Reflecting sexual fantasy to real life?

Three days ago, I was surfing Twitter, I found a Blog of couple (Husband and his wife) are sharing their diaries. They are reflecting the fantasy of dominant (husband) and submissive (wife) into their lifestyle. They are living the daily life as Dom and Sub, and she enumerated the humlation that she receives daily and she is very tolerant with that. Actually, I got shocked and feel that those couple are suffering from a psychological issue.
According to my understanding, the BDSM and roleplay fantasy it's just occasion something for fun to break the routine during the relationship not more. But reflecting it is to reality is totally against the human dignity and could be immoral, and from my side I may consider it as self harming offence.
Am I right or I am just were absent from the new updates of the society?
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Update: just to clarify what kind of humlation that is practiced in this diaries. The husband is beating his wife in a regular in her head, sometimes until bleeding (she showed a picture of her eye are swollen), during gathering with friends he slaps and Spits on her face. He says that he may order her to remain for 2 days without eating anything.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • For many people into BDSM it's about more than just sex, but also domination and submission outside of the bedroom. The way I see it, it's mostly about very traditional gender roles. I actually think that aside from enjoying kinky sex that's the main reason a lot of people get into BDSM because it's easier to find that there.

    As for the things you mention here about him beating his wife in the head or ordering her to not eat for two days, I'd say that is a sign of some kind of mental problem. BDSM is supposed to be safe, sane and consensual. If it's real they both have issues, but more than likely an incel is behind both of those blogs and they're probably pictures he's pulled from elsewhere.

    • Agree with your opinion, I think there's an issue behind this weird behaviour.

  • My question to her. This may be what she wants. She’s most likely choosing this it’s not being forced upon her. There are some girls not many that want and need this... I know few... I’ve repeatedly asked them if they wanted out and i would help them... but they really wanna be there. Whether you like it or not or agree with it or not it’s their choice. Just make sure they’re there by choice.

    • Yes, you are right

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  • what some husbands and wives do will shock a lot of people, however it is not for anyone else to judge them, its their marriage and life,

    • It's not judging at all, It's inquiry about how does such thing is normal between people. I did not sneak to their room. They posted their blog for public and I am inquiring if that is normal? Because I never known about such things before.

    • sorry but you did judge, " totally against human dignity, and could be immoral"

    • It was my own opinion, you may have a different opinion it's alright. And I posted this question to show my opinion and to know people's opinions, that by the end will lead to more understanding.

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  • people are into so much weird stuff that u will loose the ability to get surprised n shocked

    • Really it's weird, at the beginning I thought it's a troll but after reading the blog I found it real and there were some people are admiring them

    • Oh yes i personally get so many weird requests n some people share their stories with me n i feel like puking

    • Hopefully our minds can adopt a moderate base among this amount of confusion

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  • You are absent from society if you did not know this.

    it’s always been a lifestyle.

    it’s only the movies and porn as such that made it a bedroom thing.

    it’s natural, normal and complex.

    • How does it come? It's a total breach of the first base of human dignity. I can not believe that someone could accept that lifestyle

    • It’s not, it’s actually more trusting, more emotionally connected than a vanilla couple. A vanilla couple are far more likely to cheat, to have domestic violence. Within a D/s setup Trust is critical, as is respect. Also you are getting confused with S&M and not other aspects. Basically you are commenting on something you know nothing about.

    • I am commenting based on a basic human value "human dignity"

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