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  • All orgasms are clitoral. The actual anatomy of the "clitoral network" is why and is also why cunnilingus is so effective; contacting so much of it's area.

    Please help me?

    How can you give yourself an orgasm?
    The "body" and the "glans" are the most sensitive. They are, effectively, a mini-penis less the urethra, which is separate and an inch down the runway. Like our version, the glans is very sensitive and is easily over-stimulated. The key is to get it aroused and hard (like ours) without excessive contact. That's why a blow job works so well for us as foreplay. It pleasures the glans without overdoing it. You need to do the same at your clitoris.

    With a lot of trial and error, and from watching amateur solo AV, this is what I have discovered, in the form of a routine.
    1. Apply lube or lotion liberally outside your lips in the entire region around your clit. Aloe Vera lotion is better than personal lube because it gives a little more traction; yet reduces abrasion and the alcohol in it has a pleasant chilling effect. Part your lips to allow lotion to reach the body and glans.
    2. Begin with flat handing (3 fingers) outside your lips. Circles. Reverse circles. Zig-zags. Adjust speed and downward pressure as you need it. Gradually your clit will welcome more as it expands from arousal.
    3. At a certain point, you will want more than you can provide outside your lips. Slide two fingers between your lips on both sides of the body/glans (clit) and apply a tickling motion. This will complete the arousal process and you will want even more.
    4. Return to the circles and zig-zags but apply them directly to your clit. Speed and pressure as you need it. Side note. If you sense even a trace of dryness, re-lube so you don't chafe your clit. This alone may be all you need to reach an orgasm with no insertion at all.
    5. But if you need a push, slide your first and second fingers into your vagina.

    Please help me?

    Curl them up toward/behind your pubic bone. You should feel a soft, padded area, which is your g-spot. A branch of the clitoral network (not shown in the graphic) surrounds it. At the same time, lay the tip of your thumb on your clit. You can then apply a thrusting motion that caresses your clit, vagina entrance and g-spot all at the same time. Fireworks should be on the way.
    Good luck

    • “All orgasms are clitoral”? Not true. I’ve given girls plenty of anal orgasms.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Try some toys, if there's anyone you're intimately close with even if you're not comfy having sex with them you could see if they'll give you a hand, I've always found it's more intense when someone else is controlling it.

    My partner was never really into toys til I encouraged her, first time we tried with a toy I held it and moved it for her, most intense non-sex climax she's ever had.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I usually use sex toys from Hismith. co. uk and it does my job very well. You don’t always have to use your imagination. If you want to turn up the heat, read a dirty book, or watch a sexy video. Then set the mood, add some lube, allow your mind to wander, and take time. Slowly, it will help you masturbate without disturbing your mind.

  • Here’s a tip. PM me! I’d love to help girls masturbate. I love having a girl come over spread her legs and just let me please her orally until her heart’s desire. I never ask for reciprocation but I always welcome any sort thanks she’s willing to offer.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • do whatever feels good

  • Try to hold your orgasm little bit longer it makes you feel crazy and you will experience a amazing feeling 💦

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