Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
As we already know, most the myTakes I’ve written have proven to be very controversial and this one here is no exception, so if you are a judgmental SJW, a feminist, or just a plain old gynocentric sheep stuck in limbo, I suggest you close this window right this instant! Now, if you are a very open-minded individual looking to add a little hedonism to your life, then you may continue to read on because you, my friend, have come to the right place.
Anyways, not to bash anyone but lately here in this site I’ve been reading a lot of questions and other Mytakes written by females on how today in 2016, women are so liberated that now both genders can enjoy casual sex and many other sexual activities without any boundaries and consequences. But I’m here to say this is all bullshit and casual sex is not what it's cracked up to be. Luckily, prostitution is not officially dead and in this myTake I’m going to explain my reasons why I choose escorts/prostitutes over having a real girlfriend, friends with benefits, etc. Everything I'm about to say is based on my own views; I did not write this to change yours.
Escorts/Prostitutes get straight to the point
I’ve said this over a dozen times already, yet too many people are too delusional to analyze this. Guys, for the last time, no woman out there fucks for free, whether you met her at a club, bar, the mall, in the streets, etc. and you:
· Had to take her out to eat
· Waste gas on her
· Buy her drinks
· Buy her gifts
Or just spend anything on her just so she can go to bed with you then you just PAID for the pussy. Even like this the sex will never be promised in the end. But with an escort/hooker on the other hand, it’s the total opposite: not only do you get straight to the point with them but the sex will always be promised in the end.
You always get what you paid for
This is basically a continuation of the above but yes, not only will you be bound to fuck when it comes to hiring an escort/prostitute but you will no doubt get what you pay for. Since you gave an escort/prostitute what she wants in exchange for sex then that sex will no doubt be outstanding. She will do things to you or let you do things to her that your real girlfriend/fwb is too chicken shit to perform.
They are safe and discreet
Let’s face it, unlike a girl you met at a bar, club, or anywhere else, when you have sex with an escort/prostitute, it's between you and her and therefore there is no need for her to go gossip to her friends or anybody else about what happened between the two of you. This is probably the last thing she wants to do, anyway. You also don’t need to worry about any of her jealous ex boyfriends hounding your ass the day after nor do you need to worry about her other customers getting jealous, as they are paying her just like you. Also, an escort/hooker will never have sex with you tonight just to run to the police station tomorrow to file a false rape case against you.
They are down for whatever
Again, when you are with a prostitute, it's all business; you want sex and she wants to get paid, so with this in mind she is down to do or let you do to her whatever you want to do that your actual girlfriend or friends with benefits is too chicken shit to do. These could be many things, such as your favorite sex position, BDSM stuff, or any other deep fetish you may have hidden within.
They are experienced
Whether they do what they do for a living or as a side job, you bet your ass that she is experienced in what she does and she will most likely take pride either way and not hesitate to give you a good time. Remember, you are paying her and she knows she must work hard to earn what you’re giving her. So no matter what, you’re bound to have the time of your life with an escort/prostitute.
They can be cleaner than an actual girl you meet at a bar, club or any other social venue
For quite a while now society has held a stigma on escort/prostitutes such as labeling them as filthy drug addict skanks filled with STDs. Now I’m not saying this is true but this all depends on where you find her. Obviously if you find a sex worker in the middle of the ghetto who is:
· probably a drug addict
· doesn’t sleep or eat right
· doesn’t make enough to afford medical insurance because all her customers are cheap jerk-offs
· fucks her customers without protection just to make a few extra
· most likely works for a pimp who takes all that she makes and beats the shit out of her in return
Then yeah, you are bound to get STDs from them. However, if you find her in more secure places like Craigslist, Backpage or any other organizations who:
· more independent
· serves the right clientele
· makes a lot more money
· are aware and know what they’re doing
Then you’ll be just fine. With this said I bet that you will be more likely to get STDs from bar/club’s sluts who would do anything for a free drink and any other bullshit.
They aren’t choosy/picky
No matter what you look like, do for a living, or what your status in society is, an escort/prostitute will always treat her customers the same. Unlike bar/club sluts who will only fuck you if you look like Tom Cruise or Brat Pitt or have anything that they’re gonna benefit from in the long run. They obviously don’t need to build an emotional connection with you before the sex or whatever it is that most women say they want before actually engaging in sexual activities. Also, unlike a normal girl you meet at your local bars/clubs, an escort/prostitute never expects you to have “game.”
Now in the past I have lurked on a few escort pages on Backpage and I've seen some put things up like “no thugs!” or “I love older white men.” Nevertheless, this does not mean they only serve specific types of people, as being choosey can hurt their business. I also don’t blame them for not wanting to give services to thugs.
They are always available when you need them
Most escorts don’t mind working during the night or even midnight. So, if you work during the day but want to get your freak on at night, then escorts are your best option.
They come in different shapes and forms but no matter what they will always above average
Self-explanatory! Escorts know they must look good if they want to be good product for their customers. Not too long ago I was once again lurking on Backpages and ran into a lot of hot, gorgeous women with outstanding bodies. I even saw one BBW there that made me drool.
They will always leave and stay out of your life after sex
Charlie Sheen couldn’t have said it any better himself when he said he doesn’t pay hookers/escorts for sex but he instead pays them to leave. You see, nowadays our society is so gynocentric that most women still have high expectations even with simple things like casual sex. They think that just because they had sex with you it automatically gives them a golden opportunity get into your life and try to form attachments. In other words, most seem like they can’t tell the difference between a hookup/one night stand and true relationship sex. But with an escort you will never have this problem; they will never call or follow you around afterward to learn about your personal life.
What Girls & Guys Said
26 32The women on here saying all/most hookers are hideous are way off the mark. I spent some time in a US resort city a while back for work; a lot of them were walking the street on the route I took to the gym every night. There were some absolutely stunning young women out there selling tail. Not from makeup, but naturally beautiful.
And no, I didn't partake. But I can definitely see the OP's point for those who don't want to deal with relationships. If you have the cash you could have sex with an amazing woman every night, then go on your way.
Yes, it was illegal there; one night I saw a girl that didn't look quite right, just didn't have the right attitude about her. The next day there was something in the news about the police running a sting. They couldn't fool me.
you bet it, this weekend i had sex with an angel she was really hot and no makeup.
They're hotter than basically every woman. Most of the women commenting here would be like those super cheap ones or get kicked out.
nice post
I agree about using escorts if you are only in for the sex.
for what more you would go to a scort.
Everything has its pros and cons
Good for you. So long as you treat those girls right, nothng wrong with enjoying your time with them.
I'm not sold on the idea. I've had sex for zero cost.
so you never paid for a dinner, the movies at cinema, or the money of gas, or a room, and all that she paid it, well that is amazing if is true that you never spend a dime, but consider that not all men have the same advantage than you so you cannot speak for all, neither i.
@jdmejia he obviously has paid for that, its too bad his account is no longer active but just like the rest of the dudes in our modern day society he was probably too damn blind too see it this way
indeed, is quite sad how the gynocentrism of society blinded all , well as i used to be and put pussy in a pedestal...
THERE ALL ABOVE AVERAGE LOL!!! HAVE FUN BRO
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I agree this Asian girl does escorting and she is way above average.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_KAD0gs_9Q
Go on backpage and look for yourself. Creepy ugly average basic dolled up dirty. The minute you see a pretty picture just drag and drop it on google. Lol mad search results come up even when they're believable. They do have stds. Or at the very least STI's. Yikes.
She's above average. Not a goddess per say. But still above average the same way a couple of girls at the club are. And definitely would never be on backpage. Unless she's dirty but I doubt it... Most escorts look shittier.
@bruises Sugar babbies is not too off from escorts and many young/attractive women are doing this. Women also in colleges/young models are actually whoring themselves out for money as well. In fact even at instagram level hot young girls guys are lusting after escorting (they usually have their email up for enquiries) for money. So hate to beak it to you but its not even majority below average girls available for men A wide spectrum of girls are into prostitution in some form or the other (under different names) these days. Reason for it is break down or morality in society and feminism making women sexually liberated.
@bruises yup I've seen plenty of escorts and prostitutes most look like crap why don't they just stop I don't know i don't know there life
@BubbleBoy69 i respect you more than the op for having standards. A crazy amount of regular bitches look just as good and better and don't sell themselves is all. I would know. But i get why you would spend money on that for the discreet aspect and getting to do what ever you want. Casanobra on the other hand is just... lol.. With that post. Backpage? Fyl.
My bad bubble boy. I clumped you in with him as most likely thinking backpage basic was above average because it came off like you were agreeing with him. Props to you.
yea that's an example of the ones you will find in the ghetto. dont know if you missed it or not but i did pointed this out as well
look this is all stupid prostitution is bad in general and we need to get women and men to stop doing it
Sluts are not better looking than hookers
LMAO...
Pathetic in my opinion. Sorry for that.
Is it any more pathetic really than men being court jesters for women until they deem you worthy of having sex with them?
@BubbleBoy69 lol that's not how it actually works unless that's just how you yourself unfortunately have it. You pay to fuck dirty below average or average at best girls. Who were just fucking some old ass crack heads and creeps. Way more pathetic by a long shot.
@bruises Dating: 1. You go on unspecific number of dates in which when the woman decides she will have sex with you. 2. Men must approach women, men often are the ones who must lead and come up the topic for discussion, men are often the entertainers. 3. Women enjoys being entertained by the man eventually she will give him sex. And usually money transfer in dating/relationship are from where? Men to women. Now let look at escort/guy relationship. 1. You find a girl you are physically attracted to on an escort page (sorry but not all escorts are gutter trash). In fact a lot of women who are into escorts are above average to beautiful in attractiveness. 2. Honest relationship and you know your on the same page with her and have an agreement. Whereas in dating you can't tell what the girl intention are. She could be using you for free meals, attention, just bored, and at any moment after you;ve invested time in her can drop you without any hesitation.
@bruises
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3. You get what you ask for. And if you pay extra get companionship feeling of a girlfriend too with her. It's not so different from relationship men have with a lot of girls who they call girlfriend. Where if you stop entertaining her (which usually involves cash) she drops you or if another guy who she perceives better than you wants to get into a relationship with her she'll also leave you.
@BubbleBoy69 It's pathetic because guys agree have poor skills in a lot of major stuff that you need to survive life as a good person.
@BubbleBoy69 I tried explaining this they aren't smart enough to get it it's reverse sexism.
I'd like to point out that your idol, Charlie Sheen, has an incurable STD.
I know that, I never said he was perfect did I? and its not like you can't get any STDs from chicks who aren't escorts/prostitute. having STDS to me is no different than living a miserable life that was initiated over something useless as the pussy.
As long as the prostitutes are grown and can make their own decisions and you aren't some molesting creep, Irdc what you do with your life. Either way you're wasting more money on a prostitute than an actual relationship.
"Either way you're wasting more money on a prostitute than an actual relationship." please dont give me this bullshit, men today pay more than just money in relationships nowadays. lets not forget that right now sex is all I want (since I do have a sex drive unfortunately) and dont you think it sounds a little illogical being in a relationship just for sex?
no, why pay for it?
did you actually read the Charlie Sheen part? or did you just saw the picture and jump the gun?
I actually read it but you could not pay anything to a friends with benefits and still get all of that and a hot meal. Prostitutes are too risky... I don't know your life
women in america aren't fit for friends with benefits material. most can't differentiate between a real relationship or a friends with benefits one, some feel degraded if you only expect sex from them, and the ones that dont mind being your friends with benefits will always expect you to look like Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt. also I dont want to have sex with the same person over and over again
Most of them escorts treat you very bad. You have to find a good escort who'll treat you not bad, which is not easy.
I got scammed really badly by four prostitutes. I never want to have sex again.
you got my attention, what they did to you? i only got scammed by 1 of 25+ or more i fucked. any case gives information so i don't get scammed to, also don't give up try to seek other ways, also a prostitute scam is not as harsh as a scam of a non prostitute, because she even will make yopu look like the bad one.
As a former john myself, I can tell you this article is on POINT! for those women and men who think it's a loser who has to prostitutes and have sex GUESS AGAIN! Married men, Politicians and Police officers are there largest clientele! So don't think for a minute it's only lonely social rejects who do it. Second, not all sex workers are on drugs or work the streets or have pimps, that is a perception brought up by the media. Sex Workers are your neighbors next door, they do it because they love what they do. And as hard as that may sound, they do! if it's okay for women who are non sex works to go around on dates and expect men to pay without no sex then why is this so wrong? is it that women are afraid that they can't tip the scales back in their favor in the dating game and have more control? if you use sites like tinder, POF, and Seeking arrangements is that not a form of prostitution. I know we gonna have some deflection about this argument but at the end of the day if you use third party sites to hook up then that is essentially a third party procurer of prostitution because your paying a website to find you women for the sole purpose of sex, there is no way around this, people these days are too afraid to be social especially men. Street harassment has created a dynamic where men fear saying anything to a woman. so if you want to blame why men use prostitutes at a more frequent rate, blame this femenist, SWJ society for the idea that all men are evil rapists, you man haters are the reason why men are giving up the dating scene and going down this road.
Amen brother! nice to see that we are in the same page
Yes. This. Feminists and SJWs are up on their pedestals and they think that they have some sort of sway over how us guys live our lives. That because we see escorts we are losers that we have to pay for sex. Guess what ladies. As this guy has said, law enforcement, judges, lawyers and anyone you think that is beyond this seedy underground scene, see escorts. Why do you think it is allowed to go on? If it were to be stopped then what do you think would happen? People would start rioting and most likely rape would escalate and the world would go into total chaos. Would you rather have that? Guys like me see escorts because we have been emotionally damaged in one way or another when we were younger. And we are through feeling rejected. Escorts do act and give us a perceived interest but that is better than being rejected over and over again. These girls at least appreciate our company and don't judge us. That is the most important thing. No judging.
As long as we are respectful and clean they gladly enjoy our company. Even if its not 100% real. It eases the pain and suffering we have had to endure. Thank you to all the escorts that have helped me. You have saved my life and it means more to me than you'll ever know.
@likestoplay amen brother! you sound like the twin brother i never had. also lets not forget that not only do escort not reject you but they also dont act choosy and put expectations on your ass. they dont require you to - be over 6' tall - be attractive - have status and many other bullshit that this modern day savage women love doing. and not only is the sex they offer us is always well above average but they also leave and dont fuck with your life after you the sex and transaction. now that is something i will never feel guilty of paying
Nice article, keep up the good work
Great takem This will be disliked by girls who have slept around. They hate feeling undesirable
Bro, I rather fuck prostitutes instead of sluts. I don't know, maybe bc sluts are manipulive liars?, and well, prostitutes aren't? Haha that's probably why. At least I won't know if the prostitute fucked all my friends 2 and I don't have 2 meet her boyfriend then bang her thats so weird.