Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
What I am talking about is "prostate massage" properly done at the right time.
Many guys have "gay fears" about this and others are simply uncomfortable with the thought or practice of it. But for some of us, a good session can be magnificent.
The prostate is a walnut sized gland that surrounds the urethra between the bladder and outer sphincter we use to pinch back pee. It produces seminal fluid, which is the medium that carries live semen during ejaculation. Just above and connected to it are are the seminal vesicles that store live semen arriving from the testicles and the ejaculatory ducts which force semen into the prostate, mix it with seminal fluid and expel it during ejaculation. The prostate and seminal vesicles become engorged with fluids during arousal.
My experience is that anal opening is heavily loaded with nerves and even shallow fingering adds a lot of sensation to a HJ or BJ, speeding up my orgasm. Deeper fingering combines that sensation with direct motion and pressure on the combined prostate/ejaculatory ducts/seminal vesicles, increasing the urge to ejaculate when the time is right.
Here is how she does it. Most of my BJ is pretty standard. I favor her mouth remaining up at the cap with one hand stroking my penis and the other cupping and massaging my balls. When orgasm approaches, she extends her index finger and begins to insert it into my anus. She does it in several strokes, rolling her finger side to side for both sensation and ease of insertion. At about the second knuckle, she can feel my prostate, rounded and firm. She presses her finger a little in farther so it lays on the entire prostate/ejaculatory ducts/seminal vesicle and begins in and out stroking, curling her finger on the way out and straightening it on the way in.
Each out stroke slightly compresses that area, increasing the urgency to ejaculate. When I finally do, she leaves her finger fully inserted, which makes each squirt stronger than it would be normally. When my squirts slow down toward the end, she adds pressure in rhythm of each squirt, forcing it out, which is what porn calls "prostate milking". This not only feels literally hot down there, but also gives me highly pleasurable spasms like at the start of orgasm. And she can actually press out another squirt without an ejaculation contraction. WOW!
I know that there are cleanliness issues but we are in a solo relationship so there's no disease issue and soap and water are nearby. None the less, she may want to wear a finger cot or glove to make her comfortable doing it.
I have said in posts here that if every guy who wanted this got it just once a week, there would be far fewer divorces and less marital discord and violence. Seems shallow, but I believe it.
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How's that saying? Denial is the first stage, right?
Denial of what exactly?
That you're gay. Duh.
Homosexuality is about WHO you are attracted to, NOT WHAT you do. Gay men kiss and I kiss my wife. Kissing does not make me gay. Gay men perform oral sex on each other. My wife and I perform oral sex on each other. Performing oral sex on my wife does not make me gay. Gay men engage in anal sex. My wife and I engage in anal sex. Guess what... I'm still not gay. I have never had the desire to have sex with a man. I do desire to have sex with my wife and for that matter I find other women both attractive and arousing. Guess that makes me heterosexual after all. Despite that, I still have a prostate. Stimulating a prostate to orgasm isn't homosexual sex. Stimulating a prostate to orgasm isn't heterosexual sex. Stimulating a prostate to orgasm is MALE sex. Much the same as both straight & lesbian women stimulate their clitoris to orgasm because that is FEMALE sex. Basically you are saying that you reject the idea that you share physiology with other men who happen to be gay.
Sticking things up your butt is gay. Plain and simple, buddy. There's no middle ground.
So the fact that I'm not attracted to men, and never have been doesn't factor into it. You do realize that homosexuality means being attracted to the SAME sex, right? I'm a guy, I like women, ergo I'm heterosexual. It's not that hard to figure out.
Denial mate, do you know what that means? What's next getting pegged by a girl isn't gay either?
Don't bother arguing with him He's either a virgin or a complete moron
Why am I making sense suddenly?
the only one in denial is you. lmao.
@gray_sailor Watch it. Logical thought is unpopular here.
Whenever I tried to stimulate that area I got no reaction from myself from just masturbating. Does this only affect some guys? Was the issue that I was masturbating instead of having it done to me? It's possible I just got the wrong spot but from this explanation I don't think I did. Any advice?
This is true indeed. :3
Now, if only most straight males had the balls to actually allow themselves to get fingered, and realize that it's a truly interesting thing.
Exactly, too many are afraid of being labelled as gay when they could be denying themselves so much pleasure.
I can't take this Mytake seriously, especially when you state that people that don't do it are automatically insecure or have "gay fears". Didn't accord to you that people don't want their ass fingered just because?
"there would be far fewer divorces and less marital discord and violence." Ass fingering can cure cancer too did you know that? Swear to god some people...
Actually it won't cure cancer. But it DOES help in preventing it.
@Xiloquin
Prostate cancer that is.
@ironeddie I hope you realise that I was being sarcastic
Fuuuck nooo IM OUT
Absolutely true, it's sad how so many guys are missing out lol
Blehh. Fuck that massage shit
You do know that your sphincter can relax and not hold your own 💩, don't you?
Note:this goes for both men and women
and the winner is...
Love the italics!
I've done this with a few of my partners they gave me anal in exchange of her doing this to me its was great Every guy should try it
i heard it is good for prostate health too.
This seems to be a bit gay hey with half the things I try what the hell...
No, no Fuck No. Anyone who puts anything up my ass will die--I swear.
There was a time in your life when you thought all girls had cooties and they should be avoided at all costs. And then, you set aside those foolish ideas, and you had sex. . . with a girl, not your hand! What an incredible reward that was for putting away you foolish notions about cooties. Nobody wants to make you do something like this, but you should never brag to anyone about how uninhibited you are.
No freaking way.
No way.
No.
Its encouraging to see an open minded post like this. I was extremely opposed to the idea of putting anything my ass at first when my friend first told me how he enjoys stimulating his prostate, but after a few years curiosity got the best of me.
It is indeed a whole new level of pleasure. The contractions are much more intense and the rich nerve endings you described create a wonderful sensation all over. Instant erection too.
Just have to be careful not to get too carried away or you can make your butt bleed.
The poor prostate gets no love since most women are repulsed at the idea of penetrating a mans anus for obvious reasons. But bless those who are open minded enough to try it.
Its a shame so many guys are insecure and worried about the thought of appearing gay that they miss out of such exciting pleasures.
Being gay is about WHO you have sex with, not where you like to be stimulated.
And being gay is not the worst thing in the world anyways.
Well said.
Only if i had a girl 😭
Looks quite unsafe to me, just by looking at the picture... so there's no need I guess
No one is sticking anything up my ass period.
This.
Your loss :)