Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
The thought of a threesome, three-way or an open relationship is appealing which leads to the persuit of such an endeavor. Perhaps You may have seen such acts in a porno. In a Porno scene the scene ends once all parties involved achieve orgasm and the fairy tale of they lived happily ever after is the apparent theme of the ending. Pornography only displays the sex act and ends after climax. Real Life scenarios don't stop there. I was involved in Threesomes, Three ways and eventually an open relationship which was the beginning of the end of our 18 year relationship.When My Girlfriend asked me about the idea of an Open Relationship all I could think about was having sex with other Women. My Girlfriend began to leave every Saturday night and did not return home until after Midnight, I knew She was bisexual during the course of our relationship but had no idea she also enjoyed BDSM until 15 years into our relationship when I finally learned She was going to a BDSM club, She admitted she enjoyed being submissive and the person she enjoyed BDSM activities with on Saturday nights was a Woman, Later I had learned She was lying and discovered that the Person She was participating in such activities was a Man which of course began to spur My jealousy. For the whole year and a half She continued to participate in BDSM with this Man I would become depressed and suicidal because She séemed to take more of an interest in this Man more than Me, We would constantly argue and then I would become suspicious every time She would leave the house. Finally after I had become severely depressed after a Year and a half of this She stopped going to meet this Man at the Sex Club, I had thought our relationshíp would return to being as it was before She began visiting that club but of course I was wrong, She would become resentful toward Me. She was a victim of incest when She was a Child and the Man who She with whom participated in these activities was the spitting image of Her Father who had raped Her. I saw Her with Him at a local restaurant when I was driving by. What made no sense to Me was that She is very feminist and hates the idea of a Man controlling a Woman in a relationship but had no objections to being tied up and beaten in a sex club. After She had stopped attending those sessions She would accuse me of keeping Her prisoner in the Home and Our sex life had deteriorated, finally about another year and a half our relationship of 18 years had ended. I would advise anyone who is considering an open relationship or polyamorous affair to think twice before acting because it is likely once You participate in such activities there is no turning back. It is a possibility feelings of jealousy, and low self esteem will arise. If You must participate in a threesome or three ways then it is highly advised You do so while You are single and have no committed attachment to either party You have sex with. Perhaps You are already in an open relationship you currently believe to be successful but still I caution You that there may be a point where feelings of jealousy and depression could come to surface and no Human being is immune from such feelings. My advise to those who are married or committed to one another is not to participate in such activities.
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