Guys, quick shooter?

I recently had sex with this guy. It was the first time with him. He went down on me. Then we had sex, that only lasted about 3 minutes. No big deal. These things can happen the 1st time with somebody new. My question is what does this mean? Does it mean he enjoyed it? That he's not attracted to me?
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  • When I was in my teens, feeling a warm, wet vagina on my penis was such a fantastic turn-on, it's easy to understand how I was able to come so fast. But also, I would usually stay hard after coming. Sometimes I would come two or three times and still be hard. The girls I had sex with when I was in my teens never seemed to get worn out or tired or lose interest after three or five or ten or even thirty minutes. If this guy lasted three minutes, I'm sure he enjoyed those three minutes, but maybe he was at a loss for what to do afterwards. I think there's a certain conditioning or a certain knack that guys can acquire to keep on doing it until the girl is fully satisfied. I've gotten that knack. It involves getting over the urge to "get it over with". There's a voice in the back of the mind that says "I'm so horny. I want to hurry up and come". I think that's the problem. Why get it over with so fast if it's so enjoyable? It's got to be hard to change somebody out of that overnight, but it has to start with the first step.

  • If he came within 3 minutes I'm not sure how you would think he didn't like you. That's like serving a meal then after they clean their plate asking if it tasted bad

    • Couldn't he just rush through to get it over with quickly?

    • Think about it. If a guy if thinking to himself "I don't like this at all" would it make sense for him to keep going until he has an orgasm? Or just stop because he doesn't like it?

    • No, you're thinking about this all wrong. Women are in general attracive to guys and since he picked you he must find you more attractive than at least a few other women. So he was probably overwhelmed and couldn't hold back any longer :). If he had wanted to he probably could have finished much quicker. I don't see how you came to the conclusion that he couldn't be attracted to you that's weird.

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  • It means it was his first time. you have to build endurance and that takes practice. Also the average time is seven minutes apparently. Seems short doesn't it?

  • He was reaaly excited... or it's normal for him... he just can't last long.

  • It means he enjoyed it. If I was to hear about this from him, I would tell him to masturbate before going out with you so when you two are together it will be longer before he can get off quickly again.

    But that would be hard for you to bring up to him and suggest.

  • It just means he found you very attractive and literally could not contain himself. I would take it as a compliment... you are obviously that gorgeous to him that there was no holding back!

  • It means he's a quick shooter
    Nothing more, nothing less.

  • Enjoyed it.

  • Sounds like the guy needs to learn some dick control. Have him rub one out before he comes over next time LOL

  • it means he had the time of his life sorry girl but we orgasm so fast and sleep so fast no cuddlling

  • It means that he's very attracted to you because he couldn't stand being in your long. Also could mean you're very good or first time jitters.

  • At this point we can only conjecture what it means. I would say it means he enjoyed it a lot since he couldn't hold back, but can't be sure.

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