Rejected giving him a blowjob?

My boyfriend tends to want me to give him a bj, hed put his dick near my face instead of asking me for one. But i always refused. I see it disrespectful for him to never ever ask, but always put his dick near my face. Guys, how would you feel like if your girl refuses to give you a bj? And girls, how would you feel like if he never asks you for it, nor never talks about it, but only puts his dick near your face? I mean, at least talk to me about it, instead of doing that to me.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes, I agree on my guy friend did that to me during a walk in the park but he actually put it in tho even though I kept pushing away and say no but since then I usually offer first. That went my first bj. Yes, it is rude if he does not ask first. It is your mouth not his to put his dick in without consent first. There must be a discussion of sex and oral sex before hand unless u offer first then he has the power to accept a bj or decline. I personally think he should respect that you do not want to blow him like that and if he does not I would say break up with him and find a man that respects your body and mouth.

  • I've never had a guy do this to me but i have to ask, do you ever offer? You're boyfriends a dick for doing this but when it comes to sexual favors it shouldn't be one sided. Does he eat you out? do you ask him to? if he does and you don't he's probably sick of waiting for his turn and is trying to hint (not so subtly) that he wants his compensation. You have no obligation to return the favor and you should sit down and talk with him about this. You guys seem to NEED communication.

  • Sometimes he'd hint like that. Sometimes slap me in the face (playfully) with his dick. Was rare though... usually I would instigate sex. I'd sit on his lap. Or if we were cuddling I'd touch his groin area and he knew what was coming or I'd just start sucking him off. Occasionally I'd sit on his face... or push his shoulders downwards if he was lying on top of me and wanted him to go down on me first. Sometimes asking/talking kills the mood. Just wanna get on with it lol.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You should be saying this to him, not us. He probably doesn't even realise he is being a dick about it. Some guys are a bit clueless like that. Especially when all the blood is running away from our brains.

  • That's asking for rejection from most.
    Me I would ask first , if she doesn't want to suck me that's ok.
    I'm not just going to whip it out and shove it in her face , so disrespectful

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  • Is talking to you going to change anything. You already know what he wants. For heavens sake, have some fun in your life and suck his cock. Honestly, if you turn your attitude around 100% and extremely enthusiastically suck his cock and swallow his cum, you would actually enjoy yourself and feel good. Heaven forbid, eh?

  • There's more than one way to ask. Get busy!

  • I totally agree. A get on your knees and suck my dick Bitch would be better than just waving it in front of my face. I've never had that done to me but if a guy did that he wouldn't be getting a blowjob. Most of the time I get on my knees and ask the guy if I can suck his dick anyway.

  • I would feel that he was disrespecting me. It's one thing if I want to give him a blowjob or if I ask him if he wants to, another is throwing his dick on my face.
    I would have a conversation with him.

  • If my girlfriend NEVER sucks my dick, she won't by my girlfriend for very much longer!

  • I had a few girlfriends who refused to give blowjobs. Thats just fine. I prefer girls who dont like giving blowjobs :)

  • How does it feel to be a guy for a little OP? Does it sting? Yeah we deal with this kind of rejection everyday. I hope it stings.

  • I'd think that was pissy and we probably wouldn't last long. My girlfriend just does it no questions asked.

  • Yes it is disrespectful and should be stopped. Until he has your consent.

  • He's probably shy about asking. Just tell him it's ok to ask or hint without doing that

  • well thats just stupid, i would be polite about it and ask her. i would not just shove my penis in her mouth like feeding a baby "here comes the train choo choo".

  • I ask and my girlfriend still won't give me one, but expects me to go down on her all the time

  • Well , that was rude. You're not a tool lol

  • ... you should talk to him about it, that is if you really consider him your boyfriend,

  • I think you are overreacting, maybe he doesn't want to talk about and let your mouth do the talking..

  • I would pretty much say what you just did but to him. If he wants his dick sucked but you want to hear please I have no doubt he will have little problem with that.

  • My girl don't suck dick and I hate it that's why I'm getting my penis cut off

    • Lol nice troll mate

  • Some girls like assertive men

  • I'd slap her in the face with my dick. lol You opened youself up for that one! Srs? Not kewl.

  • Tell him to communicate with you. "Can't you at least ask?"