Questions about Dry Humping

[Anonymous]

Okay, I'm just gonna get straight to it... I'm new to the whole physical side of relationships, so I've got some questions 1) If I had an orgasm from dry humping while both of us were in jeans, is that a good sign that I'll be able to have them during sex? (i'm a virgin, so I have no clue) 2) How common is it for girls to have orgasms at all while dry humping, whether you're wearing minimal amounts of clothing or not? 3) Can guys reach orgasm from dry humping? I feel like it's harder for it to happen to them. Thanks for the answers, I appreciate it!

[Arrowdynamics]

1. I would think so. I think him pressing against you caused your clothes to rub against your clit which probably caused your orgasm. If during sex that same rubbing friction is applied to your clit I'm sure you'll come again.

2. I'm not sure. I do know that my lady loves me to rub you clit when she was her panties on. I don't know if it gives her the same feeling as dry humping but she gets off from me doing it.

3.Yes we can, but the girl has to be a master dry humper. It has only happen twice in my life. Both times envolved alcohol, strippers, and a pair of velour sweatpants. I don't think it would've happen if I had on a pair of jeans though. They're too hard.

[Anonymous]

1. Yes.

2. I can only speculate. Not very common. Be careful with respect to thin clothing. Semen will soak right panties and sweats and their pliability will allow him to partially penetrate you partially. High risk of pregnancy. Stick with jeans and keep dry humping dry.

3. More easily than for girls, especially at first.

Dry humping is fun when you are just starting out. It simulates intercourse and allows the kind of physical affection (kissing, hugging, thrusting) you get from intercourse. But if you want to have a satisfying orgasm, switch to uncovered HJ/fingering when you are ready to take that step.

[jcoldstream]

1. Yes. The problem you will have when you finally get around to going the whole way together is that you will climax before you and your girlfriend are both ready. Dry hump first, then have full sex straight afterward. That will slow you down and the sex will be better.

2. I don't. I enjoy being used for stimulation, for example wearing little shorts and letting the boy orgasm by rubbing against me, but I need a vibrator for orgasm afterward.

3. Yes. They all do. I'd feel disappointed if they didn't pump during a dry session.

[05Jueey]

No because I can't come from penetration. I can only come from rubbing so dry humping is like rubbing, not penetration. I can come during dry humping. My first boyfriend came while dry humping so yes

[Anonymous]

no. dry humping and sex are not the same. dry humping stimulates your clit whereas sex does not and doesn't feel that great.

[Yukinoinu]

Ok so I don't know about one or 2 but for 3 a guy could have an orgasm off a tree. It takes little to nothing like serious. Hell a desk could make a dude orgasm. Sometimes it seems pretty pathetic.

[kheserthorpe]

1) yes. My wife when we first met could orgasm from dry humping. when we had sex for the first time, she had an orgasm within 15-20 seconds when she was penetrated.

2) I'm not sure.

3) In clothing, I never have, and never been close. if we've been down to one naked person one in underwear, I used to be able to, not sure if I could now.

[zippididooda]

Straight up, here it is. I've read that women actually get more stimulation through dry-humping than vaginal penetration and that makes orgasm more likely for them. The other reason is that the clitoris is receiving more penile stimulation than through PIV intercourse. Yes, men can orgasm from dry-humping although I have to say it isn't as satisfying as penetrative sex. I think the reason is lack of warm, smooth friction a man gets by inserting his penis in your vagina.

[chalobole]

According to my experience, this is very normal and must happen to any normal girl. Cuming from dry humping depend where the friction is. For boys, this is hard, but possible.

[gandolph3]

yes yes and yes

[Anonymous]

1) yes

2) sometimes

3) I have never

[Opinion Owner]

Everything for guys "pleasure" basically sucks. Dry humping with clothes on, condoms, etc. Both suck. That's why we like getting oral.

[Asker]

oh...I see. thanks!