Please help me with this dude.. is he searious?

I was with my friend and i met her brother, we immidiatly felt the chemistry, he added me on facebook and asked me for a date. Went on a date with him, he was nice and kind and every day he texted me. Last week i came to his house, and gave him a HJ, no sex, he wanted and pushed me to let him cum in my mouth and i didn't agree. Everything was fine, kept texting, he told his sister that we're dating. Met him again with his sister and some friends of ours and he didn't pay attention to me what so ever, and when i asked him about it he said that it was cold and he dont talk when he dosent have nothing to say. He didn't even set near me. I sent him a text today and said that i really like him but i feel that he just want a casual sex even tho he said to me that he's looking for a relationship and that he really hurts my feeling when we met and he didn't pay attention to me. I asked him what he thinks about it and he didn't replay from morning.. what does it means? Please help..
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  • You honestly just need to forget about this, drop it, and move on. It just was what it was. He just wanted to get off... and while letting him cum in your mouth may have at least led to a second bj or hj down the road, this doesn't sound like much of a guy to get worked up about. Next time be more selective with your handjobs... find a guy who will get you off too at the very least 👍

    • Thank you for your answer! It's hard to just forget it.. i'm really hurt right now.. Should i text him and tell him that he really hurt me and then block him? And i didn't let him lol, it was just a hand job, and he complimented me with "you're better then my hand" lol Why do you think he told his sister that we're dating?

    • There is no point telling him that you hurt him. He just doesn't care. You telling him won't change it. I know you feel like you should say something but the best thing is to completely forget and cut him out. No idea why he'd say anything to his sister... just know you can definitely find a better guy. You really think you were gonna marry this guy or something?

  • He don't want you, just your pussy. He don't deserve you. One no from you and he got butt hurt. Forget him. Find someone better.

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  • He just wants sex

    • Do you think he'll replay? Why he told his sister which is a very close friend of mine that we're dating if he wants sex?

    • No. He’s done with you. He told his sister because he knew his sister would tell you. He wanted you to think you were dating so you’d put out. Dw. It’s happened to me too.

    • I'm so sorry to hear! It is hurtfull.. Thank you for your time and respond!

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  • He's not looking for a relationship and used you hoping for sex or more sex than hj.

    • Thank you for your answer! Should i tell his sister (which is a very close friend of mine) And why didn't he even texted back? At least 'was nice to meet you' or something.. Should i say anything to him? That it is dissrespectfull? Why the hell would he tell me that he's searious and then vanise?

    • If you want to stay friends with his sister I wouldn't say anything about it unless you absolutely have too due to her questioning you. As far as he goes, forget and ignore him.

  • Lol it means you did not give him what he wanted and was but hurt. You did good not doing what you did not want to do but he can't control himself and can't handle it.

  • Run. He's a player playing

    • Thank you!

    • No problem!