Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
So, I've seen some misconceptions around about "PUA" or as we regular people call it, "game." I'm going to give you a rundown of what "Game" actually is, as well as why women decry it as empty, narcissitic, misogynistic, and manipulative... while they finish putting in $10 worth of makeup to artificially make themselves look more sexually attractive.
1. Game is learning human interactions.
Some of you are in sales, customer service, hospitality, contract negotiation... depending on the job, some of you must deal with people quite a lot. Or maybe you don't. Either way, your job requires skills. Patience, courtesy, attention to detail, focus, etc. Maybe you naturally had some of these skills. Maybe your parents taught you. Maybe you got written up at work a few times before you really learned it on the job. "PUA" stuff, AKA Game, is the skill of learning how to be attractive to women. Some of us were born with traits that help, some of us learned it as kids, some of us had to learn it as adults. Just as women often must learn to use their sexuality to be attractive... men quite often have to as well.
All this time you thought women just couldn't stand to have skin hidden from the sun, didn't you?
While men judge women primarily on physical attractiveness and secondary on personality, women have a much broader test for men, and place much more importance on charisma, confidence, wit, humor. While good clothing items and the gym are there to help you with your style and looks, Game exists to help with your personality. As high school and college boys lament, treating a girl the same way you treat a guy friend or such will not help. There's a reason why so many guys end up becoming "jerks" after seeing what works, and taking one form of Game--yes, there are multiple approaches and strategies. They are working to give women what they want, no different from a girl who works out and puts on a string bikini to get male attention at the pool.
2. So what is game?
Game is like anything else. If you go to a handgun class, you will learn different stances, operation of handguns, aiming, movement, etc. Center Axis Relock is great for extreme close quarters. Weaver is good for medium range. Isosceles is good for long range pistol shooting. Similarly, different teachers will teach you different things. If you look up US Army training manuals, it will be different from a police class. Different strategies from different sources, and different strategies for different situations.
Game, is learning ways to interact with women that will build attraction and that women will enjoy, with different tactics for different situations. It's the male version of a girl leaning over a table so someone gets a good look at her cleavage. Unfortunately, as the sexes are quite different, it's a bit more complicated.
For instance, the notorious "Jerk Game" is exactly what it sounds like. A man who is extremely arrogant and uncaring in his interactions. It works sometimes. Sometimes it doesn't. I've had mixed results with it and personally don't like it. See, just as there are different Game strategies for different situations, there are different game strategies that work better or worse with your personality. If you want to learn more, I recommend the blog Chateau Heariste, where pretty little lies perish. It's a blog, and 100% free. No, there is no subscription, special videos or events to pay for. You can donate if you want, but that's optional. No content is hidden.
Example: one game item I learned, showing confidence and humor, was quite simple and is quite enjoyable. I was at a social event, getting bored, and I saw a girl sitting at a table. I had spoken maybe a sentence or two to her earlier, but that was it. I could have gone over to the table to try to chat her up, or hoped she would notice me, or been bored and stood alone... instead, I waited until she glanced over in my direction, caught her eye, and simply did a "come here" motion.
Nooot quite like that. But the effect was similar. She paused for a moment, looking unsure. I smirked a little, raised an eyebrow, and did it once more. She turned, said something to her compatriots at the table, and walked the 15 feet or so over to me. We had some fun! No, it did not lead to sex, nor did it need to. Enjoying yourself with an attractive member of the opposite sex is a good reward in and of itself.
In short, game is simply learning different social interaction methods that women find attractive. Some men, and many women will tell you this is shallow, narcissistic, false, wrong. For one, women don't really have room to talk. In 2016 alone, the US Cosmetics Industry made about 62 billion dollars.
https://www.statista.com/statistics/243742/revenue-of-the-cosmetic-industry-in-the-us/
And yet... these same people would lecture you or I for simply taking the time to learn social skills and how to give women what they want--men who they find attractive and enjoyable to be around. Why should women have to suffer boring dating/sex lives, or spend their nights competing for the attention of a thug, simply because decent, regular men were too stupid or too lazy to learn how to be fun dates and partners?
For two, I would ask you how much of life is not "changing yourself" to please others. Tell me, do you naturally get up at 6am? Or do you just do that to get to work or school on time? Maybe you're not naturally punctual. Think your manager would be accepting of that? Do you naturally eat good food, or is that simply denying "who you are" by not pigging out on ice cream and ending up like a whale?
Point is simply, all of life is "changing yourself" in one way or another to have a good life and achieve goals.
3. Why do women hate game?
Women are naturally pickier about sex, than most men are, simply because we don't get pregnant. They do. So they get upset about "game" and call it "rape" for a few very simple reasons.
Women both unconsciously, and sometimes consciously, want the best genetic material, and hence, they want men who have sexy charisma "naturally." They don't want men who had to learn it, or be told/explained.
Or as Selena put it, "You are the thunder and I am the lighting and I love the way you know who are you, and to me it's exciting!"
When you or I or him learn game and become more attractive, it messes with their senses of who's a natural cool guy, who's actually attractive, and who in their mind, is "just wearing makeup." Like them.
Hence, it messes with their mate selection, and if they find out the person was not born "Alpha" it's rape, to them. Now imagine if you could charge every make up wearing woman you had sex with for rape... dang, the entire female population would be in prison. Hypocrisy aside, keep this in mind--if a woman gets the notion that you're a "faker" in any way, the fangs will come out.
4. No, game does not work miracles.
Game won't get you Selena Gomez, or Gina Carano. Probably. Game isn't here to work miracles--game is here to help you reach your potential. Just as working out and wearing a bikini won't make a plain girl look like a 10, learning game won't make panties fall off when you drop in a room. Like anything else, game is there to help you be all you can be, and it indeed takes practice before you get the hang of it. When learning something new, first it takes focus. Then it becomes easier. Then it becomes muscle memory, and like driving, you could do it half asleep.
In short... no, game isn't rape, game isn't misogynistic. Not anymore than women learning how to be seductive, or wearing makeup/sexy clothing is rape or misandry. Game isn't "PUA Trash" it is quite simply learning how to be attractive and enjoyable company to women. And yes, some of it will work splendidly, because it plays on simple female nature and provides what they want, just as a bikini makes a woman more attractive. Now, on with your day. Go outside, go to the mall, starbucks, a clothing store, and go hit on some cute girl. It'll put a spring in her step and yours!
What Girls & Guys Said
4 19To paraphrase Shane, "Game is a tool, no better or worse than the man who uses it."
I think you are wrong about women being angry about a man learning to be charming, they just don't like it when he is completely different when his game is not on. It is very like makeup and the other things women do to enhance themselves. Men don't mind a little but if the person they wake up next do has no resemblance to the one they went to bed with they are not happy.