Report lesbian rape?

[Anonymous]

so I Met this girl from uni 6 months ago at the beginning of my first semester. I didn't know anyone there on my first day but she was so friendly to me and we soon became friends. We would spend most of the day together since we were studying the same course. About 2 months ago, she told me she was lesbian and it was completely fine with me so I didn't really pay much attention to the way she jokes around with me or touches me. I thought we were only friends, even if she was into girls. Anyway, we had that room at uni called 'women's room' and usually not a lot of women or girls stayed there. So we would go there whenever study spaces are too packed to hang out or study at. Last Monday, we went into the room and I was making myself coffee when she came from the back and cuddled me. I really dont want to talk about this with much detail. But she forced herself on me and things got really physical. I tried screaming pushing her away and everything I could to get her off me but i couldnt, she was stronger. I'm still a virgin, however i was raped from the back. I dont know what to do. I couldnt tell anyone about it, even my boyfriend. I thought of reporting what happened but im scared she would retaliate by doing that to me again. I need help but dont know where to start from?

[DiamondKarma]

First of all I am very shocked and sorry for you. Do to the fact that I don't know that girl's character, I advice you to go right ahead and report her. No mater what she says or others say. Also tell them that you are afraid of her doing anything again and would like that someone has an eye on her. If that's not possible I would maybe also if you have any good guy friends who are close by or maybe even your boyfriend who checks on you daily. Someone who gives you back up. That back up doesn't have to be forever, just until you feel save again. Something that also helps sometimes (depending on the person) tell her straight into the face in front of a crowd of people that you will go to the news paper (you don't have to but it sometimes scares people) and everyone will know what she has done. Don't get me wrong I don't like harming people, but sometimes you need to be a bit harsh or else people will think you are weak.

I wish you all the best! Stand up for yourself.

[Bards]

She penetrated you with an object or fingers? If yes then its rape.

If she didn't penetrate you its sexual assault.

You must report this to the police quickly or they won't do anything or very little

She can't hurt you if you tell people. Tell your boyfriend, parents, police everything. Not telling anyone is letting her get away with it and ultimately winning.

[Elis678]

So, she could force her to sex, rubbing her genitalia against hers, but it wouldn't be considered rape, cause it isn't inside an hole? Or she could force the girl to give her oral sex, but wouldn't be rape. Law is retarded. Rape should be about forced sexual act, nothing more. This definition of rape is old and let alone part of the possible situation.

[Bards]

@Elis678 tis life

[abundantlyrich]

Hmm did you shower straight after that? If not, no proof. They won't buy it.
How can she rape you if she does not have a penis.. Why do I feel she's not exactly.. Human...

[blondfrog]

She didn't' rape you per say but she harassed you unless she put something inside you anally or vaginally then its rape but either way you didn't consent do it.

[Explore2016]

Thats what she said. Her rapist finger banged her against her will. She needs to go to the police.

[Elis678]

So, she could force her to sex, rubbing her genitalia against hers, but it wouldn't be considered rape, cause it isn't inside an hole. Or, a man could force a woman to oral sex, but it wouldn't be considered sex, because the penis went inside the mouth, and not inside the vag or anus. Law is retarded. Rape is about forced sexual act, nothing more.

[Sexualchrist]

You have to take action and report her. It's sexual assault and is a serious matter and will be dealt with seriously

[BertMacklinFBI]

report her ass.

case closed.

[bobwallice]

I'm really sorry that happened to you and I want you to know that you are an amazing person, never forget that.

[Hollywood-Glam]

You should report and don't be friends with her ever again.
Keep your distance away from her, she sounds dangerous.

[Asker]

Im scared of reporting her. Like i said she's in almost all my tuts and lectures. So ill probably see her everyday

[DiamondKarma]

Maybe there is a big chance that after you reported her, she will be taken out of all those classes you have together.

[PhoebeCaulfield]

There's no such thing as Lesbian Rape.

[VampireEmpress]

so she told you not to tell? tell everyone, report and stay with your boyfriend a lot.

[JCT666]

You HAVE TO report her. Inform this to the your university authority and the police.

[jakeofalltrades]

report her, and if you are scared of what she will do tell your boyfriend he could protect you

[apexalpha]

Report her to the police and uni you won't see her in uni any more. Also be careful since a lot of lesbians are violent and vindictive I heard!!!