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Reasons Why I Hold Such Negative Views On Female Promiscuity

Reasons Why I Hold Such Negative Views On Female Promiscuity

Today I write this take because as an MGTOW advocate I've been hit numerous of times with such negative statements like...

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hy are there so many complaints about female promiscuity?

Why is it so common to hear MGTOW men say that women who've slept around are used up and low quality?

Why do MGTOW men slut shame so much?

And the list goes on. Of course, since MGTOW itself is not a movement, a cult, or a gang like feminism is I can only speak for myself, though I'm pretty sure a lot of us share this same mentality. Anyways before I start I would like to point out that I am not here to criticize or tell women what they need to be doing with their life, who should they fuck, how many guys they should fuck, etc. because obviously who am I to judge? Either way here are the reasons why I am against female promiscuity.

1. Women always expect MORE than just sex.

Reasons Why I Hold Such Negative Views On Female Promiscuity

Yes, this is the foundation on why I'm against female promiscuity. since before starting puberty I was always told that women enjoy sex as much as men do but as time goes by this has started to sound more like a myth to me. I mean if women really did engage into sex just for the sake of pleasure then WTF are they not only just extremely choosey with who they want to have sex with but why do they also put so much expectations on their sexual partners before and after the act of sex? Such as

Expecting their sex partner to provide them with the status they are desperately fiending after. (like Kim Kardashian for example)

Expecting their sex partner to take them out for free food/drinks/smoke, etc.

Always expecting an emotional connection  with whom they have the sex with

Never wanting to move on and leave the man alone after the sex

Hell, I've even brought this up numerous of times in this site (and in many other along in real life) and you'll be surprised how many bullshit statements I've gotten upon bringing this up. Here are some of the statements I've gotten from the female members of this site that pretty much proof my point, don't know if they would make sense to you or not.

Reasons Why I Hold Such Negative Views On Female Promiscuity

Reasons Why I Hold Such Negative Views On Female Promiscuity

Reasons Why I Hold Such Negative Views On Female Promiscuity

Reasons Why I Hold Such Negative Views On Female Promiscuity

Reasons Why I Hold Such Negative Views On Female Promiscuity

Anyway, bottom line is it don't seem like women really do enjoy sex as much as we men do if they are this choosey about it and put so much expectations on it other than just the sex itself. Us men in the other hand we do enjoy sex and it doesn't take rocket science or a master degree in biology to figure this one out. Yet when we want sex we...

Don't expect our sex partners to be pros in bed

Don't expect anything from our sex partners other than the sex itself

Don't expect our sex partners to look perfected with big tits and ass

Rarely expect an emotional connection

Rarely built attachments

We are simply happy just if we got a vagina to thrust on. Women in other hand don't seem to be comforted with just a penis, they want the penis that is...

Willing to provide for them

Able to ejaculate free stuff that they can benefit off in the long run

Willing to beat the shit out of all the other penises that will try to get in them

Able to make other vaginas jealous

2. Women literally do become "used up" when they've been with numerous of sex partners

Reasons Why I Hold Such Negative Views On Female Promiscuity

don't get me wrong I was never an advocate of slut shaming. I never like the idea that women are like cars, you know the more you've drive a car the higher the mileage is and the higher the mileage is the lower the quality of the car will be. As much as I hated this concept recent studies have concluded that..

once a woman has more than 6-8 sex partners throughout her lifetime her chances of keeping a happy and sustainable marriage are only 20%

the more sexual partners a woman has the less number of serotonins she able to produce

these two things are enough to want to make any typical human being go against female promiscuity, of course I believe this also applies to men as well so if you're a woman you shouldn't feel so left out, but again is not that easy for the average man to have 6-8 sex partners in his life time. Obviously, I myself along with many folks who don't want to get marry or start a family right now shouldn't worry about this, but isn't this exactly what the vast majority of humanity wants? What hopes would all this bring to that vast majority?

also must not we forget that it was never we MGTOW who have decided that women who have slept around "are used up, or of lower quality"...you women already know it's true, which is why you make attempts at hiding your sexual pasts. You do it, because you want the big payday of a divorceable, rich man you can acquire, abuse, and bang Chads on the side. But you won't get that if all that's needed to lay you is a few hundred dollars and a few cosmos. So, they do what women have done best:

1) They lie, so they can do what they want. and 2) They shame, so that nobody calls them out on their BS.

3. Women stored DNA from every male sex partners they've been with!

Reasons Why I Hold Such Negative Views On Female Promiscuity

http://www.neonnettle.com/features/1006-study-women-store-dna-from-every-male-they-have-sex-with

yes, this is correcting in case you haven't seen the video and this means that women collect and store all the DNA of every single sex partners they've had in their life and she will eventually TRANSFER ALL OF THOSE COLLECTED DNA TO THEIR OFFSPRING. with this one said I'm guessing you have an idea on how I along with many other men who've come across this feel by now, having to know the fact that the all DNA our future partners have been collecting will end up being passed down to our own children? Especially the DNA of the loser scumbags that most modern women rip their panties to hoping that they will build status for themselves in the long run. Lets not forget that in todays world I think its fair to say that the average women have already had more than 6-8 partners by the time she's in high school. So, to sum up this whole section up all I can ask myself is...

WTF wants to start a family with someone who is bound to fail in a relationship, can't produce serotonin properly, but most fatal of all with women who carry corrupted genes with her that will eventually end up within her/your offspring?

Conclusion

There you have it folks the reason why I am totally against female promiscuity. Don't get me wrong again I'm not saying it must stop but I guess as of now I once again have my reasons to withdraw and not take part in any of this, but I think my views would have been totally different if women really did engage into sex just for the sake of pleasure over the sake of trying to use sex as an easy way to gain some sort of entitlement for themselves. But I believe this can all be corrected if we men for once learn from our mistakes and stop putting the pussy on pedestals once and for all! So basically, I'm not against female promiscuity but against female dishonesty that result from promiscuity.

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  • I'm going to address the last part first: there are no references and I'm fairly certain that this is "fringe science" or outright fiction.

    Secondly, about your main point: women DO enjoy sex as much as men - the difference is that (most) women don't enjoy CASUAL sex like men do.

    (From here on out, let's pretend I use the word "most" in front of any reference of men or women. There are always exceptions, but I'm talking about the majority.)

    Sex is a different experience for women than it is for men. For men, sex CAN be purely physical, with no real emotional component - and that's usually what casual sex is. But for women, sex is almost always deeply emotional as well as physical, and because of that, it isn't comfortable or enjoyable for most women to have casual sex - she's too connected and too vulnerable and she can't just enjoy the sex for SEX. Women strongly prefer to have sex WITHIN RELATIONSHIPS WITH AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION - but once she has such a relationship, women can enjoy sex as much or even more than men do.

    So, the difference here isn't "how much" men or women enjoy sex - the difference is whether or not they can enjoy CASUAL sex (i. e., sex outside of a relationship). And, yes, that's very different for men vs. women, and no one is suggesting otherwise. Your Take ignores this difference, and thus just confuses the issue (conveniently for your argument).

    If you want sex - and plenty of it - be willing to be in a RELATIONSHIP with a woman. Statistically, no man (except a handful of superstar celebs) gets laid more than a man in a relationship. Single men trail far behind in sexual frequency.

    If you insist on casual sex only, well, yeah, that's not going to be easy, and yeah, you're going to have to take a lot of girls on a "real" date or three, and even then, sex isn't a sure thing. Oh well.

    Women aren't wrong for being different than men, any more than the reverse is true. And while there are certainly some problems with modern (more radical) feminism that need to be (and increasingly ARE being) addressed, this really isn't one of them.

    You just don't want to have to play your part in the game (either the casual sex game or the relationship game), and instead you want to change the rules. Well, that really isn't going to happen, so learn to deal with it. You'd do a lot better by simply learning to play the game WELL, than by whining about the rules of the game and blaming women for something they can't change.

    • well I hope your right about that being fringe science because if I do feel like starting a family one day I don't want the DNA of all the losers my future wife fucked getting passed down to my kids. well yea to sum the rest of it up I guess most of them do enjoy casual sex along with free food, free smoke, free drinks, free gas rides, etc. and so it must suck being a woman then since the only way they seem to enjoy sex is by building attachment, lol more reasons for me to continue fucking prostitutes instead.

    • Your post made a lot of sense but i have to disagree with the emotional part. I mean i do think its true fir some women but not for all. I think probably women who have had multiple partners dont need as much of an emotional connection. I mean if that was always true then how come some women in loving relationships cheat on their men with other men? Seems more like pure lust to me.

    • @lord_chilled Did you read this part? "(From here on out, let's pretend I use the word "most" in front of any reference of men or women. There are always exceptions, but I'm talking about the majority.)"

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  • i love sex and i don't have to have an emotional connection beforehand but i do need to find him beautiful and gorgeous for me to want to have sex. this is a must. certain facial features, balance of said features, etc.

    • that's good but its too bad that most women nowadays don't share the same instincts as you. the ones that do usually try to hide it for some apparent reason.

    • So how does demanding certain features differ from demanding money?

    • @zagor i guess anything can be compared to anything? not sure what you are trying to say but you are entitled to your opinion

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  • The claims about DNA assimilation or whatever you want to call it, is simply not true. It's an unsubstantiated claim that's simply not based on any scientific findings. Not only that, but if it were true, you could then also argue that women can become men. After all it's DNA that dictates if you're a woman or a man.

    Other than that, I think it's unfortunate that you converted to the MGTOW side because that usually means you just gave up. And while you're right on the rest of your critique of women, it's a very hopeless view to believe you won't ever find one that shares your values. You probably have just been looking in the wrong places.

    • they say "carrying" the dna. just because you carry someone else dna does not mean you're gonna mutate into that person. and yes I have giving up for the simple fact that I no longer see that women are worth the effort anymore. "You probably have just been looking in the wrong places." you know I get that a lot, just another NAWALT bullshit. converting to MGTOW has done more good than harm to me. it has helped me wake up and realize the nonsense our society has to offer us.

    • Well, as long as you're happy, I guess. Few things scare me most than ending up alone one day. Not today, not tomorrow. But being 60 or 70. Retired. Living alone on my own? No husband or wife, no kids or grandkids. No family dinners or thanks giving lunches. Better be damn sure it's what you want. The other DNA stuff, we just have to agree to disagree. Also, condoms.

    • oh well you can't even wipe your own ass in your 70s and beyond so why even bother trying to stay alive when that time comes? I also live by that George Washington quote that goes "its better to be alone than in bad company." if I make it to 60s or 70s I think I would appreciate being alone than in bad company the most by that time because you never what jerk is gonna do things that will shorten your life by then. you should really watch that Clint Eastwood movie Gran Torino whenever you have a chance.

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  • What are your views on male promiscuity?

    • not any different than female but at least we are honest about it. we don't expect anything other than the sex itself. as I tried to explain in point #1

    • Not all women are looking for gifts and prizes. And you can thank your brethren for enabling those who do.

    • yea that's what they all say yet they still contradict themselves with all their expectations. an yea its always the man's fault because one day we all woke up with this idea that if we pay women they will open their legs a little easier, and its not like we hold women at gun point for them to accept our money/gifts in collateral for the pussy. seriously whatever happen to? "put your money away, I'm not a whore or prostitute!"

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  • So if a woman sleeps with all the men in the world, then this child would have everyone's DNA. That is amazing.

    • yeap this means all the genes of the thugs, bad boys, delinquents and losers that she slept will eventually get pass down to the kids she decides to settle down and start a family with

    • Imagine how strong that baby's genetics would be. I think that is very interesting. I actually don't think its a bad thing. However, I am also disappointed because I was molested so I don't want their DNA in my future child. :-/

    • Wow, didn't know that happened to you... Im sorry,, But the study isn't quite proven so, its not necessarily true. And even if it were, most of the dna would be the kids dad, with a very minute fraction of the other guys traits minglin in here and there.

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  • no u

  • Oh dear... so I did some digging on the article you referenced regarding the absorption of male DNA via sex. That statement is completely speculative and not based on data. Read the article below which breaks down the conclusions of the original PLOS ONE paper.

    http://www.snopes.com/women-retain-dna/

    Given this finding, I highly, highly doubt the other quoted conclusions you have presented here. Can you link me to actual studies?

    Nothing about this take rings true. You first claim that women don't really want sex... but this entire rant is about women having too much sex and therefore becoming undesirable to you. I think the main problem is that... women don't want to have sex with -you-. And you realizing that has morphed into this anti-woman sentiment. You absolutely have the right to live the MGTOW way... but plainly misinforming and lying to people is pretty fucked up.

    • hey thank you for taking the time and expressing your views, your time and effort is really appreciated and i'm pretty sure you can find the rest of the statistics with a simple google search which is exactly what I did and across doing so I also came across that its no different for men either but let me guess you failed to see that one ey? " I think the main problem is that... women don't want to have sex with -you-. And you realizing that has morphed into this anti-woman sentiment" yea only you would know because you obviously took the time to interview all of my past sexual partners as well ey? "but plainly misinforming and lying to people is pretty fucked up." you do know people do have a choice to not agree with me if they want right? just like you did but except that you took the time to fill me in with 3 paragraph filled with ad hominems just to show how butthurt you are from the truth, but thanks for sharing your emotional agendas with me as well

    • also last time I heard you claimed that you were a virgin yourself so I don't see why this is striking any of your nerves unless you are a feminized SJW looking for pussy/magina points just to feel a sense of acceptance

    • You didn't address my main point at all, which is that the conclusions drawn about that study are false. That's misinformation. You're telling me to research your sources when you clearly didn't do that yourself. That's a bit hypocritical. You're right, I did throw in some ad hominems. You've been writing about this topic for a very long time now and it's almost always the same thing. A lot of opinion backed up by dubious evidence. Instead of suggesting that scientific study supports of any of these claims, you should just be honest that these are personal rants. I'm not annoyed by your opinion- I'm annoyed that you present your opinion as the truth (which I've already partially debunked). That's doing a disservice to everybody reading this stuff.

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  • I think promiscuous people are a higher risk for cheating for whichever partner isbthe higher earner. However, since men are typically the higher earners, they risk more by marrying a promiscuous partner.

    The other factor is that mens standards for casual sex are much lower while women have higher standards.

    This means a man who has slept around is usually above average in terms of looks and or social status. If he wasn't, he wouldn't have been able to get so many women to have sex with him without a relationship. So if a woman overlooks a man's sexual history she is getting a guy who is more attractive and more exciting than most of the men who haven't slept around. And if he does cheat, the woman will collect alimony and child support.

    With women however, they don't have to be anything special to sleep around. Sure there are attractive women who are sluts, but most of them are average looking with nothing special personalities. So guys don't really have as much incentive to overlook a girls past. And if she cheats, he is still the one getting screwed if he's the higher earner.

    The dynamic of men lowering their standards to get their dicks wet also allows women to play out of their league.

    For example, if you are an average looking guy and you date an average looking girl who has slept around, it is unlikely the guys she hooked up with were like you. If an average looking girl is having casual sex it will usually be with men in the 7-8 range of attractiveness. Men who were better looking, more popular, and more experienced than you.

    So you are getting a girl that all the hot popular guys lowered their standards for to get easy sex from. she's the girl lots of guys had, but nobody wanted to commit to. However, a promiscuous guy is someone lots of girls probably slept with in hopes of eventually getting commitment from only to fail. So the girl who gets him to commit is getting something lots of other girls wanted but couldn't get.

    The man who gets to commit to a promiscuous girl is doing something none of the other guys had to do and something none of them wanted to do.

    • I agree all the way! basically we men are bound to lose no matter what in this game of promiscuity and that is why I once again against it. it all seems like a trap for us. but the sad part is that lots of men even those who are above average and have been successful don't even realize it; they jut simply assume that they are successful with women because they simply have "Game" aka something that doesn't even exist

  • Personally I have no problem with promiscuous women I just differentiate between the women I have sex with and the women i pursue a long term relationship with. Promiscuous women in my view are a bad bet for anything serious and good only for a pump and dump. But that's just my view.

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    • Are promiscuous men good for long term relationships? Are you saying that's a female only trait, or are men that enjoy a few "pump and dumps" also out of the running for a serious relationship? Just curious.

    • @CheerGirl38139 promiscuous men must be because women will pick one over a less experienced man nearly every time. All I'm saying is men instinctively don't view promiscuous women as anything serious. Men and women have different relationship prefrences that the opposite sex may find unfair ie women's requirement for 6ft plus tall guys. Obviously I'm talking generally.

    • I hear you. Im. just asking what YOU think about the qualifications of promiscuous people for a serious relationship. Are they equally unqualified, or Not? If not, then why Not?

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  • Female promiscuity leads to overall degeneracy, that's the main issue.

    Allow me to elaborate: men typically are built and driven to impress, hence why men create stuff, do some daring things, reveal something, invent something etc.

    However, the more promiscuous woman is, the more her moral standards, values and perception of things lower themselves -- ie degenerates.

    If this degeneracy spreads across females, sooner or later it will directly affect men, who (to match up the demand) will have to alter their behavior as well in order to attract women.

    And this will quickly lead to an overall degenerate society.
    I hope I don't have to explain just how society of degenerates looks like.

    • oh you really don't need to explain it as we are already witnessing it here in America. but what's even more disturbing is that almost everybody here is either too blind or don't want to see/hear about it at all

    • Indeed; as I observe the West, I understand more and more why a lot of foreigners (inc. those from North America) that still have common sense and brains intact tend to move to my country.

    • true I myself am one of those people, I'm sick of living in this hell hole but I just don't know where to go. not saying I see anything negative on Russia but I kinda find it surprising that the smart western folks are choosing your country as their destination

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  • WOW! You said a mouthful...

    • I tried to keep it simple but there are so many damn reasons I can think of

  • I want to be a virgin when I get married to my husband. I love him too much to sleep around with boys who don't care enough to commit.

  • See that 3rd point is a scary part. I dont know if it was you or someone else but i did hear about that before on here.
    If i see enough evidence as to that theory being true my preference for virginis will become an exclusivity.
    I mean goddamn... Thats some freaky stuff

    • *virgins

    • true but lets be real now your chances of finding a virgin nowadays are around 0% to 0.5%

    • You just gotta look at younger girls. there's plenty of girls after highschool they didn't do it yet, but probably will in college, you catch them there, there's a good chance you get to keep her without any priors

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  • Promiscuous women are gross. There's a difference between a man sleeping around and a woman sleeping around.

    • You are 50% troll and 50% xper whore 😂😂

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