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TRIGGER WARNING: The Bible says that ..."the truth shall make you free" ~John 8:32. But it can also trigger the greatest of negative emotions for those that do not want to believe the truth and prefer to stay hidden behind antiquated religious dogma.
If you are a Christian, or other type of religious person, be aware that this post may trigger you in ways you never thought imaginable.
Before subjecting yourself to unnecessary psychological trauma, you may want to move on to another post ...remember, you have been warned ...and no, I am not kidding!
HYPOCRISY AT IT'S FINEST
First of all, this is not an anti-Christian post, quite the contrary. I am a Christian and I have Christian friends. I have a girlfriend whose father is a pastor. Not all Christians think, or believe, the same way and I have a unique take on it. But, before I go there, I want to mention a post I saw recently from a blue anon about praying. Obviously, many replies were coming from Christians.
I do not pray every day but, when someone is in need, I will ask God to help them so I wanted to see what this blue anon and those responding had to say about it.
The first thing that jumped out at me was at least 4 members on the post, most likely Christians, had blocked me. I know Christians will block me all the time because many posts I submit are in the Sexuality Category, so since I am considered 'the greatest among sinners' to them, I am shunned and determined to be of little to no value.
Or they are afraid that they will be embarrassed in front of their other Christian friends to be associated with me due to my inherent sexual nature. And maybe not just Christians, but all those who hold their noses high with assumed moral superiority over all others.
I know this, as I remember the day, just a couple of months ago, that the most popular pink Christian poster on GAG, who everyone knows, blocked me because she did not like one, or more, of my posts even though I had replied positively to many of her posts about God and Christianity, and never negatively.
Here is what Jesus said after being chastised for refusing to shun the sinners around him...
Luke 5:29: Then Levi gave Him a great feast in his own house. And there were a great number of tax collectors and others who sat down with them. 30 And their scribes and the Pharisees complained against His disciples, saying, “Why do You eat and drink with tax collectors and sinners?”
31 Jesus answered and said to them, “Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. 32 I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance.”
It is so ironic that many Christians who claim to love those they consider sinners, instead shun them and toss them into the dumpster of life like nothing more than an old pair of worn out tennis shoes when they do not hold to the high moral standards that they alone set just as the scribes and the Pharisees did.
And again in John 3: Then the scribes and Pharisees brought to Him a woman caught in adultery. And when they had set her in the midst, 4 they said to Him, “Teacher, this woman was caught in adultery, in the very act. 5 Now Moses, in the law, commanded us that such should be stoned. But what do You say?” 6 This they said, testing Him, that they might have something of which to accuse Him. But Jesus stooped down and wrote on the ground with His finger, as though He did not hear.
7 So when they continued asking Him, He raised Himself up and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him throw a stone at her first.” 8 And again He stooped down and wrote on the ground. 9 Then those who heard it, being convicted by their conscience, went out one by one, beginning with the oldest even to the last. And Jesus was left alone, and the woman standing in the midst. 10 When Jesus had raised Himself up and saw no one but the woman, He said to her, “Woman, where are those accusers of yours? Has no one condemned you?”
11 She said, “No one, Lord.”
And Jesus said to her, “Neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more.”
So, are those who call themselves Christians on GAG, that want to block those they consider sinners, themselves without sin? ...just asking.
Now it is I who find myself praying for those who shun me and others, that God will open their eyes to the truth and learn to truly love those they think are sinners again.
Yes, it is ironic, and sad all at the same time, how it ends up being the sinner praying for God to forgive those that want to call themselves Christian, when really they are but sinners themselves.
MY TAKE ON MODERN CHRISTIANITY
THE FIRST DISPENSATION (THE OLD TESTAMENT)
God's creation and rules for living started out as described in the Old Testament. His rules were harsh and those who failed were immediately judged, condemned, punished or put to death swiftly.
THE SECOND DISPENSATION (THE NEW TESTAMENT)
Over time, things changed and God changed the rules and ushered in the New Testament based on repentance and forgiveness. Now in stead of "an eye for an eye" as described in the Old Testament, God taught us to learn to forgive our fellow man or woman for their trespasses against us (not to be taken out of context), but a stark contrast to what was commanded in the First Dispensation.
THE THIRD DISPENSATION ("TODAY'S TESTAMENT")
Now this is going to shock many of you but I believe that we are actually in the midst of another changing of the rules and a new dispensation that I am calling, "Today's Testament", which I believe is the third dispensation, already underway and being written about as we speak.
And here is why ...but remember my warning ...you can still leave this post.
God clearly condemns fornication (sex outside of marriage) and homosexuality (same gender sexuality) in the Old and New Testaments, and for good reason during those time periods.
First, the earth needed to be inhabited, so procreation was necessary. That could not be done in same gender relationships, thus they were forbidden.
Second, it is was and always will be important for a child to have 2 opposite gender parents for many reasons that I will leave to a different myTake. Thus God was opposed to casual sex leaving the women with child and no man to protect and provide for her during pregnancy. Then the man protecting and providing for both of them after as the child developed. And further, a boy child being taught by the man to be a man, or by the woman teaching a female child how to be a woman as she matures, but with a mothers loving nurturing touch along the way for both.
Today, although it is still important that a child have both parents, birth control is now widely available during this more modern time period, allowing casual sex without pregnancy thus the reason for restrictions on fornication (sex without marriage) are gone.
Also, the earth is now very widely populated so the reasons for restrictions against same sex relationships serves no more purpose as well, and has also been lifted.
BUT HOW DOES THIS MANIFEST ITSELF IN TODAY'S WORLD?
In a word, more freedoms. Oppression's have been lifted, mentally, physically and sexually both in and out of the religious church world.
In 'Today's Testament fornication is no longer a sin, but instead is sanctioned as an alternative form of pleasure to be enjoyed without guilt. You can be a Christian and have sex with God's Blessings now, whether heterosexual, Gay or Lesbian ...YES, it's TRUE, even if you are in church leadership!
Our God given sexual nature is now celebrated instead of being shunned by God ...Talk about a PERFECT WORLD! Yes, we are now in the midst of it!
We no longer have to hide and be ashamed of our sexuality ...we can come out from within the closet of guilt and shame!
...am I exaggerating or going too far? ...I don't think so!
The time of hiding from our true erotic nature and the arrival of freedom from sexual oppression is here! ...and why not? ...shouldn't it be?
And now, in this 3rd dispensation, our natural erotic nature is supported by most of the main stream Church's and religions instead of being shunned by it! ...isn't that the way things ought be?
And now if we want to attend a clothing-optional Church like this one in Virginia that are popping up everywhere, or the one in Spain that holds summer swimwear fashion shows, we can!
Wouldn't this increase attendance dramatically in some of the dull and boring dried up churches that are loosing attendance in droves? ...of course, it will.
Religion is no longer tied to the constraints of the antiquated Puritan world era.
Some of you got a laugh from this myTake; some who didn't heed my warning were horrified; other's were thinking 'maybe she's right' or 'wouldn't that be nice' :)
But no matter what, if we are a good person, it is worth considering a world where we can all be who we really are with a belief that God created us to be and do just that ...then, truly, what a Wonderful World this would be! ...you know I'm right!
WORK like you don't need the money
DANCE as though no one is watching
LOVE as though you have never been hurt
SING as though no one can hear you
LIVE as though Heaven is on Earth
~Sousa/Satchel Paige
And always remember...
"True friends are those who really know you, but love you anyway" ~Edna Buchanan
Lets enjoy the 3rd Dispensation of personal and sexual freedom and Heaven on Earth because it's here if we want it!
I LOVE YOU!
What Girls & Guys Said
5 33I don't believe that a third dispensation really exists. Your views on sexuality are definitely in the minority, at least in Christian circles. I am not shunning your opinion itself, I'm just stating reality.
Thank you for being respectful Mr KC, unlike other illiterates who can't read warnings
I was with you until the last section. It seems as if you've created your own god and live by your own rules. There's a lot of what I see as contradictions in the bible. For instance, Proverbs versus Ecclesiastes. I'm going to take some time to read what you mentioned in the beginning, but you can't possibly think that your last entry is by any means Christian. From what I gathered, it's satire, but not really. You're just creating shit out of thin air based on dubious speculation. If we just do whatever the hell we want, what makes us different than living the life of an ashiest? It's clearly laid out in the bible that you don't receive salvation by being a good person. You receive salvation by the mercy of Jesus Christ. Rationalizing sin by saying you're a good person is nonsensical. Are you active in your church? Do you attend bible study? Also, of course other Christians are blocking you. The pictures you're posting are wildly offensive to those who subscribe to Christian theology. It's as if you're being a provocateur to be a provocateur. In laments terms, you're clearly being an edgy asshole just to formulate an emotionally charged response.
All religions are the work of the devil, God does need or want to be "worshipped",
Only a narcissist wants worship.
@wagsingle yep damn straight,,,
Um you're not Christian but a theist Satanist if this is what you actually believe.
"Wouldn't this increase attendance dramatically in some of the dull and boring dried up churches that are loosing attendance in droves? ... of course, it will."
Actually it would not. Progressive churches are the fastest declining churches in America.
This type of of "Christianity" is actually atheism such that a person says i don't agree with this so ill change it. You yourself are making yourself God.
Matthew 7 “Judge not, that you be not judged. 2 For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you. 3 And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye?"
4 Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye. Did you forget that part? Maybe you never read the next two sentences? Or you just decided you dont like them since you're just making it up as you go along?
Where is the part in the bible about enjoying being rude to people? Isn't that what the Satanists you like to talk about do?
Quoting the Bible is in its full glory is never rude. Using little blurbs out of context is id say quite disrespectful and therefore rude.
You're a good example of why many people have run from and hate Christianity and none of your snide holier than thou remarks back are going to change that, in fact it just varifies it.
No you got owned and like a typical God hating rageful liberal you lash out. No issue with Christianity the issue is with those that ran from it to justify their actions. Sure there are bad priests as well. But all you need is a relationship with God in mind heart and spirit through his Son Jesus. You dont need Church, just His word and your faith and belief. You must believe
@Unfortunateguy27 When you are in a string with multiple people, you need to reference who you are talking to like this Mr @unfortunateguy27
@laurieluvsit one thing we can agree on 😂🤣
You. Miss luvsit
@Unfortunateguy27 I don't know how you got everything so wrong. It is all the opposite of everything you said. From my love of God and my conservative nature on everything save sexuality. Christians do not rain verbal/written terror down upon those they are trying to lead to God, so I'm not sure what that makes you, but certainly not a good man or any type of christian. I gave several warnings for you to pass up this post. You don't head warnings, and certainly not the ones that God has given you.
i guess not
Im a Catholic, with only a few sins. Gluttony - binge drinking, Thievery -stole from family to support marijuana addiction, and lust -pornography. Im not some psuedo Christian denomination practitioner
The Bible doesn't support anything you wrote. Therefore you made it up and therefore you can't be Christian as making up things would preclude you from being someone who follows God.
@laurieluvsit I think @bamesjond0069 is right here you sound like the Church of Satan
@JustiReno @bamesjond0069 Well, it appears that we don't need God, since the two of you are in charge of casting judgment upon the world. You may be surprised when it is you who will answer to God for your Pharacism and high mindedness. I warned you both not to come to this post, so you don't heed my warnings, just as you don't heed God's. I have had just about enough of you two heretics, but of course, that is what trolls thrive off of isn't it? That's ok, I'm about to give you what you came for :)
@bamesjond0069 Did you mention before that you were a former porn actor?
@KlinkyCoder I think you left out..."and a current troll"
@KlinkyCoder yes i was. And whats the relevance to the topic?
Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever. - Hebrews 13:8
For I am the Lord, I change not - Malachi 3:6
Casual sex (fornication) and homosexuality (sodomy) are MORAL issues and not reasoned by how you put it in the Bible.
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. - 1 Corinthians 6:18
Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire. - Jude 1:7
(Strange flesh referring to sodomy.)
Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination. - Leviticus 18:22
If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.
- Leviticus 20:13
The Bible is also COMPLETELY against abortion.
Are you denying that God changed the rules from the Old Testament to the New Testament? Do you know why one is the 'old' and the other the 'new'?
All therefore whatsoever they bid you observe, that observe and do; but do not ye after their works: for they say, and do not. - Matthew 23:3 (Jesus talking about the Pharisees) The moral teachings of the law are still applicable, and it is just the hypocrisy of the Pharisees that Jesus was against. I specifically knew you'd say something like that so I added verses from the New Testament about those topics. The New Testament mentions fornication being WICKED a lot, and sodomy is called an abomination, which is a word reserved for the worst of sins. You have no Bible to back up your false claims.
You sound like one of those incoherent transient looking guys screaming about Jesus on the street corner while on drugs sorry to say.
Very well written and very informative especially when it comes down to hypocrisy I have learned not to judge because we are all good people but also learned is when it comes down to sinning the biggest finger pointers are the ones with the DIRTIEST hands. If someone is happy with their life it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Keep on smiling 😇😁🎯
Gold star reply Mr Alex! :)
Different denominations of Christianity (including Catholicism and Mormonism) consider different things sins. In Mormonism, adultery is tolerated. In Catholicism, gluttony is tolerated as is hailing Mary over Christ.
The one and True is Catholicism, we also do not place Mary above her Son. We however worship her for birthing our Lord and Savior.
A lot of research on that
No you are wrong the Word of God does not change to soften sex pleasure is out of God's plan of marriage of a man and woman
@jimmy2 Can you rewrite that, please? We can't tell what you're saying without punctuation.
God is real just so you atheists and non believers know.
Let he without sin.
What meat do Catholics eat on Friday?
Is this a riddle? I'm not a Catholic, I don't know
Nun.
That's a good one! :)
When I heard it, I didn't get it at first. lol
Blocking someone’s posts on social media is not “tossing them on the dumpster,” shunning them, or devaluing them. If you’re not interested in what is on the television, you change the channel. When you do this, it has no ill effect on the performers who were on the screen. Everyone can choose what they want to see and what they are not interested in. That is just a choice—and not a significant one. It has no effect on you when I block you. It has nothing to do with your value.
I get what you’re saying what Jesus didn’t give license for people to just do whatever they felt like doing and throw out all of God’s laws. Yes, it’s true Jesus did spend time around sinners but these sinners knew they were in sin and were repentant. These were also not sinners who kept on sinning while hanging out with Jesus but the Pharisees and general community knew their reputations for being former thieves, prostitutes, etc.
I’ve read these passages you’ve cited multiple times and know the context of these passages. The purpose of the Messiah was not to just give everyone an excuse to sin. In fact, the destruction of Jerusalem after they crucified Jesus was a direct result of their unrepentant sin.
The truth brings up so much negativity because it convicts those who as you said don't want to believe and exposes them and shows them what a sad sad human being they are.
im gonna actually read the whole thing before putting in my thoughts ( READ THE WHOLE THING )
1) when you say Christians judge you in this verse - Luke 5:29 ( have come for the sinners not the believers )
there are 2 reasons for this, 1) is that they don't care and never cared, and the other option is THEY HAVE TRIED but the person does not want to listen and im telling you this from experience I HAVE TALKED and done radio discussions.
and some people just do not want to take the words of CHRIST into account. and mock us for it ( and guess what that is annoying ) so we grow a hard firm stance because the bible says
Matthew 7:6 - do not cast your pearls before swine ( basically do not waste to much time on someone who does not want GOD ) so if the person does not want GOD, ok I accept it
but they must accept the judgement that comes from it
2) now when it comes to adultery it is a BIG DEAL
people are killed everyday for it
a RAPPER just got killed for it, and i try to put this in the minds of women
WE MEN ARE NOT BUILT LIKE YOU
women avoid consequences
men do not care about consequences
men accept consequences
which is why its easier for us to kill you women
BUT NEVER FORGET WHAT IM GOING TO TELL YOU
JESUS SAID - GO AND SIN NO MORE
I ask myself, what if she would have said NO to JESUS
and she told Jesus that she was gonna keep committing adultery ?
what do you think would happen
3) the rules have not changed from old to new testament
GOD is just beyond loving and forgiving he is not like us humans
he literally wants to save rapist and killers
thats his love
not like the human race who wants to kill them
4) the gay agenda is satanic ( and no I do not hate gay people I have gay friends i want them in heaven )
the reason SATAN wants you have sex with women
is so you can't have kids
WHY DOES HE NOT WANT YOU TO HAVE KIDS?
GENESIS 3:15 - AND GOD SAID TO SATAN ONE OF EVES KIDS IS GONNA KILL YOU SATAN
SATAN got scared
and has tried everything to stop people from having kids
thats why LGBT is ban and always will be
5) I know you are very sexual and truth is,
I have no issue with it
cause I am to
trust me
I have my kinks
I just have a very simple rule
1 person per partner
we are not suppose to be going around
having sex with tons of people
( AND YES IT IS HARD) I have the urge as well
but you want my advice
find someone who believes in Christ and is kinky
so they can fuck you and treat you like a whore
and smack you around
cause I know you girls like that shit
and sex is not a bad thing
GOD MADE IT FOR US TO HAVE
but he has rules
and I try to follow best I can
you don't have to be perfect
just try
This dude is On Point! 🔨