Pornography and the effects it has on Your Partner Part II

[Anonymous]

As part of my previous my take post a second part was inspired by some events.

This is exactly what I was wearing today.

I got many comments that were totally agreeing with me which I say thank you for I was pleased

Some of the comments were unneeded though, one particular one. “Let’s face it: The other is a fool”

While I feel everyone is entitled to their own opinion yes, there wasn’t a need for that severity of

rudeness because you could say it

As I stated I am a Christian hence why it is a battle with a Pornography addiction, even looking to us is considered wrong and a sin, as we have a wife/husband that we should be enjoying and no one else.

I sometimes wear a little bit of revealing clothes, again mostly for my husband. It doesn’t bother me that much if I don’t know that other men are ogling at me, long as I don’t know about it why should I care?

Today my mother in law decided to “attack” me, I feel like it was attacking, I almost broke down but I held back, because I knew no one should ever make me feel that way it’s ridiculous.

So back to that discussion we had earlier.

I feel like your adding to the problem because you’re wearing that and you expect him not to look at other women because I’m putting myself out there for other guys to look at.

I told her as long as it isn’t obvious that they are looking at me it doesn’t bother me, because this is for my husband and not them. She repeated it several different ways, and I felt attacked.

I can’t stand up to her and speak my mind this is how I feel though it is for my husband not every other guy, I’m wearing what I am because I love the color and it feels nice.