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A response to an anon's question, "Why Don't Men Have The Same Sympathy For Female Virgins?." I didn't want this to be my 99th MyTake, but whatever. I'm dealing with a Femcel simpleton over there who'd probably erase my post anyway. So I'm just officially making it a MyTake.
"Why Don't Men Have The Same Sympathy For Female Virgins?"
It's because women are the gatekeepers of sex and can literally lose their virginity whenever they want, while the vast majority of men have to demonstrate value before even the most unattractive of women would give them the time of day.
It's like how in The Simpsons, Lisa Simpson comes off as an unpopular loser and nerd, but will also sh*t on and look her nose down on male unpopular losers and nerds in her same school, like Milhouse, and then wonder why people have sympathy for him, but not her. It's the same exact premise.
"Plenty of adult women are virgins NOT by choice and it can be pretty sad."
Bullsh*t. This is contradicted by also saying, "Anyone could lose it if they wanted." Except for men, rape is literally the only option they'd have to "lose it whenever they wanted." It's then contradicted even more by her saying,
"I want companionship. The sex is just a byproduct of being in love."
Which means, it is 100% a f*cking CHOICE for you, then! You don't get sympathy for being entitled and waiting for the perfect man to marry you! You want love, and that's perfectly fine, but it is a CHOICE, if you are saving yourself for the perfect man. You're not in a choiceless position as a female, thus aren't entitled to any sympathy. What about that, don't you understand?
For women, it is QUITE LITERALLY a choice if they are a virgin or not. There is literally only two ways a man could "easily" lose his virginity: rape and paying a prostitute. And contrary to popular belief, hookers and escorts aren't as abundant and easy to find as you think (you'll just have to trust me on this.) At best, in the modern day and age, you have sites like Eros.com and EscortAlligator.com, and previously Backpage.com, but the Trump administration mostly shut down almost all of the escort sites that used to exist and the few still remaining operate outside of US and Canadian jurisdiction.
Speaking of which, you're even more SOL if you live outside of the US, Canada, England, Australia, or The Netherlands. OR if you don't live in or near a major city in those countries. So unless you want to advocate for more desperately lonely, near suicidal, unloved men to start raping women, you really can't compare male loneliness to female loneliness.
And no one even criticizes female virgins, anyway. If anything, they're held in high regard, as both marriage material and as not being disgusting selfish whores in a day and age where whores are abundant. Female virgins are treated like gold and oil, while male virgins are literally mocked and bullied into suicide and committing mass shootings by calling them incels. And then the pieces of sh*t who mock and bully them, act all surprised when they drive such men into extremism, as if they literally had nothing to do with it.
You want to talk about a lack of sympathy? You have an 18 to 24 year old female who is more-than-likely attractive enough to get laid anytime she wants and complaining about a "lack of sympathy" while millions of men unlucky enough to be born to ugly parents and end up below six feet tall, ugly, or otherwise just have bad genetics, contributing to shyness and a lack of social skills, who get ignored by greater society daily, or at worse, labeled as woman-hating terrorists by piece of sh*t feminists and far-left extremists, just for existing.
But no, YOU have it "bad," miss college-aged, in-shape, young female whining about men "not wanting to marry her." Unless you're morbidly obese and/or have poor hygiene, you will never even come close to knowing how badly some men have it in society. And in today's day and age, even extremely obese women have no issue finding male suitors. (I'm not even turned off by them, myself.) And they're the ones who would struggle the MOST to find companionship being female.
So WTF is even this question? "Why don't men have the same sympathy for female virgins?" NO ONE trashes female virgins. Like, at all. Women always have a choice to lose it or not. Men do not AND are mocked by society for being virgins. But YOU want "sympathy?" Are you kidding me?
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THE TL;DR VERSION & MAIN POINTS:
1. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships and many of them don't even like how much male attention they get.
2. Female virgins are more likely to be praised for their chastity than criticized.
3. There's no short supply of horny and/or lonely men out there, and not all of them, or even most, are "creeps."
4. Being picky and entitled and waiting for a perfect man to marry, IS a choice, thus you aren't given sympathy as a woman, for being in a "hopeless situation" like so many virgin men are.
5. Without being physically attractive, suave, or wealthy, men's only options are rape or prostitutes, and the latter are hard to find and expensive. It's hardly a "choice" with such limited options as those.
6. Most male virgins in their 20s and older, are referred to as "incels" and mocked by both women and men, especially if short, overweight, or not conventionally good-looking.
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