Problems with squirting?

I squirt. I know lots of guys are turned on by it and it's natural etc. etc. but I'm really uncomfortable with it. First of all, if I have to pee like, at all, even just a tiny bit, it all comes out when I squirt. I literally have no control. Which makes me self conscious... both the peeing and the lack of control. I think I've literally only squirted once without peeing a bit as well. Also, I've squirted quite a few times but never had an orgasm. I don't know if I'm just stopping too early... I asked a question related to that problem, and I have a few ideas to try, but I feel like I might not be able to have an orgasm without squirting, which really bothers me. I mean, to be honest, it's kind of hassle... it's really messy... Ah, I don't really know what I'm looking for here, but if you've got any advice, please let me know.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I would just try not to worry about it. Since p*rn is everywhere these days most guys know that squirting exists so they may be surprised at first but they aren't going to think you're a freak. Even if they weren't aware of squirting if they love you they'll learn about it fast and accept it. I say don't worry about it because a woman being overly self conscious during sex turns attention away from the moment for the guy when he has to reassure you that he really wants you or if you straight up won't do things because of you he might think it's really him that is the problem. I would rather have a confident woman that soaks the sheets than a woman that is too self conscious to share affection.

  • If the guy is anything like me, he would love you to squirt and love it even more if there was a bit of pee there too. Not sure why it is such a turn on, maybe cos we just made you lose all control or maybe just cos its tabboo. I found the best way is with a girl facing you straddling your face, it seems to make them squirt even more and many times this has turned into a full stream of pee. I discovered I liked this with an ex who was a bit drunk peed when she came in my mouth, she remembered in the morning and tried to avoid me but I spoke to her about and it became a regular part of our sex life, so just let it flow and see what happens!

Most Helpful Girl

  • When you squirt keep going with masturbation while you squirt. It may be too sensitive so you might need to have something that sits there naturally (like with vibrator) or get a guy to finger you and see what happens.

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  • To be honest, I'm extra turned on *because* of the pee!

  • Some guys don't like to go down on girls and these might be a problem for u. Best bet is to find a guy that does like to go down on females. We usually do not mind squirt and a lot of us are into pee and would actually be happy if you did pee or even like it better. Some girls have complained that they need to lay a towel down before sex (?plastic?) Other girls should be able to help you with that better. Just remember, if one guy doesn't like it...there are millions of us that do! oh..and yes, my women do pee for me! Chin Up!

  • Ahahaha don't worry men like it messy ;).

  • for the control issue try doing kegels.

    • I'm not sure I know what that is. I thought I did, buttt... yeah, not positive.

    • here's a place that explains it link

  • Squirt is so hot! Why do you hold back? Why not let go and enjoy?

  • I think a lot of guys don't mind the pee part! lol I'm serious. :P

  • Just accept it and deal with it. A lot of guys will find it a turn on, even if they don't normally like pee they will get turned on by knowing they turn you on so much you lose control. I know it's a hassle to make a mess every time you masturbate or have sex (it happens to me too lol) but that's life. If any guy ever leaves you because of it just consider yourself lucky that you're no longer with a douche bag.

    • So ya know, when a woman squirts it's not pee.

    • She said she pees so I'm taking her word for it. I'm sure she knows better than you or I.

    • Yeah, it's squirt and pee at the same time, unless I go to the bathroom like, immediately before. Thanks, though.

  • I don't mean to sound like a creep. But I think its hot watching a girl pee so if your werent embarressed or anything that would be a turn on me. Feel free to just let go completely.

    • Huh. really? Have you actually had a girl pee in front of you before? I just wonder what you'd do afterward, I guess. How do you clean up and ignore the smell or whatever? I feel like after it's over the moment would be totally ruined by the fact that there's pee on the sheets or whatever haha... I don't knowww...

    • I wouldn't mind. And if the though of having to clean up afterward bothers you why not have sex in the shower or bathtub?

    • I guess so. Well, thanks :)

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