Pros & cons of sending/asking for nudes?

Is it wrong to ask or send?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Pros and cons for asking nudes:

    + The other person might be into it and you get a good thing going.
    + You might get nudes.
    - You risk coming of as a creep or too aggressive.
    - The other person might find nudes really inappropriate and you ruin the relationship.

    Pros and cons of sending nudes:
    + The receiver might be into it and get turned on.
    + You might get some in return.
    - Sending (unsolicited) nudes might creep out or disgust the receiver.
    - Photos can always be saved and you risk them being shown to other people.

    So I would say it depends on the other person, whether or not they are into nudes. It might be a terrible mistake or a nice little treat.

    • What about respect for not asking and have your own value as a woman?

    • Picture aren't creepy or rude. Would you send nude pics? Or have you ever sent nude pics.

    • I didn't send

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  • Pros- you get nudes
    Cons- ?

    Asking is fine just don't be the dick who won't stop asking and then saying it's ur choice. Telling someone they have a choice and then pressuring them into it ain't cool. But I don't know why so many people think its wrong for people to ask.

    • Religion, respect and self value

  • Ask first if you can send something, or only if it's very clear. Don't send a d pic out of the blue.

    • I dont want to send even if she asks

Most Helpful Guys

  • only cons;

    makes you look a desperado in begging for them. Also silly to send unless a woman asks for them. For women are so 'meh' over dick pics

  • Well, it can be a bit creepy if you ask me, you have to be sure that she's comfortable with that sort of thing before you go ahead with it.

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  • Pros = Get Nudes and get to be nude (which is nothing to be ashamed of)

    Con = You can get unwanted nudes and advances but who doesn't

  • Don't ask that's creepy

    • Well you are young maybe in the furture you will

  • Ew no that's creepy and just don't

  • i would never do it.

  • Pros: you might get nudes, she might even like it.
    Cons: you risk being charged with sexual harassment and blowing any chance you've got with her.

  • For me no

  • Pros = You might get nudes.

    Cons = You look like a fuckboy for asking if you get refused.

  • Nude pics tell a lot about a girl

    • Tell me more

  • Wrong never ask EVER

    • Not true but still

    • True and you're a fithly pig if you ask

    • Filthy

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  • I suggest you don't send nudes they can use it as revenge porn

  • It's wrong to ask in my opinion to me it is very disrespectful and degrading

    • 😒I know what you mean

    • It was stupid of me to ask even if she did send

    • This is just my opinion though. Keep in mind I'm very conservative so im not like that. However, she might not mind it especially since she sent one

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  • Nooo

    • No as its not wrong or what do you mean

  • I love it

  • for me, it's a no. if you ask a girl for nudes you come off as a creep/pervert

    • Even if both of you have feeling for each other?

    • yes. even if she has feelings for you she might feel uncomfortable if you ask her for nudes. you'll probably lose all the chances of being with her

    • But if she sent one in the first place and you asked for a 2nd?

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  • I don't understand how we came to think it was polite to ask people to send free porn.

    • Its not

    • Since when is it impolite to ask anything sexual from a sexual partner?

    • Im talking about random. I dont see something wrong with asking from someone you love and or loves you back

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