Precum but not hard?

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I dated a men of 42 years old at that point I was 27, I usually sleep with only panties and his big t-shirt I would be on bed and he will come and start grabbing my ass due to I have big ass I always eat my panties lol, so he will get turn on and finger me he will be all naked and then turn me around, me looking at the ceiling and I'll notice he's not hard but he is dripping pre cum a lot and he will start fingering more pulling out my T- shirt sucking my tits while he fingers me and still he ain't hard just dripping more pre cum, then he will do oral to me and insist on make me cum that way. While he pinches my nipples once I came like that I could see in his face how turn on he was just by staring at me then to put me on top and then he will grab his dick and I'll feel all his juices dripping on my pussy before it penetrates and slowly he will get it hard once he gets inside me but just until he was inside and i felt it he wasn't hard but a lot of precum. Transparent liquid. So exactly what just happend is that normal I never seen that before. Or what was that?

callMeNeel · Accepted Answer

Since he's getting old, his erectile muscles aren't very strong by this point, so he's not able to get hard,
Precum is a way of lubricating the penis head, so that sex can get easier.
So, here's what it happens
1. your man comes into your room, and finds you sleeping.
2. He watches your gorgeous body, and gets a turn on
3. He goes ahead, and does all sort of amazing stuffs to you (hope you enjoyed them ;)
4. His brain senses arousal and starts pumping precum into his penis
5. His brain also sends signal to his erectile muscles in his penis, but they fail to cause a hard on (can be because of N number of reasons, age, previous trauma, physical damage etc. )

Hope this helps

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

So as far as I understand, as you grow older the ease of erection decreases, mostly due to some changes in some enzymes in the body.
So what that means is that at 18yo, you can be 10% aroused and 70% erect.
But when you're 45yo, when you're 60% aroused you might be 70 % erect.
And a lot of men don't even reach their full length even at 100% length so they have to use viagra to reach full length.

But the age and the corresponding erection ability does change from person to person

The_Maphio · Answer

All very interesting, lady. But punctuaction, for fuck sake.

Anyway, precum flows more as orgasm is late to arrive. The more sex lasts, the more precum you're going to get. It's basically the same stuff that your pussy makes to make you wet. An extra help to penetrate.
It can still contain traces of sperm though, so there's a minila risk of pregnancy even if then he pulls out.
Be wary.

bubbakong2006 · Answer

He has trouble staying hard you might talk to him about a friend joining y’all he would probably get off watching you and you could play with him to but it’s a turn on to watch your lady Fucking another cock and if he can’t perform like that he should understand you have needs to and that you include him doing it could be really great sex for all still but you deserve to get a good fucking by a hard cock he can eat you but sometimes I’m sure you want a good pounding

Wise4myage · Answer

That’s not at all unusual. I produce lots of pre cum and I don’t have to be hard.

IsoUser · Answer

Throughout my entire life my erection never subsides until I have cum twice inside my girl and always copious amounts of precum prior to sexual activity

EaterPeter · Answer

Some kind of partial erectile dysfunction.

Anonymous · Answer

i'm going to guess you lost your virginity in high school, your teens

Precum but not hard?

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