Practice riding boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I recently ordered a dildo (6 and a half inches) to use. My boyfriend is 8 inches so unfortunately the dildo is smaller. But I got it to practice being on top with. I've been sticking it to a seat while I try riding it to get used to being on top... is this weird? Or is it actually potentially a good way to learn? I've only ever tried being on top once around 5 years ago and I couldn't manage to get his penis inside me and it was super embarrassing. And I don't want that to happen again

[Danisgivingit]

It’s not always about being ridden. He would probably enjoy anything that makes him feel like the center of attention. Some girls due to cervix position or other factors don’t find riding comfortable (or it may change depending on her cycle). However, maybe surprise him by sending him a video of you riding the dildo telling him you wished it was him. I’m a quality relationship, partners learn to work with each other and their bodies to make sure both get what they want and need. Props for thinking about him!

[Guy13]

All I can say is you are well intended but you both are missing out on some good times. I guess people have to improvise being LDR. You have a good heart and I hope he appreciates you.

[Anonymous]

Practice with him. If you’re in a relationship together, you should be able to experiment with different positions without feeling weird about it. It’s basically just missionary in reverse. You had one experience that didn’t go perfectly. So what? Get up there and try it again. It’s not rocket science where the penis goes. He can help you guide it in if you struggle. Just relax and have fun with it. He’s going to love it and you just might too.

[Asker]

We're long distance currently so we don't see each other besides maybe once a week or once every two weeks. And I sorta wanted to surprise him next time he does visit by climbing on top and hopefully being really good at it

[Opinion Owner]

I completely understand. It’s a great idea. Make sure you don’t go straight for it and you’re plenty aroused before you attempt it. I’m guessing you maybe weren’t wet enough that first time and it wouldn’t go in? Make sure you’re ready down there or if you’re worried, use a little lube before you start so he’ll slip right in. Also, if by chance it doesn’t go right on the first attempt, don’t get embarrassed. Sex isn’t always perfect. He’s not going to think badly of you, he likes you. I’m sure you know how to make him hard again and you can try again. If he’s patient enough to be in a long distance relationship with you, then he’s patient enough for you to figure this out. It’ll be great.

[Apple1996]

Riding a dildo and riding a man are two different things so hard to practice that way. You actually have to do it on a man to get good

[boggboss]

Why not practice on him?

[Asker]

We're long distance. And he does visit. But I kinda wanted to surprise him next time he visits by being able to be on top and stuff... cause I know he remembers the first time and how awful it was

[boggboss]

Of fair enough look sex is never like the movies so don't worry about it there are good sessions and bad aslong as u guys are communicating and your both having fun thats literally all that matters

[Asker]

We definitely communicate. I guess I'm just still insecure about it because when we first ever tried. The only time we did I couldn't manage to get him inside me and he went limp and I just felt so bad and not sexy that we've never tried again. Even though I want to a lot. It's why I was wondering if this could maybe teach me how to be better at it and how ro move and stuff on top.

[boggboss]

With him being that big its will always be hard especially if its your first time lol yes this might help you being able to mount and put it in the right hole with the right angle also when u do it make sure u are both wet enough

[Asker]

It was very hard. And I've only ever been with him so when we do something different it's always the first time for me. For him most likely not. And I'm so insecure even though he doesn't get why. But yeah I'm hoping using that can teach me hoe to mount him and how to sorta move I guess

[boggboss]

I get your insecure but I thinknthe main thing u need to challenge is understand he most likely don't find u unsexy even if somthing ends up not working if he is deciding to be with u that comes with the territory again this is your first time you not gonna be a pro or know how to do things silly putting more stress on yourself when he isn't

[Zandoval]

8 inches? Tf? What is he a horse?

[Asker]

No. He's just on the larger size I guess when it comes to penis size

[swettannie]

if you enjoy it, do it !

[Asker]

I like the dildo and it's fun being the one in charge. I'm just still self conscious to try with him... because if the first time. I don't wanna look stupid again. And I'm not sure if riding him would be different since he's bigger than the toy

[swettannie]

it can be different. to look stupid again?

[Asker]

The first time we tried I couldn't manage to get him inside me and he ended up going soft. And I just felt really stupid and bad after that

[swettannie]

i feel you ahah. a good girl always please her man

[Asker]

And I have that mentality way too bad lol. I know it's super stupid but I literally almost burst out crying that day I felt that bad and dumb.

[swettannie]

why would it be stupid?

[Asker]

I feel like people would think crying would be an over reaction

[swettannie]

not necessarly

[In_Trance]

I'm sure practice will help

[Thirsty4more23]

They say practice makes perfect. So good luck!

[Thirsty4more23]

Is this dildo thick or thin or normal?

[Asker]

Compared to him it's smaller and thinner. I've only seen his penis so I don't really have much reference on what sizes are normal

[Thirsty4more23]

Well obviously 8 inches is above average. But I’m sure u know that already. U can message me/follow me if you’d like. If not, no worries.

[Asker]

I followed you

[MasterKS]

you doing great, well done, thats how practice is done but make sure you learn some proper tricks so the practice will worthy. Ihope you taking care of those.

[Anonymous]

Next you can practice taking that dildo in your ass to get ready for anal sex.

[Anonymous]

GO TO HELL

[Asker]

Huh?

[Anonymous]

Woww
You wanna learn on dildo?
Put it on floor and lay on it and fuck it

[Anonymous]

I would practice It might really turn him on.