Recommended sex positions for a couple where the guy has a big penis and the girl has a big ass?

[Anonymous]

I've only ever been with one man, and unfortunately, we've been having difficulties having sex because his penis is so long (8 inches). At the same time, my ass is very big too, so some positions like spooning sex won't work for us.

I don't know what to do, we've talked about it at great length, tried many positions, so please, if you have any advice, leave some for me to read below.

[Anonymous]

A big ass doesn't really make any difference though.
When you're in mission your legs are spread and there's access to the vagina.
When in cowgirl it's the same.
When you're in doggystyle position bent over your vagina is completely accessible because it's not actually between your ass cheeks.
I have a 6 inch dick and my girlfriend has a big ass and even I could fuck her anally in spooning position with no issues.
Ass size just isn't a factor.

[Asker]

My ass is really heavy, when we spoon, you can't see my pussy or access it. I hope that makes sense. Even prone boning is more difficult because my ass is in the way when he tries to lie down on top of me. Hope this makes sense.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sure. Are you really obese or something? My girlfriend has a big ass like Jennifer Lopez in the 90's. Her cheeks are big, her crack is deep. I love it and I've never had any problem getting my modest 6 inch penis balls deep in her from every angle.

[Asker]

I think my BMI is 24, so I'm still at a healthy weight, but I carry most of my weight in my hips. Hope that makes sense.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not familiar with that. I would be interested to see what kinda ass could block a penis from a vagina? Let alone a big 8 inch one. I love big butts and I never had any issues. The only time I here people complain is when the guy has a big belly. He just can't do some positions.

[Asker]

Hmm, I'd say having a big ass for me personally is like having a big belly, just from behind, I hope that makes sense LOL. I love my ass, my boyfriend loves it too, most positions work, and he does a *very* good job at thrusting. Oh. My. God. We're still really new at this, so I guess we'll just have to try different things and figure out what we like best along the way!

[Opinion Owner]

I still don't understand. I was married for 15 years and there's just no possible way your ass can block a penis unless you're morbidly obese or you're laying too flat when he's thrusting from behind you.

[Asker]

I'm pretty sure I'm laying too flat and that this is the problem.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, you gotta be face down, ass up, legs slightly spread so your lover can mount you. That way your pussy and asshole is on display and ready for business. He should be able to get balls deep in you if you make sure to line up with him good. The flatter you go, the more the angle changes and the more likely he'll pop out of your vagina. If you lay flat on your stomach the angle will be extreme making him have to thrust through all of your big ass to get to the hole.

[Asker]

yeah, that makes sense!

[ChrisMaster69]

Have you tried it with a cock ring / stopper?

it would mean you can do all the positions without your cervix getting smashed about

[Asker]

We have and loved it :) I just don't like using one every time.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah they are a pain (no pun intended lol). Rolled up news paper and train him not to bottom out on you It really is a case of him learning to read you more.

[Asker]

I don't know what "not bottoming out on me" is supposed to mean, but to be honest, he's really good at knowing when something hurts me and I usually just tell him, I want sex to be enjoyable and painless.

[ChrisMaster69]

Bottoming out as his cock all way in Rolled up newspaper to nose a few times lol

[Asker]

Oh, he only ever "bottoms out on me" when I tell him to. Are you referencing cocaine?

[ChrisMaster69]

Lol lost me on the cocaine I was referring how you train a puppy lol

[Asker]

Oh, I don't want to hit my boyfriend or use his pee to "train" him :D "rolled up paper to nose" sounded like a reference to cocaine to me.

[ChrisMaster69]

Lmao Yeah I can see how it would lol

[bzcxx]

def enter from the back while the girl is laying on her tummy. it's my favourite position and also one that brings my girlfriend and I the fastest to orgasm

[Asker]

This hurts my cervix a lot, his dick really is too big for that.

[Asker]

Still, when it doesn't hurt, it's nice :)

[bzcxx]

hmm then maybe cowgirl as you're in charge of how deep it goes

[Asker]

I love being in charge to avoid pain, LOL. My boyfriend doesn't want to hurt me obviously, so being in charge is the easiest way to get the best of both worlds.

[Hotwifebecky]

That is us. My hubby is 10 inches I have a big ass love it doggy

[RealMarek]

Cowgirl should work well for you.

[es20490446e]

Doggy, so you take advantage of both.

[poneglyphs]

Reverse cowgirl, missionary, and probably prone bone might help

[Steve-ram]

Hmm as I'm 8 inchs too, the best one is cowgirl, try it you will like it

[Mangospacho]

Doggystyle and Cowgirl should be fine. My woman has a huge ass and doggystyle is perfect because I can watch her big ass bounce with every thrust. Cowgirl is also really good if your guy has a big penis because you would get really deep penetration riding him.

[RCLJT]

Hon, if that’s your idea of a big ass I suggest you look at the truck sized rear end of Kim Kartrashian.

[Asker]

Kim Kardashian has a hip circumference of 45 inches, mine is 48 inches. I just picked a random picture to go with this post. Stop insulting me please.

[ThebestIndian]

Reverse Cowgirl. Give it a try.

[Asker]

I have and while he likes it a lot, it definitely has the potential of hurting, especially when I sit in a 90 degree angle to him lying down.

[ChezzD]

doggy is probably the best for really allowing him to open you up. Although be warned a big guy can really go deep on doggy. You could also go on top and give you more control

[Anonymous]

What is your heritage?

[Anonymous]

Mine is a bit longer than 8" and ex-wife has a very big ass.

50% missionary.
40% prone bone (rear entry where she is laying flat on the bed face down and her legs are together)
10% her on top.

[Asker]

Love prone boning, but it still hits my cervix in an uncomfortable way.

[Opinion Owner]

Tell him not to go so deep.

[Anonymous]

Probably reverse cowgirl

[Anonymous]

Doggy is great for that case

[Asker]

Unfortunately, doggy style hurts a lot because his penis hits my cervix way too hard, it's really painful for me.

[Opinion Owner]

Then try missionary in that case your ass won’t be in the way

[Opinion Owner]

I can feel your problem very well Bc I’m struggling kind of Bc of the same reason 😕

[Asker]

I like missionary. He's circumcised, he can't cum from only doing missionary for that reason.

[Opinion Owner]

If you want to you can message me I’m April9i