Pulling her down, while having sex and she’s on top of you. Then suddenly kissing her with tongue and all. Why would a guy do that?

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We are good friends the second time we had sex. I was again in too of him, riding his dick. All of a sudden he starts caressing my hair and neck. Then he sort of lifts his upper body up, and lowers my head down to him. Kisses all of a sudden and with tongue and all. Why would he? No we aren’t dating. We have been good friends and just have had sex lately.

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GingerGuy Master
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For some people, kissing is part of sex. Some people separate the two (like you), for others they go hand in hand. I can't just have sex with someone and not kiss. I mean, technically I can, but far far less enjoyable for me. Kissing is a part of it for me.
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- Asker
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  Yes, it’s understanding. But he can’t be telling me if we fuck I can’t get attached. And he’s over here doing all this nice and naughty things. The fuck, to me fucking is just fucking you know?
- GingerGuy
  +1 y
  Yes true. No matter what your mind tells you, you can't control feelings, no matter how hard you try.
- Asker
  +1 y
  So you think he can’t control he’s real feelings? Even if he says I can’t get attached.
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- GingerGuy
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  If he's having them. I do believe guys have it easier that way maybe. Like we can "detach" easier than women. So kissing may not be that emotional for him (like it would be for you). But, it could be (or get to be over time). If feelings do happen for him, no he won't be able to control them. But they may not happen as easily for him either. Just depends on the person.
- Asker
  +1 y
  He text me more often than before. We did text and talk whatever. But now he’s been sending me links to things he likes to listen to like music, and what not. He will let me know the things or places he will go to. In public if we see each other, he will gesture me to go sit down with him. He’s always around my area.
- GingerGuy
  +1 y
  If you're wondering if he's got feelings for you, you're best to straight out ask him to know for sure. These could be "signs" or totally coincidental also. You'll drive yourself mad trying to figure it out trust me LOL. And hopefully he'll be honest with you and himself about it.
- Asker
  +1 y
  It’s weird man. I’m like, stop texting me links to music you like.
jdrrichmond Yoda
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It's passionate. And even if you're just friends there should be an emotional connection. Also, deep kissing is very arousing. And maybe he cares about you more than you know.
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- Asker
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  Way before we fucked he said I couldn’t get attached. But he’s over here kissing me like this. I’m like okay.
- jdrrichmond
  +1 y
  Guys don't always know what they want from a relationship. Just like girls.
- Asker
  +1 y
  He text me more often than before. We did text and talk whatever. But now he’s been sending me links to things he likes to listen to like music, and what not. He will let me know the things or places he will go to. In public if we see each other, he will gesture me to go sit down with him. He’s always around my area.
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- jdrrichmond
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  He likes you.
- Asker
  +1 y
  What makes you think ornsay that? After he told me not to get attached when we have sex.
- jdrrichmond
  +1 y
  His feelings may have changed. I don't know him, but it sounds like it. Listen with your eyes. It's what he does not what he says.
- Asker
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  Man the first time we ever had sex. The way he looked at me as he pulled me towards him. They were tender with lust. The 2nd time we had sex as I was leaving cause I don’t like staying at others people places. I was just standing there and he pulls me in and kisses my forhead. It felt Amazing
- jdrrichmond
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  He's a good lover. It's hard to be tender and not have feelings.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I don't know why he would even kiss my forehead.
- jdrrichmond
  +1 y
  You might be over thinking it. Maybe just ask him?
- Asker
  +1 y
  I can’t I’m too afraid of the reason he may give me. I’ve liked this guy way before we fucked. And I do over think shyt because he tells me it to get attached. But a while before we fucked there was this girl who kept tagging him and I on Facebook starting mess. He fucked this girl once about two years ago. Anyways, he will tell me to ignore her. The. About 3 weeks ago, he tells me that the same girl had send him a message in messenger asking him why he ignores her and such. So he tells me that he gets this message. Why would he tell me though. Why does e text me more often and sends me links to songs or music he likes and wants me to listen. When I see him in public, he gestures for me to sit in the area he’s at.
- Asker
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  Also one time I had laid my head down on the table at a public transportation and he walks by and caress the top of my head. Weird.
- Asker
  +1 y
  And he also has had this habit when I leave his place or in public he says “love you”.
- jdrrichmond
  +1 y
  He's giving you all the signs. Do you think he's a player?
- Asker
  +1 y
  He used to sleep around years ago. When he was younger and what not. He’s 42 now. He never goes out or goes to bars. He’s usually at his buddies house who is a guy of age 60 or so. I mean why would he tell me all this information if he is. It’s confusing.
- jdrrichmond
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  That is confusing. I wish I knew the answer. I'd hope that at his age he be more direct.
- jdrrichmond
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  How old are you btw?
- Asker
  +1 y
  26 and he doesn’t care about the age gap. He was in love with a girl who was 13 years younger than him years ago. Didn’t marry due to different religion.
- jdrrichmond
  +1 y
  Gotcha.
- jdrrichmond
  +1 y
  I wish I knew the answer
- Asker
  +1 y
  It’s alright. But from what I’ve told you. Honestly your input what you think?
- jdrrichmond
  +1 y
  I can't be sure, but it sounds like he has feelings for you. It could be that he's just romantic, even if he doesn't want a commitment.

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omgjassy Master
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Turns him on
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RadCanadianMan Xper 3
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I kissing isn't as intimate as fucking right lol. I prefer making out and cuddling over sex but that's just my preference. Don't know why you're thinking kissing is going too far when you're already boning each other lol.
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- Asker
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  Too me fucking is just fucking. No kissing, or caressing. Fucking is just fucking. Nothing more.
- RadCanadianMan
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  Then that's on you to tell him that. You can't expect someone to not kiss you when they already have their penis inside you lol.
- Asker
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  He even pulled me in for a hug, and kissed my forehead. Like what the duck.
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- Asker
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  Fuck
Darkchild25 Xper 4
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How more intimate can you get than having a dick in you? But like anything if you dont like it just tell him.
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- Asker
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  For someone who just wants to fuck me and doesn’t want me to get attached. Of course I don’t expect any more than a dick inside me.
cancan73 Yoda
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Made up story,
Only a moron would know
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- Asker
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  I’m serious.
- cancan73
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  I meant to say wouldn't And you just confirmed that
- Asker
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  What. What is your answer
akks002 Xper 3
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I don't know i am a virgin
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bluesky777 Xper 2
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It's pleasurable.
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