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Sexual Health Really want to give a handjob but don't know how to get it going?
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We been dating a few years now, and only recently started kissing and stuff on the bed , we are in our 20s but I have had some serious problems with wanting to do things like that due to past experiences so to my boyfriend kissing and stuff has been a long time coming But now I really am interested in giving him a handjob and all I've thought about recently is how to go about it and I don't know how to go for it especially because we haven't done anything like this before and it's not really a case of talking to him either as I feel like it would be awkward to say oh by the way I'm suddenly feeling sexual How would you go about it?
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What Girls & Guys Said
1 31How hard is it really? 😅
look at porn maybe Pornhub and get to see how it is done
Un zip and do it. Don't think
Just touch it
ask him to teach you
Guys are easy. Just do it. Seriously. Reach over, grab the crotch. Good to go. Or just ask. Actually don't even ask, just tell him you are gonna give him one. We are not gonna object. Ife a cute girl, especially if its our SO, wants to give us a hand job, we are gonna be 100% okay with it. Wake him up with one, give him one before bed. Before dinner, after dinner, DURING dinner, while he's watching TV, playing games, on his phone, etc. Anytime is sexy time for us
Can’t he has waited that long, that usually happens after a month and a bj which is much better because we can do our own hand job. It’s pretty easy to do, just look at some porn
Handjob with no bj sound boring af. You got lube? You can’t give handjob without lube which is usually your spit. Sounds lije you don’t have much experience. Id say don’t force it. You will eventually get there. If I was your boyfriend you would have already had dick down your throat if we were making out.
You've been dating for some time, so you should feel comfortable just to bring up the conversation with him (this tells me you aren't comfortable enough with him in general if you can't). But, next time you're making out (has it ever got really intense? Hot and heavy?), just while you're doing it, reach down and start rubbing his pants a bit there. Chances are good he'll just go along with it. But if it startles him, if nothing else it'll help you bring up the conversation. Then just say, I feel comfortable enough to give you a handjob, would you like that? And don't be afraid, I can't imagine ANY guy saying no. Especially if you've already turned him on making out.
And if he did (on the off chance) turn you down, don't take it personally as it most likely will NOT be because of you or he doesn't want it, but something else to do with him. Example, he's TOO excited and worried he'll orgasm immediately and be extremely embarrassed.