Religous people do you think oral sex is evil and sinful before God (and secular people what's your opinion of it?

I personally think God created sex not only for us to reproduce but also for us to enjoy and have fun with it. Multiple Bible scriptures back it up.

I think oral sex is fine between husband and wife if they agree to it and no one is being forced. What's the harm in it?

My religion (Christianity) gives us allowance to do all things unless God specifically prohibits it or goes against our personal conscience.

1 Corinthians 6:12:

All things are lawful for me, but all things are not helpful. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.

Hebrews 13:4

Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.

Song Of Solomon was written in poetic form to reduce the sexual graphic detail between lovers, but I don't think the Shulamite is talking about a literal fruit. 😳😳

Song Of Solomon 2:3:

Like an apple tree among the trees of the woods, So is my beloved among the sons. I sat down in his shade with great delight,
And his fruit was sweet to my taste.
Religous people do you think oral sex is evil and sinful before God (and secular people whats your opinion of it?
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  • No where does the Bible forbid it or discuss it per se. There is no biblical evidence that it is a sin against God for a husband and wife to express love for each other in this way. Even the book of Leviticus, which mentions many Old Testament sex-related prohibitions and rules for the Israelites, never mentions it. We see no reason to believe that expressing affection for one's mate in this way is forbidden or would necessarily harm one's walk with God.

    We are aware that some have tried to make a biblical issue out of what parts of the body a married couple can and cannot kiss. In their minds, there is only only one biblical form of sexual expression in marriage, sexual intercourse. They attempt to defend their viewpoint on biblical grounds—trying to make it into a holiness issue. However, no where do we see Scripture putting such limits on the sexual relationship of a godly husband and wife, even Levitical priests (who were forbidden to do many things).

    Most knowledgeable and spiritually mature Christians realize that God is the author of sex and love, and every part and sensation of the human body, and that He intended the relationship between husband and wife to be loving, sensuous, joyful, creative and full of pleasure.

    Read the somewhat cryptic Song of Solomon from a lover's point of view. Using delicate, romantic language and metaphors, it describes a beautiful, affectionate, romantic, sensuous, joyful and passionate love between husband and wife. It seems to be speaking of the lovers tasting, eating and drinking of each other's bodies (Song of Songs 2:3; 4:16; 8:2). WOW! One cannot be sure what this means exactly, but certainly we see no evidence here or elsewhere that God is concerned with what part of their bodies might be touching, including where they kissed their mate.

    God's Garden.
    God's Garden.

    with excerpts from www. christiananswers. net

  • Personally, based on my personal beliefs, I don't think that oral sex is immoral, as long at it's between a man and a woman ONLY.
    However, my only objection is against unprotected oral sex. I think that anyone engaging in oral sex should use protection (rubber dam / flattened condom for cunnilingus, or a condom for fellatio) no matter what. The reason is that the microbial environments of the oral cavity and genitalia should not mix.

    Oral sex involving anal stimulation is in my opinion immoral. Generally, any sexual act involving the anus is immoral in my opinion. Protection is not an option in this situation, and should be used all the time, every time.

    Full-disclosure: I am a bit of a germophobe.

    • Oral sex with a rubber isn't the same sensation as with naturally being done.

    • Yeah, I know. It's kind of a bummer, but there's some serious risk there. The risk depends on an individual's sexual history, so not using protection requires a high level of trust. The reason is, I imagine that contracting the oral version of an STD would not be fun.

    • Like I said though, I'm a germophobe, so I am biased, and I admit it.

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  • Well there's 1 verse in SoS referencing female-on-male oral & 3 or 4 verses referencing male-on-female oral.
    I see no reason why it would be sinful, especially since it's the most effective method for women to orgasm. God made the clitoris for a reason, and it's most effectively stimulated to orgasm by oral.

    • Exactly. God don't make mistakes.

  • Oral sex is fine, i dont see the issue.

    I mean i get i hear before marriage, but most religous people i know just do anal in the meantime. (Supposedly still technically a virgin this way)

    • What kind of religous people you know? LOL

    • One of my best friends growing up was mormon, apparently it was the secret code to “staying pure” before Marriage🤷🏼‍♀️

    • Mormons are some wacked out folks. One of their beliefs is apparently God is in another planet (forgot the name) with his wives and having kids and Mormons will join him too with their many wives forever in his planet once they die. Stuff like this is for straight loons.

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  • I remember in high school we'd hit on the girls from the catholic high school because they were a lot easier than the girls at our public high school. Several of them I knew were firmly of the belief that giving head was preserving their virginity and not a sin at all, and really, who am I to argue?

  • The thing about Oral Sex is that it's not about whether or not it's immoral ('cause it ain't) but more to do with respect and hygiene. The same mouth that you utter the name of your Lord is being used in a place that if you saw someone else putting their hand down there in public, you would be grossed out. That's because this area has unhygienic properties to it. This leads of course to a number of health issues, including diseases like HPV, oral herpes, std/sti, etc.

    In my opinion, if you were to partake in this activity, make sure both people have a thorough shower before hand. Then when you are partaking, make sure to spit out any fluids instead of swallowing it. Then afterwards, thoroughly brush your teeth, mouthwash and if you're a guy, double wash your beard. Maybe throw out your toothbrush as well. Other that that, enjoy your marriage!

  • I'm a Christian, and believe oral sex is very normal.

  • Oral sex is perfectly fine. I don't see any religion proscribing it

  • There’s nothing wrong with any consensual sexual activity as long as it’s between a couple only.

    Sexual activity is actually required for a couple stay happy together.

  • No it's not evil or sinful in fact other then pornography and bringing people outside your union into your relationship ( threesome's, foursomes, etc ) aside from those two things being explicitly stated to be forbidden aside from those two things the bible has no rules regarding sex you are more or less free to do whatever you'd like with your partner so long as it's consensual.

  • From reading Song of Solomon I'd assume it's acceptable.

  • Oral sex primes the body for sex as of what I know. Some people would just do the oral sex but a lot of them start with it then go on to regular