Relationship spices? How can a virgin lady make her relationship interesting with a man who is sociable and how can I keep him interested without sex?

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  • People, but mostly men, have always placed an overwhelming importance on sex/pornography in their relation. It is perfectly possible to live a happy relationship without sex.

    Sex is only destroying a relationship rather than to weld it together because humans have the feeling that it is the one single element that is worth being in a relation with another person.

    You can keep your relation alive by showing that you care in a million different ways. Sex only leads to misunderstanding, to cheating or to conflicts. Do you think that a couple that has been married for 50 years reached that milestone because of sex? Obviously not.

    As long as you do things together, be understanding and respect each other, you can achieve a much better life as a couple than when sex slowly destroys the harmony.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Keep him interested? If he likes/loves you, you won’t have to do much to keep interest.

    Sex is such a small part of life. Think about the % of time that actually will consume. Now, think of all the things the other 99% takes up.

    What makes those parts exciting? It is the emotional connection way more than physical. Those little moments that make you smile.

    You don’t need to “spice” anything. If he doesn’t want to stay in a relationship unless you have sex? Wrong guy.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Communication. If things naturally go well, you won't have anything to worry about.

  • You waiting until marriage? then maybe you should give him the date.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Well, is there a real prospect of a future relationship with sex?

  • Just be nice be the way you are

  • Why would you still want to be a virgin at 34?