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READY TO BREAK UP WITH BOYFRIEND?

We’ve been together 8 months and my needs haven’t been met despite me brining it up many many times. Needs such as I’m not getting oral, we don’t really go on dates except have sex, he’s not there for me when I need him and a few more things. BUT the problem is he’s very dependent on me emotionally and sexually he says I’m the best he’s ever had. He worships my pussy. The few times I tried breaking up with him he begged me not to and somehow always diverted the conversation. He isn’t a bad person and we get along as two people, but he isn’t making me happy. How should I do this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Tell him all the moment when you need him and he haven't been ther.
    Ask him why he want to keep going in this way and make you unhappy.
    And if he promise he will change:
    1. don't let him 1 day to forget
    2. be shure you get in a situation when you need him so he can aprove himself
    3. don't let it be only 1 time when he make a sacriface or strugle to keep you happy
    All the time talk whit him and ask him and be shure he can keep up whit you're expectation.
    If he care so much for you and you 2 get along then you been the woman in his life you have the power to change him in something bether, the only condition is that he olso need to want to change.
    you're situation is not diferance from my crusels brake up.

    • What’s your crusel?

  • Bring it up and talk about it in a mature manner. Literally just talk about your needs and feelings about this without insulting him. If you've done this and he's continued his behavior that makes you want to break up with him, then do it. You can't fix him or repair him and people don't change overnight, so end it if already brought up.

Most Helpful Girl

  • You gotta be straight up, my girl.

    End it. Do not let him try stopping you. Of course he is going to be upset and beg you not to go but that doesn't mean you're obligated to stay with him. You're not married...

    Text him and tell him that it's over. He will be emotional so I'd suggest suggesting to him that if he wants to discuss it, then do so later.

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  • You are not his mother or his therapist. You have already waited too long.

    • Should I just ghost him then

    • No. He'll stalk you. Just sit with him in a non-intimate situation and tell him that your relationship is not working out and you do not want to pursue it further. No explanations or recriminations... points of negotiation. It will hurt, but it has to happen. Glad it's not me.

    • His dick gets hard the moment he sees me. How do I manage that when I’m trying to have a serious talk?

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  • If you still like sex with him tell him you can't see him. as a boyfriend, but you don't mind having sex with him until you find a new boyfriend. In other words become friends with benefits, but only if you like the sex.

    • Why would I want that

    • Because it's sex

  • Good luck

  • Yeah sounds like it’s time to end it and get what you need

  • Let's talk in dm

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