Pulling a girl's hair during sex?

[Anonymous]

Do you do this? (Or does your partner do it to you?) Do you like it? If so, why?

[DodgersGM]

I like it, yeah. It's not a violent type that I like, though. I like pulling her hair/ponytail to sort of guide her or maneuver her how I want her. For example if we are kissing and I want to get at her neck so I can kiss there, or maybe I want to kiss below her ear and nibble on her ear or something, then I like to tug at her hair to guide her how I want her.

It is about me being in control there, yeah, but it's also done with care, if that makes sense.

[AustinMan]

I love doing it but my lady's tender headed and doesn't like that kind of erotic pain so I only do it ever so gently.

[GnarlyQuinn]

HELL YES, but you have to do it a certain way. If you just pull from the end, you pull hair out. The proper way to do it is get a hand full close to her head, wrap it around your fist, and yank... sometimes a woman just likes being put in her place. What a better place to act out her fantasies than in bed, with a trusted partner willing to try anything...

[justasillysally]

yes, i love it! its feels good, but not too much. and its not the pain, its that it pulls my head back too much and i like to have a bit of control. i wouldn't want him to be pulling my hair the entire time,.. just once in awhile a little tug is super hot. he does it probably 2 or 3 times during sex, just a quick tug.

[Bloodfaith]

I don't like my hair to be pulled, I find it uncomfortable and displeasing.

lol actually during sex if a guy gets rough or aggressive with me, I always go into fight mode and forget about the sex. (fight as in, I'm going to smack you)

[citroen]

i love my hair pulled

[kheserthorpe]

Not roughly, but use her hair to hold her and position her.

[Mesonfielde]

Doesn't really make sense for me to cause someone else harm, especially during intimate physical activity.

[AustinMan]

Where's the harm if she likes it? Is it your place to decide it's harmful? No.

[LastGirlScout]

Its less harm and more the feeling of being dominated. Hair grabbing isn't painful if done right, its very intimate if done in particular ways. I know your feelings in rough-ness in the bedroom though, and I can understand your view point but I think the hair grabbing is a possessive 'youre mine' type of thing.

[LastGirlScout]

*you're

[Mesonfielde]

@lastgirlscout i get hips and chest and maybe shoulder if you get that far, but I really don't get the hair :p

[BelleGirl21]

I like a gentle hair pulling, if that makes sense. :/

[douride2]

No definitely not into it.

[YeahImdone]

Maybe I can do it If I really have fun when I having sex. But I have never tried it :D dude I am going to try :D

[celestialhunk]

No its rough... on sex... pulling hair

[AustinMan]

Some women LOVE rough sex. In fact a LOT of them do.

[King546]

I never had sex before and I'm 20 years olds but when I do sex for first time I will never pull girls hair but after sometime I love to pull her hair softly and enjoy with her.
And I hope she will okay with pulling her hairs.

[Anonymous]

I LOVE IT it's a huge turn on to loose control somewhat

[Anonymous]

I like pulling my guys hair.

[Anonymous]

I love it when a guy does that.