Recently posted that myself and husband haven't had sex in 7 months now I saw he's been trying to buy viagra online please explain what's going on?

[Anonymous]

Honest opinions please what you think might be going on, does he not like me, does he have problems he's only 30

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I always say a blowjob a day keeps side chicks away & when it comes to sex if you are not getting it in a relationship you are most likely getting it outside of the relationship.

As for your husband anything is possible & it’s possible that he is having performance problems & he’s ordering viagra to experiment a little. It’s possible that he read your post about not having sex on 7 months & he’s getting ready to please you. It’s also possible that he is pounding someone else if you aren’t putting out.

Ask Him.

[megabamse]

Well he has erectile disfunción and he is ashamed of it and dont feel like a man anymore, and he tries to hide it. So this has nothing to do with you. He has a tuff time now and you should support him and make him feel safe. There are any number of things that can trigger erectile disfunción, a damage of some sort, hormonal problems, and some medicine can do that. Like many ADHD and ADD meds have that as a side effect. Some heart meds, some blood pressure meds and some antidepressants can do that. Also if you have gained weight it can sometimes happen and then losing weight is what would help In that case.

[Asker]

So basically I just need lose a bit of weight? I know im about 6kg over weight im chubby just not gigantic, hopefully I can lose it in a month or two

[megabamse]

Are you the one that is the man with erectile disfunción? No he is. And he is the one I'm talking about, not you.

[SadyConfused1998]

I heard penis problems can happen at any age.

I think you two need to have a nice sit down talk

[Gent207-2]

He has erectile dysfunction and you two are too damn busy to have a conversation

[AviatorTom]

Talk with him. He may be having erection problems, and if that's true, it's important that you stand by him.

[Dargil]

Sounds like he's trying to solve a problem.

[Asker]

But is the problem that he's not attracted to me? I saw his phone history he watches porn the problem isn't that he doenst get horny he does

[Grond21]

What is wrong with your sex life?

[Mansearching]

Talk to him. He maybe getting ED and not comfortable talking to you about it.

[Asker]

Does it come on out of nowhere? We've never had problems when we were sexually active

[Mansearching]

Yes it does.

[honestanswersonly_]

Sounds like he's gone limp. It happens. If he gets it and bangs you be happy.

[hbg84]

You need to talk to him. Find out what's going on. Ask him if he is dealing with anxiety or depression. I suffered with anxiety for a few years and it did cause issues with performance in the bedroom.

Then i got on meds that caused other issues.

You just really need to be supportive of him.

[yuviii2012]

He doesn't get sexual arousal and is not getting it from you. Engage him in sex and talk to him. Play seducing games and tell him his natural stamina is good and he doesn't need Viagra.

[boobliker]

maybe he can't get a hard-on. ask him and play with him do the wife bit in the bedroom, not saying you don't already

[In_Trance]

poor or non existent communication is going on

[Luckycharms12]

He is horny you aren't giving him what he needs clearly

[Asker]

What am I supposed to do then

[Luckycharms12]

Fuck each other. Both need it 7 months that's crazy long

[CubaPirate]

Is he suffering from anxiety depression or other mental health issues. Because speaking from my own personal experience that can have an effect on a guys sex drive and performance

[MasterKS]

the poor dick loosing its ability.

[Asker]

But how would he know if we haven't had sex for 7 months, it never went down before when we were in the middle of sex

[MasterKS]

you sounding so funny! If he gets erection problem he know it, do you need to have sex to know your pussy will be wet or not?

[EradicOne]

I guess in my opinion it comes down to if he is trying to make an attempt at all to have sex with you after ordering and receiving the Viagra. It can't feel great to his self esteem if he is feeling like he isn't staying hard or maybe he feels like you would like to be experiencing something larger. But ya, honestly the problem isn't the ordering and taking pills, it's if he is taking them and not trying to have sex with you afterwards. I'll be quite frank, guys don't take such pills to masturbate. I would definitely be having a talk with him if he is not making any effort to have sex with you. Best of luck.

[Anonymous]

Problems probably, sometimes i can't get it up either

[Anonymous]

The first question is why to post personal & private information on social media?