Porn question? please read all first before answering?

Question

Okay so I recently just found out my boyfriend watches porn and I was a little upset. However, I feel like I overreacted because realistically it’s natural. But after thinking it through, I actually kind of really wanna watch it together and let things take on from there. I actually really do love this guy and wanna know about his fantasies and I wanna sexually experiment with him.

However , Since this would be my first time doing something like this (he's also my first sexual partner), I’m just a little worried that he would compare me to these other women or fantasize about being with them all the time. I mean I want us to have fun and watch it together and maybe try some things, but I also don’t want our passion to die out or have this become a regular thing... more so keep it as something we do to spice it up a little bit.

have you and your girlfriend/boyfriend watched porn together, did it make or break your intimacy? Any advice on this since it would be my first time?

we have known each other for 3 years been dating for 7 months

kellytheman · Accepted Answer

I had a couple girlfriends that wanted to watch porn together to experiment and spice up are sex life and knowledge. If anything it made are sex life and intimacy stronger than ever at that time. He probably not comparing you to the other girls but he could fantasize about the things they are doing in porn like role playing or diffrent sexual positions and possibly bdsm. Also if you watch porn together talk about whst they are doing and see if you like or feel comfortable doing some of the things they are doing.

summiter · Accepted Answer

I have watched porn with previous girlfriends and now my wife and I occasionally watch it together. We always watched it while naked which is even more fun and it always lead to some hot sex. I would start out by asking him what he might suggest for you for your first few times watching it. Then ask him to watch it with you in case you have any questions and see where it goes. They are actors in the videos so do not compare yourselves to them.

How is your sex life with your boyfriend otherwise?

ushagomez · Accepted Answer

Oh it’s a great thing to do for fun now and again. I wouldn’t recommend doing it all the time. Watching a little and then pausing to do what you have been watching can really be rather erotic. There are some Interesting ideas to try.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yes it’s fun.

what I suggest is you look at porn and find a bunch YOU like.

then sort have a play list.

this way you don’t risk the porn being what you don’t like.

talking about fantasies openly also works, just start of with mild stuff keep the dark under wraps for a bit lol.

Woodsy05 · Answer

If you enjoy watching it together, and were inspired by what you see, that certainly keeps things lively in your sexual relationship!

Samantha_17 · Answer

It can be good fun with a proper partner :)

COMMODOREII · Answer

My 1st girlfriend would tell me she wanted me sexually by first turning the channel to a porn channel. Then after a few minutes of knowing i was getting turned on she would be like, "wanna do it?" 😂

anylolone · Answer

I have, we mostly laughed at how fake it's, or talked about the performance, or when it wasn't fake, or when it wasn't fake but it was still weird. And we did compare ourselves to the porn performers.

2021biguy · Answer

Talk to him about it and see what he says, it should be fun. Maybe you can do things you both like together and it will make you horny to see stuff :)