Preparing to have sex with someone new for the first time?

[Anonymous]

obviously never had sex with this person but see it becoming more likely as things have developed between us. but not entirely prepared for that moment if and when it comes.

i don't want it to be totally awkward and want it to seem natural and for them to come back for more. i'm not sure how to prepare and have no idea what it be like to be in the bedroom with them.

[summiter]

Just take it slow and it is ok to talk about what each other likes re: sex. It is ok to talk about sex after all. Has it been a while since either of you has had sex? Have a lot of condoms nearby so you have one less thing to worry about.

[Asker]

i know little about her sex life , pretty sure she hasn't had an official boyfriend for a little while now but that doesn't mean she hasn't had sex with anyone , she's good looking so be surpised if its been as long for her as me , agree condoms are a good idea early on cause you just don't know where they've been and better to have safe sex

[Heartache0405]

Don't have sex. You're going to dig yourself a deep hole for some temporary pleasure?

[Anonymous]

Why do you have to sleep with her so soon especially if you dont know her. You dont come off as a player type either... why can't you take it slow and get to know her? Make her your girlfriend

[Asker]

its not early we've known each other for a bit now , i've been talking to her and gradually getting to know her for a couple months now. i'd like an actual relationship if possible

[Opinion Owner]

Ask her on a date?

[Asker]

i know feel that would be the next logical step in this process

[Opinion Owner]

Dont worry about the sex part just yet. The fast you guys have sex the more awkward itll be just be patient

[Shotia322]

Be clean. Ishave down there and take condoms.

[Asker]

would for sure be using condoms especially not knowing much about there sexual history , not really used to other people seeing me naked or even semi naked although do go swimming a lot during the summer not really sure what she'd be expecting to see

[Anonymous]

My guess is, it's been easy for you to get laid most of your life

[Anonymous]

Are you a virgin?

[Asker]

kind of complicated type of person who wants to have sex with a lot of different people but doesn't get to have sex with anyone so been a tough period of late. i don't have any idea how many guys she's had sex with , based on her looks she could slept with a lot of guys if she wanted to but don't get the feeling its been that way , maybe picky or stuck on someone?

[Opinion Owner]

I was asking about your experience.

[Asker]

either way if i get to sleep with this one likely won't care about the other ones i failed to get with when i was younger. can't get back the lost experiences i missed out on but can have sex with this girl who is literally the hottest thing to step foot in this town

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you not want to answer the question? You have posted anonymously, and to give you advice, it would be helpful to know your level of experience in sexual matters.