wasn't meant to be.

    Good luck! :)

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  • Live your truth dude, fuck whoever you want… or don’t! Your gay, or your bisexual, the only person who can figure that out is you. Nobody cares about your ridiculous questions literally nobody else, LEAST of all me! Please stop inviting me to answer these ridiculous attention-seeking questions!

  • I think you should consider yourself as Bi-Sexual and not straight. Where you go from there is your choice and no one else can make it for you. Obviously you have kinks so you just have to find someone okay with that. This definitely needs to be discussed with someone before a first date as it can be a deal breaker for many people. I would think you would have to look for Bi-Sexual people and I have no idea if they have any sites for dating.

  • Maybe you are bisexual or Pansexual. Sexuality is fluid. If you are into her go for it.

  • Possibly you're bi-curious🤔

  • You're probably bi.

  • Sounds like you’re bi? Are you attracted to this woman?

  • Yes you should tell her. And maybe you are just bisexual.

  • Bisexual or pansexual or whatever it doesn't need a label just do whatever you want. You don't need a category or a label to be comfortable just do what you want and when people don't support it just drop those people. People who who are worth it are people who like everything about you as you are. Honesty with yourself is the best thing to do.

  • u’re bi

  • U r bi. And possibly mtf trans. It’s okay to like both men and women.

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