Porn advice for women

[mystique_entity]

Hi; we are a married couple from UAE living in London with 2 children. It is very common for married couples to watch porn together, it is just a very well kept secret, i know many married women who watch porn with their husbands, however there are many women who enjoy porn but will not share this with their husband. Me and my husband came across porn together whilst looking for new moves in the bedroom. At first I hated the idea of watching it but that all changed very fast. This was about 5 years ago and since then we have used it to spice up our sex lives. We are not dependant on it but however it has worked wonders for us in the bedroom.

Below I have listed a few benefits

• Spiced up our sex life
• My husband has a greater sexual desire for me since he finds the idea that I enjoy porn a turn on. It gives him the idea that I really enjoy sex, which off-course I already do.
• We are more open with each other. I can discuss what fantasies I have with him which makes the sex great!!!
• Jealousy and suspicion between us has reduced as watching porn is not one sided, it is for the men and women to both enjoy.
• It has made us much more closer as it has helped us become more intimate with each other.
• It has made me trust my husband more as we watch it together and I don't need to worry he might be doing it behind my back.
• It has made sex more interesting for me, i fantasize a lot more. After a long time Sex can get very boring for women, so porn does help a lot.
• It has made me more confident in the bedroom, i am now able to do positions and say certain things which i would not do before.
• My husband’s sexual interest in me has grown and he treats me like his very own porn-star lol!!
• I am constantly learning new moves and techniques and also what to say and what not to say during sex.
• It really turns me on watching other people have sex, it just looks so hottt, its liberating!
• Helps me get in the mood for sex.
• Has helped me learn how to talk dirty if thats what you like...

Okay now the disadvantages

• Most porn is aimed towards men, so all the women are hot and the men are uglyy as hell. I don't watch porn for the men, however they should be as attractive as the women. I can help you here with a list of porn-stars we use and companies aimed towards women.
• The men have to be hot otherwise it is just a complete turn-off for me.
• If you want a girl to enjoy porn then make sure the guy is good looking and also watch what she likes, some stuff is too extreme.
• The truth we watch porn to see beautiful people have sex, we dont want to see ugly people have sex.
• Turn the volume down

Porn videos aimed for women are NUBILE FILMS, PASSION HD, X-ART

My favourite male pornstars are: I prefer Latino or black men (brown skinned men)-

· Danny mountain
· carlos carrera - Amazing body no girl can resist - he is latino
· Totti
· Marco rivera
· erick lewis
· Johnny castle
· Ryan driller
· CJ wright
· Bruce venture

favourite female pornstars are

· dani daniels

· madison ivy

Some women are just scared of porn, they get jealous of the idea. There is nothing be scared off, porn or whatever sexual adventures you participate in will only help make you more intimate with your husband, well that’s how i feel about. Ever we started watching it together we have been more open and honest with each other. I think women think they can't compete with the porn stars so get put off the idea, but they should use it to improve yourself, improve your skills in the bedroom and improve your body through better eating and excersize. The same goes for the man obviously!! your man will be pleased that you are making an effort

Other ways to improve your sex life:

• Have sex in public, just dont get caught
• Role play as different people, different scenarios
• Dirty talk is very effective
• Outfits costumes
• Porn obviously
• Be adventerous try things you would normally not do
• Workout together in the gym, try look the best you can possibly be, this will help with any insecurity issues and boost your confidence in bed

[aneleda]

"Women scared of porn". Now that's a gem I've never read before. As someone who tried watching it in the past and dislikes porn and doesn't watch it any more (alone or with husband), I can assure you, I don't fear it in any way. I just find it depressing. Why? Because it's all fake and staged. Thinking of all the drugged up women pretending to be enjoying themselves while old ugly men with cameras are filming them naked from every angle turns me off completely... What's more it's a product of a very messed up industry and many former "porn stars" are speaking up against it.
My husband doesn't watch it either. He cringes at sex scenes in movies and makes fun of me if I suggest a movie and there's a sex scene in it. He's like "it's your kind of movie". If he was into it, maybe I'd be willing to watch it too, yet I doubt it.

[bdsmkitten]

Don't watch the staged porn then. I don't because I agree with you, it's obviously fake. But, there are a lot of videos out there that are "real". Look under the amateur category for a start. You can even find actual couples posting their sex vids. A lot of those vids are very sincere.

[cookienick]

Wow...😂😂😂 though I will avoid women with fake tits... they just break my penis in to pieces 😂😂😂

[WriterDreams]

Oh, I like your answer.

Yeah I confess I got all my fears and revoltions on blow jobs from porn that had girls almost choking on the man's penis.

Also, my insecurities too because they were all so beautiful and sexy and slim etc.

I'm still unsure I'm open minded but not too much for the aggressive side of things. I had a violent upbringing.

I think finding the right kind of pron is good. Everyone I different.

[xan1488]

Bullshit, seems like u have been paid to promote porn.

[Anonymous]

What you said last made me think Of LARPing ( live action role play ) but I'm this case it would stand for live action role porn.

[Anonymous]

LOL is that Marc Fitt? 😂

Yep, I agree with most of the things you wrote. You listed some great ways to spice things up in the bedroom and keep relationships exciting. I think watching porn together is becoming more common and more discussed, though - there are a lot of published articles supporting it now.