Why You Should Never Have Sex With Non-Dream Girls

Many things we say; love, passion, drive, humility, cockiness, etc. are huge abstractions that mean something entirely different to me than they do to you.

One abstraction that I think is perfectly concrete, however, is that of dream girl. It means the same and something totally different to every guy in a perfect balance, since we all understand it as the girl that's better than the best--the girl you previously only thought existed in dreams.

With my being able to conjure up, in your head, the idea of your dream girl, let's then endeavor to discuss why never to have sex with girls who don't fit this description.

REASONS NOT TO EVER HAVE SEX WITH NON-DREAM GIRLS

LOW QUALITY SEX, LIKE PORNOGRAPHY, WILL DISTRACT YOU FROM THE REAL THING

Some guys with some game and some patience put down the porn and get out there to meet some girls who just want to be loved. The thing about talking to 9s and 10s rather than 5s and 6s and even 7s and 8s (who many guys agree on being the sweet spots with both looks and personality) is that these girls are shockingly mean in many instances. They are shockingly so only because they're cruelty, which every human being has regardless of looks or gender, is delivered in so cavalier a manner. If you are fat they will call you fat. If you talk to much they will say you talk too much.

If you are shy, they will tell you that they need a more aggressive man. Many girls will think this, few will say it. While you think you'd like to finally hear the truth so you can work on it, it can be a lot to take in if you're not used to. However, IF IT IS TRULY IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO BE WITH GORGEOUS GIRLS YOU NEED TO BE TALKING TO GORGEOUS GIRLS. It is too easy a distraction for you to talk to girls who are outside of this gorgeous dream girl circle since they will make you happy as well--just not really happy. if you want to be really, really happy you have to give up to go up.

Why You Should Never Have Sex With Non-Dream Girls

DARKEST BEFORE THE DAWN

Many will try to convince you that everything in life should be relatively easy if you can control it. Yet, it's when we've lost all control and given into the bleakness that things finally turn around. When you feel you've hit the rock bottom of going for what you want and failing you can rebuild in a better, healthier way. Sex with non dream girls, again, makes you happy, it keeps you content, but it also prevents you from tapping into that strength of personality, character, charisma, that you never thought you had but which is what you need to be with the girl of your dreams

ONCE YOU REACH THE TOP, IT BECOMES A BUFFET

The problem most guys can never get over is the feeling that since the girl controls sex that she is in a position of power over him and since he's so horny maybe groveling like he would for water in the desert might make her merciful and give it to him. When he has an oasis at his disposal, he feels no need to be so desperate.

This is not about feeling he's better than the girl but simply that his life would still be relatively fine without the sex--he won't die of horniness. As much as you might want to "fake it until you make it" doing so only distracts you from the fact that if you are still feeling the need to debase yourself to appeal to a girl who you want to have sex with, there's still more work to do on the inside and that is because you are off of your purpose and living the love life you really want to.

Why You Should Never Have Sex With Non-Dream Girls
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  • Nice! Guys, quit getting with basic bitches.

  • Good MyTake!!

  • Darn! These girls in the pictures surely look like my dream girls :D