Sexual Relationships 
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Reasons I love Being The Side Chick
Note: All of this only applies to women who aren’t delusional enough to think he’s ever going to leave her for you. He’s not. They almost never do, and even in the rare cases when they do, and the two of you actually make an attempt at a real relationship, it will ultimately be doomed because you will never be able to fully trust each other. That said, if you aren’t looking to break anyone up, or steal anyone’s man, but just want to enjoy being a part-time lover, here are some reasons why you might absolutely love it.
The Build-Up
Whether it takes place over the course of one night when you first meet, or you know each other for months, there’s always that time before you give in where you really try to not sleep with them. Maybe you’re genuinely trying to hold back, or maybe you’re both just pretending to hold back because A) you want to appear to be good people, and B) the whole “oh no, we mustn’t” game is insanely hot – either way, those hours/days/weeks before you give in are the most intense foreplay ever.
None of the Boring Stuff
You know that feeling when you’re in a relationship and you have days where you just don’t feel like putting in the effort? Sure, you care about the person, but you really can’t get it up to, like, have a conversation with them, or pick up their dry cleaning, or have the mind-numbingly dull “what should be do for dinner?” conversation. Sleeping with someone else’s boyfriend means you get to be their shining escape from the monotony of monogamy, not a bored participant. That’s a very fun role to play in someone’s life.
You Feel so Much Sexier
Odds are, if he’s stepping out on his girl, he’s bored of fucking her. Or he wants you so badly that he’s going to sleep with you despite being happy with her. Regardless, no man will ever make you feel as desired and beautiful as the one who know he shouldn’t be with you, but is anyway. Being the other woman makes you feel awesome about yourself.
It’s Incredibly Exciting
Of all the kinds of chemistry you can experience with someone, there is absolutely nothing hotter than the forbidden “we really shouldn’t be doing this” sexual tension you have with a man who’s taken.
You have More Time for Yourself
Sleeping with an attached man means you aren’t obligated to see him except when you want to, and have time. He’s not going to be taking over your TV to watch sports when you want to watch Mad Men; he’s not going to be hanging out waiting to talk your ear off when you get home from a long day of work and just want some peace and quiet. “Oh, you feel like going to dinner right when I have yoga class? Call your girlfriend (and then call me later.)” You’re always free to say you’re busy and it’s no big deal, and even when you do see each other, he’s usually just in and out.
You Can Skip The Gym
Nothing gets your heart rate up like contemplating the possibility of his girlfriend coming home early from work. Being the side-piece comes with built-in cardio. Yayyyy!!
It’s Laid Back
Who cares if you do or say the wrong thing, or have food in your teeth, or didn’t have time to shave? There’s a refreshing freedom to be human and flawed when you know all those little imperfections are overshadowed by the biggest turn-on of all: You’re not his girlfriend! That’s a pretty hard boner to deflate.
Having Secrets is Fun
It just Is :)
What Girls & Guys Said
18 29Okay, have fun being the side chick.
There' no shame in being second best, except the shame.
the only reason, 'I'm a truly shitty and vile excuse for a human being'
What happens when his wife or girlfriend comes a knocking?
Keep it on the DL.
Next up:
"Why it is great to be a robber!"
Stay tuned!
Lmao 😂
lol leon i will begin working on "why it is great to be a pornstar"
friends with benefits is totally the way to go.
Lol smh..
I like you.
This why I like Feminist lol hahahahahah
I've been the side guy but didn't know it.
You have no self respect and you're just pussy to the guy
He probably wouldn't even care if you got hit by a bus
If you read the Take, you would see I don't care about him either.
I'm afraid you're wasting your time trying to reason with morons. Being self righteous is the American way. Be careful, the morality police are coming for you.
Exactly! The feeling is mutual. lol
You are greasy
Congratulations! Here's your trophy...
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I cum first though.
Girls don't cum
Congratulations you are terrible in bed. *hands back trophy *
How am I bad in bed if I cum 100% of the time?
the fact that he doesn't get it is even more hilarious tbh lmfao 😂😂😂
Damn it dude
Ger ee he hesey...
... and yet girls say guys are the "bad people"
Love it. Well written, ignore all these haters!! I've been the other guy, and had a side chick. They are both awesome experiences. Thanks for not being ashamed to write this, it's the truth!!
I would want most of these as the main chick too.
Ah... you are a wannabe concubine.
so that side chick is you huh lol
If men cheat, they gotta cheat with someone right?
Everyone here is an alleged puritan, except for you and I. lol
@Osprey No Osprey. We just sow all our wild oats whilst SINGLE.
I was just kidding. But it's still not nice to be one. I wouldn't do something that l don't want someone else do to me.
i dont see how being a side-chick necessarily correlates to half of these points
What do you mean?
It's an interesting point of view. I could have generated a better discussion if posted at another site. GAG has sooo many self righteous types it's difficult to get any sophisticated conversation going, but thanks for the take.
Agree 100% ^^
Right cause being proud of being a side chick is a great discussion topic.. LOL..
@JDavid25 I think this one is just over your head.
That's what people always say but they never explain.. Meaning there's nothing more to it.. So, there's no need to get pretentious about it.. LOL.. What you mean is "I like your point of view, and all the others who don't are just self righteous a-holes"..
@JDavid25 Yeah that's it.
Cool enough kid.. LOL..
@JDavid25 I think what she is trying to say is that GAG is a terrible place to sample a community for any 'gray area' topics bc GAG doesn't have all walls of life to be honest. GAG has like one type of person... and a couple of us are sprinkled in here and there. So unfortunately a topic like this one, which is rather interesting to be honest, won't be treated like it should... as a topic of psychology and sexuality... and instead the masses will just treat her like a retarded slut bag. But if you travel the world you'll find lots of cultures that don't adhere to having only one partner at a time and if you study biology very few animals do as well. So this topic isn't about a 'slut bag' but more the basics of what makes us carnal and sexual and confident instead of conformity to social standards and norms. But that's just my two cents.